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About Me

It is close to impossible to write this part since you want to make yourself sound like the most interesting and fun person ever but there is a fine line between coming off who you really are and trying to be someone who is fake.Here's the low down on me. I love my kids. I have two who are elementary school aged but I do share custody with their dad. I have a job that I love and I am independent financially so not looking for a 'sugar daddy' but I am could never be your 'sugar momma' either. I love watching sports, football and baseball, in particular, but love most sports. I actually prefer a guy who likes sports, but if you don't that is not a deal breaker but I will continue to watch football and baseball, with or without you. I am a talker and love having good cerebral conversations about anything and everything. I am a very down to earth, born and raised in the mid-west and can relate and talk to anyone. I am quite sarcastic at times and appreciate a guy who can give the sarcasm right back. Basically, I want to meet a guy who is comfortable in their own skin. Someone who I can be myself with and gets me and I get them. I love to go out and have a good time but also love being able to hang out at home and watch a movie or play cards and have good conversation. Thanks for reading my profile and good luck!! Before a 'real' first date I like to try and get to know someone by chatting on the phone or meeting for a drink to see if there is a connection and then go from there.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'0"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    IF YOU SEE THIS AS NEGATIVE THEN YOU AREN'T FOR MELet me start with this: Do not contact me if you are out of the country and want to *** you are looking to get married before you have even met me. No more fakes and phonies with issues and crazy ideas please. I'm not going to talk to you about the sex we have never had and probably never will have. I live in the real world. If you do not see the humor in this I guess you aren't for me. I DO NOT feel I am entitled simply because I may be attractive to you. I don't expect gifts because I spend time with someone,it's insulting to both of us.. I know what this woman wants,Friendship without expectation, Fairness without regret and Passion without agenda. I have been here for approx. ***years. I had to move to one of the few places hockey isn't revered or broadcast widely..at least not my Blackhawks(not happy about that). Anything outdoors is for me and if I haven't done it already I am willing to try. I may look at your profile and not contact you mostly because I am not that aggressive and prefer a man to contact me. I don't want anyone to think that because I did not say anything and only looked that I'm not interested. I run my own business and have a really good thing going. I'm looking for my equal, my friend,lover,punching bag (kidding)..that's my humor and I won't apologize for it. I'm looking for someone who tells it like it is but doesn't take pleasure in hurting others. You must have a kind heart,maybe donate time to a cause and love animals but you don't have to have all of them. Be passionate about life and what you would like out of it, we all should. I have dogs and cats and I will not get rid of any of them if you have allergies, get a shot or a pill and get in bed. I'm not looking to hook up with every horn dog on this site, if that is your plan I will see through it and this will be over before it starts. I'm independent but I want a real man who acts like one. I tend to date younger men (old souls)between 29 and 40. (It seems the older they are the more damage, less damaged, less drama)give or take a year but if you take care of yourself and don't complain about your aches and pains ***please contact me. I am older not desperate so just because you may be younger that does not mean I will be interested. If you are afraid of being seen with an older woman then this isn't going to happen. I love children so if you have them all the better, I was a nanny for years. I don't want to be your mommy and I don't need a daddy. I'm not looking for a man to take care of me financially and I don't want to take care of you that way either. Be an adult,at least mildly attractive,at least 5'9" and for God's sake have a sense of humor. I love all music and yes even some rap(WiZ K./Blackeyed Peas). I can find beauty in almost anything and I'm looking for someone who believes that of themself. You love to travel,have passions and MOVE FORWARD when you find opportunity. I am looking for something new and wonderful with someone new and wonderful!**WARNING: Any *** individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** Surprise me, I'm open. It can be as simple as pizza and beer or as wonderful as opera and champagne. I can dress down or up and know for a relationship to work you can never stop dating the person you love to be with. I think it's nice to have that initial(can I stand to be around you) meeting first over coffee or a drink.

  • Rita

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am an independent woman that enjoys every day to the fullest, light hearted and love to laugh! With being in the travel industry, love to get away as much as possible. I am a busy mom of two teenagers and invloved with their sports programs....won't miss a game! Love the outdoors and enjoy all that this area has to offer, from hiking to camping. As much as I love to be on the go, can't resist some relax time in the pool with friends and a refreshing****ail! No ex-drama with me and am not looking for any in return. Looking for a true partner in life, someone that has their own independence and that want someone that will bring out the best in one another. I like a simple first date....happy hour at a local pub, a casual lunch or dinner, or even coffee. I don't prefer movies on a first date, just too difficult to try and talk to get to know one another.

  • Carmon

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a widowed, single mom with one daughter. I really think I am meant to be in the NW area... I would love to meet another single parent ideally since the chances of having anymore at my age are slim and because my daughter should have never been an only child! She truly desires that family dynamic, and as I begin this journey to find somebody to enhance my life, I am obligated to do the same for her. She is my greatest accomplishment, my true love and she deserves all I am able to give her....I am intelligent, witty,, opinionated, creative, passionate, down to earth and honest. I am aware of how much of me needs improvement and I am a work in progress :) I love men with a sense of humor and those who are genuine and down to earth as I am. I HATE shallow and pretentious! I have led a very colorful and interesting life so far and welcome more intensely colorful moments in the future to share with somebody....somebody who is honest, loving and has values. The way a man is with his kid(s) speaks volumes.I am confident when I say that I am nothing short of AMAZING as far as girlfriends go! My friends tell me all the time that their husbands would kill for them to behave the way I have in my past relationships...because I rock like that! :) I am open to meeting, but please also be open to chatting for a bit online first!I am not going to give my number out to you until we do...if that is a problem, then move on. If you are that anxious to meet somebody before getting a sense AT ALL for who they are, etc. then you clearly are only looking for a hook up. Not interested in that anymore.

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