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James, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Strasburg

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About Me

***The "cliffsnotes" version of ME*** I am a VERY positive person, have a great sense of humor & happy with myself. I feel like I have led a complete and successful life so far, but would love someone to compliment it. Someone to grow old with. :)BE WARNED!!! I'm always smiling and laughing; looking forward to the future and finding the good and fun parts of it. I'm a mature woman who hasn't forgotten what it's like to be a girl. I am a kid AND animal lover. (Notice that I grouped them together? LOL No, i really DO love kids!!!) I have a 17 year old son who is a busy senior this year, that I enjoy spending time with WHEN he allows me to. LOL I have 2 dogs; a GoldenDoodle and a YorkiePoo. (I know. LOL But don't judge, because they don't shed!) I love the sounds and smells of being close to the water. I REALLY enjoy fishing AND I'm not afraid to bait my own hook, BUT...I can also be a lady, dress up nice and stand by my man. I love to try new and strange foods. "I'll try anything once; twice if i like it!". I'm open to ALL kinds of music. I also like "hole-in-the-wall" restaurants and singing karaoke from time to time, but usually ONLY after a drink or two. :) I haven't traveled much, but as time passes by, I am enjoying it more and more. I am slowly wanting to start exploring unchartered territory, open to just about anything. :) ***Now, About the One I'm Looking For*** Most women won't tell you this, but...... I will have to admit, I like a bit of a bad boy -- not an awful, "I'm-going-to-treat-you-like-crap" kind of guy, but a GOOD kind of "bad boy". An exciting, adventurous and mysterious man. Even though I like a man I can "read" or a man that provides me with a sense of security, I still enjoy someone that leaves me guessing. HE will not only fascinate me, but bring out the best in me. HE only has eyes for me & can make me laugh. Laughing is essential! HE makes me smile even when he's not with me. HE is passionate and spontaneous. Family & friends are very important to him. HE can love deeply and be loved. Oh, and he has to LOVE to kiss!!! :) Let's just relax where ever we meet...become friends & get to know each other and see what happens. Because.....I am ready to kiss my frog! :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hardcore Chinese French Irish Portuguese Turkish Family & Kids Fantasy History Play Sport Games
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