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Barabara, 32
United States, Ohio, Englewood

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About Me

I am a very complicated, intriguing, and intricate individual. More accurately, my life situation is complex. Now me on the other hand, I'm a very open-minded, laid back, impassioned, good-humored, and compassionate person. However, I'm still intricate and intriguing. After all, what's life without a little stimulating challenge;) That said, you're probably not going to want to get involved with me, because I'm either too much for you to wrap your brain around or you're not man enough to handle me. More specifically, handle my current situation. This is just my experience talking. I'm really not a**** individual. Confident, but never****. I don't find that attractive. I'm going to be straight forward here and tell you all what my life is exactly like; I just went through a big split (well not just, more like a year or so ago was the first time) with my fiance. It was on and off again for awhile because he is the father of my baby girl and I truly didn't want to have to split the family up. In the end however, it needed to be done because that's what was in the best interest of my little girl and I. I'm living back at home with my parents because that's what I have to do to get back on my feet & I am literally trying to pull myself up, dust myself off, and get back moving.... New place, New job, New life! I'm also here because my parents are both not in the best health and really need my help. This is why I say I'm complicated because I'm honestly at the beginning of everything again. I placed too much of my love & faith into one person because when I say I do I mean I do. I'm loyal to a fault. So this is the deal. If you can look past this and still want to see how things could be that's great. If you can't, I understand and honestly, I don't blame you one bit. I get it. I hope I'll actually find some real men on here who aren't just looking for a one time affair because that's not what I'm about & I can spot that right away so don't waste either one of our time please & thanks! Sorry if this sounds too blunt , but I'm so tired of playing games and would rather be honest than play the game. I have a lot of great qualities that you will see besides honesty & loyalty, but you will have to find out for yourself ;) I've already given too much away, lol! One more thing, please do not think for one minute because I've been so forward that makes me dramatic, it's quite the opposite really. I was able to identify the drama in my life and delete it! Now, I am drama free and love every minute of it! I simply put my cards on the table so you won't be surprised with my hand in the middle of the game, that's all... To me it really doesn't matter. Somewhere fun where we can get to know each other. Whether that be falling out of the sky from an airplane or cooking dinner together. I'm really not the drinking type so the bar scene is not for me

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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