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Kayly, 35
United States, Ohio, Vandalia

Offline, last seen Mon, 10 Nov 2025 18:11:47

About Me

The best thing about getting older is learning, from your past experiences and/or mistakes, exactly what you want. Knowing what you don't want is equally important.I can take constructive criticism when necessary. I am a good listener to things I should be made aware of about myself. I am always looking for ways to improve, being able to listen to things about yourself that may be difficult to hear is obviously a big part of it. Not everyone can communicate easily in their life relationships including; friendships, romantic, family, professional, etc. Communication is vital to any relationship in your life that means something. This is one of the biggest reasons my BFF is my BFF. We discuss how people don't want to hear any negative feedback about themselves. She &-improvement. I hope to find someone that is not afraid of talking. Constantly having to drag feeling or opinions out of someone important in your life is never fun. It also gets old fast.I am one that will share my feelings & I will always want to hear yours; good or not so good. If people don't communicate in life avoidable misunderstandings will occur causing unnecessary issues later. Also, just a side note: It's okay to have separate interests and space to breathe...please. Siamese twin relationships are not my thing. To each is own, but I can't understand those I see in relationships of this type. Going through each other's phones and all this other crazy stuff I hear. Whatever happened to trust? Obviously common interests are a must, but it's also okay for you to feel like going on a boat ride one night and me to feel like going to the movies. Make not mistake; While I always appreciate time with someone I care about, it's also ok to appreciate time to yourself as well. They are my babies & it's a package deal. Me with two westies on the side :) I am a big animal lover, they always keep it real. I've observed over the years that animal lovers are overall good hearted, compassionate people. Describing yourself as an animal lover, in my experience, does tell a lot about a person. I've found people that don't like animals tend to be, let's say, probably not someone I'd feel comfortable around for anything long term. To be up front right now, if you are allergic or have any other dislike for being around dogs especially, we will not work out. I nonetheless wish you the best of luck in your search. "First dates are like job interviews with drinks." - Sex and the CitySeriously, I hope not.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Dance
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  • Abigayle from Vandalia | Woman | 35 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am just going to say this!! I DON'T DATE BLACK GUYS!!! Now that I have said that,continue to read!!Don't get mad at me, if you ask me something and I actually tell you. I am finding that guys here do one thing and say another. Really annoyed at that! Hey. I'm a very down to earth person. I move to TN on Oct 4th from VA. I have lived in 7 states, due to my job. I love sports. Bears and Cubs are my fav. I like to surf and play golf. I love outdoors. I work for the Federal Government, which has been interesting in itself for the last couple years.I have a 10 yr old son, if you don't like kids or scared of them, you can stop reading now. I don't want to waste your time or mine. But then again it's not like you would meet him right off anyway, since I keep that part of my life away until I'm ready to let someone get that close to me.What I'm looking for is, someone that is honest, funny, caring, smart, nice, athletic.. Wait that’s on every single profile. Ok let's get real.. Every person wants all that. And most people only have 1 or 2 of those qualities at once. So let's start with something like this. Sure I want all of the things most people want. But I mainly want someone that wants me, as much as I want him. I want a guy to be my best friend, that I can laugh with and at. That doesn't have a problem telling me when I'm messing up, cuz I do need some straightening up at times. I want someone to push me to my boundaries or over them. I want someone one that is not afraid to put everything out there, that won't hold anything back for me. Ok I guess that is what I want along with all the other little things.People have baggage. We all know this. I'm fine with all that. But if your not over an ex girlfriend/wife. I'm not the girl for you. I am really tired of dating guys and everything is fine for a couple months of dating, and then all of a sudden, they start saying I miss my Ex or my Ex did this or that (bad mouthing them). I'm not perfect, I have baggage. But I'm completely over my ex-husband and any of my ex boyfriends. I would like someone to be the same, over their ex's. To the guys that want to date every woman out there, I am not the woman for you. When I'm into someone I'm into someone. And don't date any other guys cuz I want to see where it may go. And if I'm doing that and your dating around, just won't work. Plus it's not fair to me.Oh and drama is not in my life. Sure my friends have tons of it, and I get to see their drama a lot and help them. But it is not in my life. And I can honestly say that. Life is to short to be worried about who's sleeping with who, or I can't believe she is dating him type of thing. I'm 34 not 21. So it's not in my life. I'm not judgmental, never have been so that's probably why I don’t have drama. I coach soccer and play co-ed softball. Since I just moved here I need to find a co-ed team. I am pretty active person. No Movies, they are so inpersonable! I'm up for anything but movies, like meet for drinks or a baseball game.

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  • Silvana from Vandalia | Woman | 31 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    Hi! My name is Silvana. I am never married spiritual but not religious caucasian woman without kids from Vandalia, Ohio, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.

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  • Ernestine from Vandalia | Woman | 32 years old | Gemini
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I am a very caring person. I love to help people. I like the outdoors, camping and campfires. I like to cuddle on the couch with a movie. I like all types of music. I like to hang with friends.What I am not interested in is people who do drugs (if that is your thing just move on to the next profile)People who lie or cheat

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