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Shanti, 37
United States, Oklahoma, Miami

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About Me

If you 'GET' this...then we should probably meet :)"It doesn't interest me what you do for a living. I want to know what you ache for, and if you dare to dream of meeting your heart's longing.It doesn't interest me how old you are. I want to know if you will risk looking like a fool for love, for your dream, for the adventure of being alive.It doesn't interest me what planets are squaring your moon. I want to know if you have touched the center of your own sorrow, if you have been opened by life's betrayals or have become shriveled and closed from fear of further pain!I want to know if you can sit with pain, mine or your own, without moving to hide it or fade it, or fix it.I want to know if you can be with joy, mine or your own, if you can dance with wildness and let the ecstasy fill you to the tips of your fingers and toes without cautioning us to be careful, to be realistic, to remember the limitations of being human.It doesn't interest me if the story you are telling me is true. I want to know if you can disappoint another to be true to yourself; if you can bear the accusation of betrayal and not betray your own soul; if you can be faithless and therefore trustworthy.I want to know if you can see beauty even when it's not pretty, every day,and if you can source your own life from its presence.I want to know if you can live with failure, yours and mine, and still stand on the edge of the lake and shout to the silver of the full moon, “Yes!”It doesn't interest me to know where you live or how much money you have. I want to know if you can get up, after the night of grief and despair, weary and bruised to the bone, and do what needs to be done to feed the children.It doesn't interest me who you know or how you came to be here. I want to know if you will stand in the center of the fire with me and not shrink back.It doesn't interest me where or what or with whom you have studied. I want to know what sustains you, from the inside, when all else falls away.I want to know if you can be alone with yourself and if you truly like the company you keep in the empty moments." The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer I am so fortunate to be at a point in my life where things are almost perfect. I have the most incredible friends, 2 successful businesses, a beautiful home and great dog. Here's the part where you come in! What you should know about me:-I'm solutions oriented vs. problem focused-Positive-Love living in the country and visiting the city-From hiking to fancy night out in no time-LOVE to travel...usually ***times a year--Independent, self sufficient and keep busy-Work out 4 times a week and try to be active every day-Believe anything is possible...go after your dreamsI-Love being spontaneous-Lead a healthy life-Daymaker, risk taker and communicator -Brave, authentic, honest, loving, funny, open, curious, loyal, respectful, hopeless romantic, realist-Can take me anywhere And every day, I try to be better!About us:-Mutual respect-Compliment not complete each other-Great communicators-Support each other in achieving our goals-Do things together and able to do things apart-Have FUN-Laugh a lot-Often found on an adventure-Express affection and are passionate-Our friends think we're awesome together!I'm looking to meet someone with the ultimate goal of building a life together. So lets chat, perhaps we will meet and just maybe, we will both find what we're looking for.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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