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I'm a city girl, born and raised in philly, in the ghetto (no i dont act ghetto ::shutters:: people like that piss me off) and now living in a small town. (Why the hell do all the people up here put sauce on your cheese steaks??? Gross.)People usually take me for a b*tch.Which is fine. Not complaining. I know what I want. What I don't want. If that's considered being a b*tch, so be it.I'm outspoken. I tell it like it is. What's the point of buttering someone up only to crush them with the truth when the time comes?I'm smart. Funny. Not skinny. Not obese. I don't work out. Not because I don't care, but Because I like who I am. I believe that Queen said it best when they sang "oh fat bottom girls, you make the rockin world go round!" .. No truer words have ever been spoken! ;) hahaAs far as I am from being the perfect body size, I am not attracted to really big guys, I'm not talking about muscle mass, but now a days people think a few extra lbs means 3 times your body weight. No. Not gonna work.. I don't mind a guy with a few extra lbs, because honestly I'm not one to talk. However, If you can't see your doohickey when you look down... Without a struggle.. Not gonna happen.I prefer to date white guys, not saying I wouldn't give you a chance if you aren't, but it's just my experience, I'm not racist by any means, I have family who aren't white who I love more then anything and a big brother who is african american who I couldn't see ever living my life without.. It's just my preference, if that bothers you, then I'm sorry. However, if you act ghetto, thug, throw up gang signs, have more pictures of "your money" or your Mary Jane on your profile then of yourself.. Then please, don't bother. I have kids, they're probably cooler then you. I'm protective, so no one meets them until I see fit. Kids are innocent, and don't need to end up hurt if they like someone who decides they're not going to stick around. I get along with their father (same guy for both was with him for almost 9 years.... If they're rotting out of your mouth or if they're green, it's not gonna happen. A pretty smile from across the room, is an amazing turn on.I have short hair, and mostly male friends. I get mistaken for a lesbian quite a bit.. I assure you...I most certainly am not.I like sports. Huge Phillies fan. I hate the Eagles..(my buddy plays for the Saints so deal with it).I WILL NOT sleep with you on a first date, I have morals, and self respect, so if a quick bang is what your lookin for keep moving along.I'm a "just one of the guys/girl next door" type, most of my friends are males, females are catty and I can't stand that. So if your the jealous type you won't like me. I'm faithful and trust is a must. If I wanted one of them to be my boyfriend they already would be. I'd also Rather be in a tshirt and jeans(or sweats) everyday then in a pair of heels and a skirt ever. Don't get me wrong, if I need to be in a dress, I will, and I'll look pretty damn good doing so.I'd rather relax at home watching movies and cuddling then being out at a bar or club every night. I would choose a bonfire and good friends over a night at the bar in a heartbeat. I don't act like a princess, I don't run out to spend money on crap I don't need, I don't expect to be showered in gifts.. However I wouldn't be mad if you did. Just know it isn't necessary.. You'll never need to buy my love or affection.I'm simple, love me and I'll love you back. Respect me and I'll respect you back. Make me feel like I'm your world, and I'll make you feel like mine.Last but not least. Don't message me with "hey sexy", "wassup ma?" (Last time I checked I most definitely was not your mother), or if yu spel lyk dis!.. Seriously... That only works on GIRLS who have no self esteem or a brain. It does not work on women with self respect and an IQ over 12.Also, if you do message me, and I don't answer, don't message me the same thing 50 more times, grow a set and moooooove along. Something simple. Coffee, a walk in the park. Somewhere public where we won't be uncomfortable, but quiet enough to get to know each other. I like taking pictures so maybe a walk on a trail somewhere pretty.Definitely NOT a movie.. How much can you learn about a person by sitting in silence for an hour and a half??

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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