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Zaniyah, 36
United States, Ohio, Xenia

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About Me

NO PRUDES PLEASE,I'm to FUN for you!!!!I DON'T like ANAL RETENTIVE, I'm to much of a free spirt ...; Ride"As I go through the process of meeting men on here, I am finding that majority of the men that I go for a drink or coffee with seem to have the impression that this means we're going to hook up and have sex that night, in fact that is not how I role. Let me make this clear, I am NOT on here have NSA or FWB.. So CLICHE and DUM ASS so please don't ask, it get's very annoying and I really don't care how good you MAY be. I am however on here to meet some nice people, have some good laughs and enjoy some great company for the time being and if something futhur continues that's great! if not.... well... oh well...I am good with that too, a woman can't have enough friends. I am old fashion and beleive there's a process that people should go through before anything furthur happens, I guess I consider myself to have more class than most ladies.. If you want trash? you'll get trash. if you want class? you'lll get class, simple as that!! Hey Babe! Hey Hot Stuff! Hey Sexy! Hey Muffin - When you lick frosting off a cupcake that's when you'll get MUFFIN....DELETE!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That tells me you have no respect for women and can't or won't take the time to say something that will stimulate my mind, give me reason to respond. I am a woman and yes I have needs, I love to be touched and kissed by men ONLY, I do respect myself enough to just NOT whip my thong off for anyone, you have to be worth my time. I apprieciate the offer guys but no thank you. A little about myself:I am a kind hearted, simple, down to earth woman who enjoys the small moments in life, they are what is most important to me. I like to laugh, love comedy ---I like to surround myself with positive people- our character reflects who we surround ourself with. I try to live a healthy lifestyle with good foods and keeping active. I am patient, a great listener, I am not one that likes to go to bed mad I would rather talk things out/fix a situation quickly opposed to letting the situation get out of hand. I try to never assume things, I like the facts. Uh, meh, blah, kinda...... communication is a foundation to a relationship and just a natural healthy way to build a relationship. I have been told on here I sound like a " FIRECRACKER " but I like to think I just add fun and spice with adventure and know what I want and sift out who I don't want in my life. I find myself to be a strong, independant woman who doesn't need a man in my life but would like a wonderful kind man to share a friendship with. I do miss having someone to share my life with, I kind of feel displaced at times other times I am ok with being single, I am not a NEEDY woman but do like to FEEL like you care. Those that choose to be in my life I hold close to my heart and value their friendships. I love to tease/ flirt - keeps things alive in the relationship. I like a strong man with a nice build - some chunck is good too. He should love to smile, likes to laugh and has a sense of humor. I am a sucker for blue eyes and dimples, no worries if you don't have any I can live without. If you are bald and have tats that's nice too - bald is the new beautiful. I have a child so he needs to be understanding of us as a UNIT. I have many hobbies which include making... I love to cook and would like it if you could too. I don't bake very well but I TRY and have no luck with plants. You should know I will try anything at least one time but refuse to swim with Sharks. I am also NOT perfect and don't expect you to be, we all have our faults and there have been mistakes at sometime or another we have ALL made but as we continue on we grow to be stronger people and better ones at that! Mistakes don't make who you are as a person, you are not defined as a mistake! Some things I will NOT tolerate is a guy that drinks and drives, this is a huge NO NO in my books - he is not valueing his life or others at the wheel and as well someone who feels the NEED to drink everyday or has a pattern, life gets dry in that case. I like to think I am reserved, well, 80% of the time as well corky and the other 20% is left for play, There are times I like to have some good old fashion fun with my Gal pals.. It's called CLass with Sass.For the man in my life there has to be an attraction from me to him and from him to me, emotional connection is important because I LOOOOVE passion along with a hot, steamy, healthy bedroom lifestyle. He should have that twinkle in his eyes when he looks at me, it's there I have seen it before, have you? He should be kindhearted, honest, loyal and compassionate to me and others, willing to express love,his feelings and be able to communicate them even though it might be hard. He should like to touch and to be touched, kiss and to be kissed at any given moment - I like that kind of shit!!! I do perfer men that are 5'9 and up but it's not writen in stone. The man should have table manners which means for me no eating with your mouth open, grunting or crazy breathing through your nose while your eating... lol hands down thats a turn off for me and it's SUPER ANNOYING... Oh and SUPER SUCKING of fingers, there's napkins so use them. I am an active woman so therefore I would want an active man. I would rather date men that are divorced or single, the whole separation thing can be to complicated, you never know where that's going and can become exhausting - I am not saying NO to the idea just be sure your done before you message me and that doesn't mean done in your own head, it has to be a mutual separation and please don't mistake my kindness for weakness."A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water." -That is all for now, just getting back into the swing of things again, oh and could you send a picture if you don't have one, please also make the time to leave a good message or I may not respond. Coffee, Tea, Drinks.no expectations.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'1"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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