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Janett, 33
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

Canadian Greek Portuguese Spanish Animation Music Sci-Fi
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm pretty laid back and easy going and like to have fun with my friends and family when I can. I'm currently working on my dream career but would love to have someone to share that with. I'm driven, intelligent and independent (I'm not the clingy, call you every 5 seconds to see how the last 5 seconds were, kinda girl ;) lol) and I have no time for liars and cheats. If you don't love animals, don't waste my time or yours...they are a large part of my life and an absolute deal breaker. I am close with my family and friends and I'm always ready to help if they are in need. I can be fairly sarcastic from time to time and like someone that can joke back and forth with me (ya can't always be so serious all the time! lol). I enjoy the outdoors and anything where I can laugh, have fun and be myself. I am looking for someone that I can easily talk to and be playful with, but still be able to have serious conversations with at the appropriate times. I'm open, honest and caring and would expect the same in return from someone else. I make it a point to enjoy life every day and need someone who has a positive attitude and outlook on life as well. Life is too short not to live it right! :)Any further questions? Just ask! Anything casual where we can get to know each other in a fun, low key atmosphere

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I have a very out going personality and I love to live life!!! I want to experience as much as I can and live life to it's fullest with no regrets. I to do anything outside and I love to be on the water, in the summer most of my time is spent doing something up north or on the water some how. I have a passion for music I have an ecletict taste in music but hard rock is one of my favorites. One of my hobbies going to concerts it's one of my favorite thing to do. I also like to play volleyball and hang out with my friends. I think that a good support group is important and that time away with friends is very important in any relationship. I would like to meet someone who can carry on a good conversation and has similar values and interests.

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  • Leida from Spring Lake | Woman | 32 years old | Pisces
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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    Where do I start. Well I am a down to earth person. I am out going. You have to try everything at least once. well at least all most everything. I want to find someone that likes me for me. I don't lie and I don't want to be with anyone that does. one thing is I am the kind of person that likes to hang out with my friends and I want a guy that does the same thing. I don't need to be with some ***. that's why you have to have trust or it just doesn't work. I want a guy that doesnt play games. someone that is ok with just hanging at home sometimes and watch tv or a movie or even play some video games. you want to know anything else about me just ask. go for a walk or go have some drinks.

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