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Artie, 39
United States, Oklahoma, Shawnee

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I am one of the most positive people you'll meet. And one of the most giving. That's what I've been told. I've heard about this site from a few people. And what I was told was to be careful of those looking for "some fun" and not something serious. If you're looking to have fun for a night, I'm not the woman for you. I'm looking for someone to add to my fabulous life!I love my life. I've worked hard to get where I am today. I very comfortable and stable and love to have the freedom to do what I want when I want. I don't require materialistic things to make me smile, but I do like nice things at the same time.I have a family who is everything to me. And if someone could not handle me speaking to my sister and parents every day, then again, I'm not the woman for you. They're a fun family and they're more giving than anyone I've ever known.I work in retail management and LOVE it. Yes it's odd hours and holidays are hard, but smiling when you leave for work and come home about 90% of the time, tells you that you're in the right job.A few things to take note. I'm really looking for a relationship. So if you're not, we're not going to work. And although age is really just a number, I am looking for someone who is financially stable, which means they can live within their means - I don't mean they need to be rich! Someone who also has a healthy lifestyle. Now the big one ... if you have a limited palette - you're a picky eater - you don't try new foods or restaurants because the food is based on a country you've never been, we will not work. Trust me. Now those things said, if you happen to be younger in age but find you are a person who aligns with all statements previous said, continue to next paragraph. If not, good luck on your search! You will find them!Still reading? Made it to the next paragraph? Are you the real deal? Then send me a line. I'm looking forward to hearing from you. Meet for coffee, a drink, or a small bite at some little local unknown eatery that uses paper plates to serve their 5 star food!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Pop Reggae Walking German Japanese South American American Football
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