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Tama, 45

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About Me

So I have been trying to figure out why it is so hard to meet and date a man in LA that, has a job, has his own place w/o roommates or parents, has a working vehicle and is just a nice guy and not a douche. Can someone please help me with this question?I'm very active and work a lot but im ready to make time to find my other half. But I also have that quiet side too, that loves to cuddle up and watch a movie with my dog, Gunner.I'm someone that is driven and I know what I want, I just haven't found it (or him) yet.I love to laugh and I do it all the time, so I want a man that has a great personality and loves to laugh as much as I do.I guess you could say that I'm an over achiever, thus my zest for life is exciting. I'm very affectionate and love to cuddle.I love just going to the movies, going to the beach, fishing and anything out in the country. I don't do drama and would appreciate no drama coming into my life.I believe that everyday we are given should be cherished and lived to the fullest. I would like to find someone special to share each day with.I have a big heart and I tend to give it fully and unconditionally to someone that I like. I am looking for a partner in crime who will treat me as an equal and has a bad ass attitude. He's funny, dresses well and knows how to make me laugh and treat a lady.Well, I've said enough about me. If any of this sounds good to you, reply with a message and let's get to know each other. Meet for a drink or coffee at a quiet place so we can talk more and decide if we would like to continue to a more date like setting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aniyah

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    -stepper, has a cool bike of some sort and likes to get out and feel that open road, throw back a few brews and laugh out loud without any chips sittin' on your shoulder...then maybe you should contact me. I'm looking to have a good time with whomever I'm with, and if the common interests, the attraction, and friendship is really there, then there's a good chance anything can happen! I also enjoy a good time at the lake, walking my dog, watching a good foot/basketball game - Go Jayhawks!, Chiefs - well, we'll see. Always finding good restaurants and meeting new and interesting people is fun. Traveling I do enjoy, just havent had much time for it. I am not even close to your average 40ish, I think I reverted 10 years back...lol, but I am tall - and would prefer my counterpart to be the same or taller. I am a smart, independent, savy, sassy, animal lover, that is down to earth, likes to laugh, learn and try mostly anything new. Ok, maybe not jumping out of an airplane!My goal is to be content in this life that has been given to me, continue to maintain it, and remain stable and secure enjoying all there is to offer. I look for quality and worth, so I don't believe that qualifies me as a high-maintenance chic...lol, and yes I have been there, done that, and am much stronger because of it. I think I know what works now....lol But the past is the past, and that's where it should stay.I'm just looking for that person that shares most of my interests, knows how to balance his life and his finances, has a good upbringing, a fun personality, and can enhance my life *** trying to bring me down or dominate it. Looking for the one that I can let me be comfortable in my own skin, no games, be silly or serious, and just gets it! I'm not much into the pressure of a first date, so I think just meeting for a drink, playing some pool, catching some live music or a ball game would be a great ice-breaker...that way the pressure isn't on us to talk only! The atmosphere would help move a conversation along :)

  • Merit

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hi Thanks for checking out my profile.... So I just wanna say I am not looking to just date or have a one night stand, if thats what you want please keep looking and good luck. I am a self motivated never stopping woman. I have 2 great kids, both boys who are 18 and 20. They do live at home but are not attached to my hip. I am self employed and do OK for myself. I have 2 large dogs and a cat whom I enjoy very much... Love to take hikes in the mountians or down by the river with the pups. I am an all American Gal... if you dont know what that means ask me and I will tell you :) I love Big Trucks, Fast Cars and Faster Bikes... ( I dont own a bike right now but the time is getting closer to having one again). Also a day on the fireing range is good with me too. I love to cook, so a night in with a good meal and a movie is great with me, but I also love a night out. Live bands, country fairs, long drives to no where, days at the beach. I am looking for the person to spend my life with. I want to share all that I have and have done for myself and share all that you are. It really does take two to make a life.As for music, I am all over the place, I love country, rock, clasic rock, and blues, even some pop and some clasical... Just NO light jazz please ( it makes my skin crawl)OK if you have made it this far... drop me a note and say hi....... First dates can be simple, like meeting for coffee or a drink... or something crazy like paint ball.... You tell me I'm pretty flexible.

  • Tammy

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I love to travel, have fun, laugh and be adventurous. I don't take myself too seriously. I also enjoy spending an occassional quiet evening home with friends or family. I am sincere, honest, funny and want someone who will challenge me and who I can grow with. I don't like drama or games. I always make time for family, friends, new relationships and going to the gym. I say I am shy until I get to know someone; although my friends all laugh when I say I am shy.My perfect match would be someone who loves to laugh, is intelligent and respectful. Is between the ages of 39 and 46 and somewhat physically fit - you don't have to have a perfect body. I want someone who can enjoy going out or have just as much fun at home and is not afraid to show affection. I want someone who is ready to take the journey to build a partnership. Casual dating with no intent of long term or friends with benefits need not reply. I am ready to find that perfect one for me who I can spoil and they in turn spoil me.If you are interested in someone you can share your life with then send me a hello. A nice dinner where we could get to know each other better or something new...

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