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To my stalking exes...Yup...I HAVE moved on, no problems, here. Now, maybe you should try it...a dating site is just a LAME way to talk to me after we have broken up....Just sayin'. ;) PLUS, the fact that I have to see you again make me vominous....First thing you should know is I'm NOT into the one night stands or flings...if that is what you're looking for...here is where you make your grand EXIT. I'm looking for REAL...not for RIGHT NOW. I've found this site to be pretty damn full of right now's...and sorry, I'm not interested. If you are looking for more, feel free to read on....It's hard to be yourself and be able to put out here what you know as truth. Too many people want things sugar coated...and I tell them to get a donut. Anyway, I have three children - they are my everything...BUT being in relationships with people that ALSO have children (that foget you exist when they are with them), I will treat you just as well as my children. I don't have the time for the drama of 'my kids come first'. Right - they should, and at times they will...but my partner also comes first...and deserves my time equally. For those that don't believe this - I'm probably not one for you. I don't believe children should 'run your life'. Be part of it, yes - run it, no. The more I look at people's relationships about 'my kids are my world and the best thing that have ever happened to me and life has to revolve around them...' the more I wanna puke. That is SO NOT FAIR to someone that is trying to be part of your life....Love to camp, fish, ride dirt bikes and four-wheelers, go boating, go for rides to the mountains and sip on a beer, fires in the backyard with the family...a pretty simple girl, that many find complicated.Anyway, I've had to 'change' my profile because so many read something, and take it for words rather than actually knowing what I'm meaning. I WILL tell you I"m a 'no bullshit' kinda girl...if I want you to know something, you will know it...good, bad, indifferent. I also think communication is key - don't discount my feelings - I won't yours.Looking forward to good friends...and to see where it goes from there! By the way...if you don't have a pic, I won't respond. Not that I'm shallow; however, there are weirdos out there...and I'd like to see who I'm chatting with. Thanks! First dates are tricky.... Meeting and seeing if there is a spark is the best way to go about a first date.Give me a bonfire, mountains, and pickup truck...and you have already given me a little bit of heaven. ;)The perfect song that would describe my PERFECT date....;That's My Kinda Night"...not the first couple - but, ya know... ;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Happy, outgoing, active, calm, cool, collected...mello and low maintenance lady looking for that special someone to share my spare time with. Looking for a like-minded guy who enjoys the outdoors and being active. Don't like the club/bar scene but I do enjoy going to places to hear live music. Not wanting any flings or casual relationships. If it sounds cool contact me.

  • Mercedes

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am self employed and work quite a bit but my schedule is flexible since I'm the boss. Love to laugh and have a good time. Just tired of the head games. Don't make me guess what your thinking. Please know how to communicate and speak because I am not a mind reader. Where are all the sexy single guys?

  • Ermelinda

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hi, I can't gaurantee you that we already have alot in common - but, if you read on and find out we do - you should message me!Don't they say 'life starts after you're thirty?' That's why my life is just beginning :)I want someone who will be upfront, honest, and I will do the same. Living in this city as a strong confident single mother has taught me to enjoy every moment of my journey. What seems to be missing on this fabulous voyage is someone that can play the male lead in this production called life.Activities I enjoy:DancingBowlingBilliardsSwimmingHiking (when it's cooler!!! its summer in AZ right now lol)Tanning - Poolside Good movie (Prefer action)Spending time with family and friendsPretty much anything with my two kiddosA good barbequeCan't lie - somehow addicted to Candy Crush Saga - I know...I know!!! When I have a free moment of downtime before calling it a night I find myself playing this game. I would say coffee, tea or a drink someplace where two people could talk and get to know one another. Dinner or lunch is always an option as well.

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