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About Me

What's with all of the drama? People are really putting too much thought into all of this. I don't want to "complete" you. I'm kind of looking for someone who's already complete. A friend! Maybe more...someday. I'm a divorced mom of a 14 yr old daughter. I volunteer a lot of my time, which I enjoy very much. I'm good with hanging out at home, as long as it's comfy & fun. I also like to travel, read, write, hang out with friends, cook, go to the movies, theater, museums... I don't like clubs; I like pubs... I love music & there's not a lot I won't listen to; not really into classical or rap. I love to go to concerts or bars with live music. I'm pretty laid back not into game playing; just looking for a friend to hang out & enjoy life, with the hope that maybe that can grow into more. I think a 1st date should be fun; a chance to talk & get to know each other but with fun distractions. It should be a chance to share an experience without pressure.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Antonietta

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am back. I enjoy doing many different things. Im am kind of an up for anything kinda girl. The things i enjoy the most, the gym, harleys, the beach, BBQ's with family and friends. Adventures of anykind:) I love to dance, music of all kinds. Winter is probably my least favorite season...im a beach lover. I enjoy a challenge, its good to push the boundries of your abilities now and then. I am pretty out going, having said I enjoy relaxing on the couch with a good movie playing now and then too. Family is very important to me so family time is a must as well. I guess if you wanna find out more about me, you will have to ask me yourself :)

  • Cassia

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    recent unhappy customer. apparently i'm not wanted here.. perhaps he should yelp itBlue Eyes Looking at you"Most people on here with any intellect at all (I said most, not you) are looking for something. Whether it be for there love of their life, or to just hook-up. Whatever.... Not to waste time reading a disgusting profile of a person hoping someone will find this humorous and waiting for a response albeit a negative one just to get some form of attention. You can find plenty of that on Craigs list. I just lost 60 seconds of my life in shock reading this crap that I will never get back. Someone really needs to guide you off this site. Please follow their advice.Thanks."And now my "About Me"damn.. i hate these things where you are forced to talk about yourself. okay.. fine, to begin with... i am not that great a catch. i do not cook, i'll clean....... but only when i feel like it (im quite lazy... or maybe just freaking tired). i have 3 kids, two of which are grown and live elsewhere.. (they are still a huge part of my life and i wish i could see them more often.. but kids grow up and build their own lives and that is how it should be). i am on here as my youngest is at an age where she needs me less and less and im told i should uhh.. get out more often.. live.. whatever. i am a huge talker and contrary to what i sound like here and the furrow in my brow, im not always angry... (i am not pissed, damn it!!! im thinking!) #nomad :)). i am not a complete drag.. i have a sense of humor.. even if it is a bit warped. anywho.. at this time i figure this might be a good way to talk to you strangers without having to venture out and then come up with some excuse as to why i suddenly decide i don't want to talk to you anymore. :p*update:as of june 08, ***i officially became a grandmom... and quite proud of that!*update.."i can be an *** of the grandest kind..im the funniest woman that youve ever knownim the dullest woman that youve ever knownim the most gorgeous woman that youve ever knownAnd youve never met anyoneWho is as everything as i am sometimes"*if you sent me an ***, i did not respond and i deleted it, there is a reason. i am an *** get over it.*****Update:if your first message to me speaks of:meeting mephoning mebeing my matchbeing my soulmatemarrying mehaving sex with mehaving children with me or any other thing i find creepy..your message will be deleted and you will be blocked.if you are older than my dad ***or younger than my adult children ***& 26)i will probably not respond.if you are female and looking for more than a friendshipi may respond.. but you will most likely not turn me.. the only vagina i pleasure is my own.if you have a problem with me getting to know you to a point where i feel comfortable before even considering the possibility of wanting a date with you.. then stop wasting your time.. i will not be talked into something i do not want.if any thing i've said in my update bothers you.. i don't give a f*ck. if it makes you feel better to tell me off for being such an *** then let your little fingers pound away, go ahead and get it out of your system..... but know, i still don't give a f*ck.p.s. asking me to text you *** message..... ????? how is texting a better means of communication than a message/email??? i mean.... do you realize how small the buttons on my freakin' crappy little cell phone is?? also... why the hell would i want to give some random stranger ive barely exchanged messages online with my personal cell phone number??!p.p.s... my kids are *** as well.

  • Louvenia

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I'm shy until I get to know you and get comfortable with you. Looking for someone to hang out with, go to movies with and have a few drinks with. I have a great sense of humor and pretty laid back.

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