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Chantelle, 44

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About Me

My profile seems to be evolving a bit as time passes. Funny how our priorities and perspective begin to change. There's no happy medium between "Dating but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship" but if there were a selection, that's what I'd choose >> Since friendship is a strong foundation for dating, I figure that's a good place to start. I don't put limits OR expectations on anything. But on the same token, I'm personally not into FWB - no, really. Ultimately, I'd like to find my perfectly fitting puzzle piece. Since I'm definitely not perfect, he doesn't need to be, either... Just perfect for me. Hobbies, hmmm... Wide and varied. Not into shopping - I'm missing that female shopping hormone. Although, Cabela's and Bass Pro do not count (they are the holy grail of retail experiences). As you can see by the list (way up there^^), I like a lot of different things. I value friends as much as I do my family, so spending time with them means the world to me. I love sports, but no, I'm not a Cowboys fan just because I happen to have been waylaid here over a decade. I will admit - their stadium is incredible. I'm actually a Chargers girl - always have been, always will be. Red Sox, win or lose, will always be in my heart, as well.Friends describe me as sincere, witty, affectionate, down-to-earth, and probably too honest for my own good. I'm very simple and live drama-free. By this age, most of us have some baggage - fortunately, I do NOT have stock in Samsonite > mine all fits in a mini ziplock. I've learned that I'm more of a giver so I'd like to find someone who is thoughtful, as well. Kindness and compassion absolutely charm me, and a rapier wit will keep me laughing for days. Communication is also very important to me. And if you don't have the time to date, please be fair about that.Please feel welcome to contact me if you'd like. If not, no offense taken, Happy Fishing! FYI, it's really not my nature to contact someone first, but if I do, it might just be a comment or question about a photo or something you mentioned. I'm not always "fishing."Yes, my photos are very recent. "Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog, it's too dark to read." - Groucho Marx ~ First dates are always nerve-wracking ~ How about something low key just to enjoy conversation and learn a bit about one another?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Joss

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    This about me section is hard..jeesh! Jk... I'm just a fun loving woman who believes in positivity, honesty and the notion of you get what you give. I'm looking for a man that can hold a conversation and engage me. I love to laugh, so a sense of humor is a plus. Im not into someone who is a show off or tries to impress me with possessions...what else are you bringing to the table? I would like to find a man who knows how to treat a woman, is honest and is looking for his best friend. I'm not interested in games. I'm a pretty straight forward person and I expect the same in return. I've been told Im too nice, but is there really such a thing? I know there are many girls on here who are more than willing to offer up naked pictures. If you're looking for that then I'm not your girl. I know my self worth and I feel intimacy is earned through mutual respect and I know I won't get it from anyone else if I dont respect myself. Well thats the surface... If you're interested and think we might be a match I would love to hear from you. Something casual...maybe dinner or drink or two in a small scale setting where we can talk and get to know each other. If we hit it off we can figure out the rest of the evening from there.

  • Garnette

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I love all the silly stuff people take for granted like wrestling with your man or chasing each other around the house or yard with water balloons. I love to say I love you each and everyday, I like to spoil and pamper, I appreciate the little things no matter how small or insignificant. I love being held, to cuddle, hold hands, and spend hours talking or hanging out. I love being sociable, throwing parties for no reason, and having game time on the PS3. So if you want to be my man you have to be able to appreciate the little things, like sports, video games, being active, laid back, silly, and responsible. I also have 12 tattoos which are strategically placed and most of them are very lady like. I love playing on the PS3 mainly Call of Duty so my man has to be very understanding of this or join in on the fun!..I just love many things from animals, to music, dancing, going out, going fishing, watching sports, cooking, playing with my dogs, and being with family. I have three grown sons who live far, far away but miss them terribly and hope to one day have them closer to me. I have also quite smoking 2 years ago in May and had a hard time losing the weight gain with it but am currently on a program to get back into shape. I do not like hunting and rather not have to deal with it in a partner so if you enjoy killing deer and such , keep moving lol....I am a One-of Kind women who enjoys life, men, family, adventure, & romance!I am also an 80's kind of gal who does not live in the 80's but can still appreciate the great hair bands of that time once in while! I love pretty much all kinds of music except rap, 60's, and some from the 70's.; I can play pool, fish, play golf, watch sports of all sorts, a serious Bama fan &, love to read, play board games or cards, play in the rain, take walks with or without the dogs, & so much more...I can be your best friend, be the guardian of your heart, have your back, as well as trust & respect your individuality & person. I am a great listener and know how to keep a secret once you place your trust in me because what is shared between a couple stays with the couple and shared with the world unless both agree. I am currently unemployed due to total dedication to my 4 years of education. I have a BA in Criminal Justice and have a goal to earn my Paralegal Certificate within the year. I a simple women but not a girly girl type so if your looking for a model type women keep on a moving. I am a redneck girl who loves the simple things but can enjoy a variety of activities outside my normal range. I can be competitive at times but I also know when to yield. So if your idea is to go to dinner and a movie, that's wonderful but I also can appreciate going fishing, golfing, or just about anything that is different for the normal.

  • Cherette

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Southern gentle woman seeking gentleman- Loves country music, dancing, traveling, casinos, playing card games, & spending time with family and friends. I am passionate about life, family and friends. I am widowed for two years with two grown sons . I am an out going person with a shy side. I love to laugh and have a great time. I have an expressive personality. I love, love, love redneck TV!!! I'll tell ya right now ....don't ask me a anything if your not ready to hear the truth. I'm brutally honest with a little smartass and sarcasm thrown in for good measure! My goals are to meet new people and have fun doing it. Update ***: Okay after being on this site for a bit now- I feel I need to clarify a few things!!! I don't want to sound harsh or b***y but I have had some interesting messages and meet-n-greets from this site!!! LOLI do not date outside my race, no offense, just my preference!I'm not looking for a hook-up, or FWB!!! If you partake in ***I will not be interested! If you have strange fetishes or feel that you need to degrade a woman to feel like a man- I'm not the one for you!No!!! I do not want to join you and your girlfriend! If your married, separated or otherwise involved with another person- male or female- move on! If you don't have time to date or get to know someone- please go to the next profile!

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