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Gerry, 45
United States, Pennsylvania, Oxford

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About Me

I am a mother of 4 beautiful children, ages 9 to 18. They are my world, but I have room in my world for another special someone. I am very spiritual, but claim no particular religion. My belief is in love of all that exists. I am Reiki practitioner, which means I do energy healing. I like to spend time in meditation on a daily basis. I would like someone who is open minded and on a similar spiritual path to grow with me. I love nature and anything outdoors. I love to camp. I also enjoy just spending the day at the lake swimming, or the night just looking at the moon and stars. I love campfires. I like to fish...as long as someone else takes care of the rest. Then I'll cook it. lol. I like to play board games. I like to play outdoor games once in awhile...softball, volleyball, horseshoes, or whatever. I love animals of all kinds and feel that is something important to look for in a man. I love to do anything artistic or crafty. I like to be creative and to be able to see what I have accomplished. I love country music, but am pretty open in that area. I really don't care for hard rock or rap. That stuff gives me a headache. I like to go out and have fun with friends, but I am definitely not a party animal. I'm not really sure what else to say here. I guess this is just a start and anything else...you will just have to take the time to get to know for yourself.Update: Everyone comes with baggage. I come with a U-Haul trailer. I have four kids who are used to getting all of my time and attention. You must be willing to be patient as they learn how to share me with someone else. I think this is a pretty natural thing. I also have a pain in the butt ex who lives to give me a hard time. There would be some work to do in that area too. If you are not strong enough to withstand these storms then you are not strong enough to withstand all of the trials that life deals us. I want someone who is strong, willing to put forth his greatest effort and seek shelter within each other. God gives his toughest battles to his strongest soldiers. Yes, there will be some tough battles in life, but in the end, those are the times in which we receive our greatest rewards.Update 2: DON'T WASTE MY TIME! If you are just looking for sex, don't contact me. I will not have sex with you until there is a developed relationship and that begins with a friendship. If you can't be my friend, you will never be my life partner because I want my significant other to also be my best friend. Do not send me pictures of your private parts. I only want to see that in an intimate setting in the appropriate time. I do expect respect and to me that is not a sign of respect at all. Do not contact me if you have ever been convicted of a violent crime. Do not contact me if you are jealous, insecure, or have anger issues. Be real! If you don't feel a connection when we meet...just let me know. I would rather know immediately, than after I become emotionally involved. I will do the same for you. Just not a movie. I would actually like to have a conversation and get to know you.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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