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Janett, 33
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I don't expect anything to come out of this cus I find that no matter whats said its all in the meeting, chemistry etc. ps. whats up with the one picture profiles, looks/sound soo fake!I'm here to pass a little time besides who knows...I am 33, single, a natural redhead with green eyes and about ***pounds. I know excacly what I want in life... I am very goal oriented, confident and a loyal person. I'm sincere, easy to get along with and outspoken. I love to laugh and think that I have a good sense of Humour!I am Witty and quick and I think its one of my best traits. I love being active, sports, dancing, working around the house, gardening, renovations, decorating, boating, and anything fun... I live in the country about 15 min. from the city - I like the tranquility of the whole thing :) and I have the best of both worlds! I do not have kids but would like to have 1 or 2 later on :)My first language is French and I speek it everyday.I STOPPED SMOKING... WOhoo! (Oct.25, ***and counting :) so would be nice to meet a non-smoker... :)Would not mind a man that can make me smile and help compliment my wonderful world :)A man that I would wanna rush home for... What I like/want in a man:Honest And SincereLoyalTall, not skinny or overweight!!A job that he likes A PartnerIntelligent Funny MatureDown to EarthOpen MindedSexy (its an attitude)Thuggs & Pretty boy's are not my styleSerious and sensitive when its time to beA man that I admire :)well established (mentally and financially) Because I amIf he can cook, what a bonus that is :)I like a man to be Handy around the house... Don't wanna feel like the man of the house.And of course, SINGLE....I aint`t a HOME WRECKER, so if you are INVOLVED, dont waste my time and yours...PLEASE ONLY RESPOND IF YOU FIT THE DESCRIPTION!I am really more a dog lover than a cat person, I have an older cat, that still looks like a kitten.. giving it the best life possible, after that, not to be mean but NO MORE CATS!!Dislikes:Hyper peopleLoud People or motor mouthsSomeone that needs to be the center of attention To a certain extent "Pushy men"Dependent & Lazy menWhen a man acts like a big baby (unless he is sick :)If your a city boy, and what I intend to say by that is: if you need a mall next door, and a Burger King to survive don`t waist your time cus that`s not what I`m looking for!Quotes that I believe in and try to live by :)- Be yourself... I dont want to get to know you twice!- Patience & Location are key when fishing!- I will not settle for less nor should you!- Don't work for money let money work for you!- It's better to be in the position of giving then receiving!- Dance like no ones watching!- Live life like there is no tomorrow!- U are what u eat!- Never think of yourself as a Victim!- Spooning leads to forking.... hehehe!- If you can't laugh at yourself, allow me! hehehe!- never make someone a priority when they only make you an option or they dont give the same in return...- The outside beauty of a man could get my attention... but a beautiful soul will keep me!The lesson of the day is:********** People will remember what you did or what you said but they will never forget how you made them FEEL...************Thank you in advance for the great mail! Best of luck to you!***\\\***Put This***On Your***account If***You Know***\\\***Someone ***\\***Who Died ***\***Of ***\\\***Cancer***\\\ ***My mother was just taken by this awful disease..... lol then if everything goes well the second date is THE ONE :) movie or clubs are not a very good idea!

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  • Ela from Spring Lake | Woman | 35 years old | Capricorn
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I'm just a fun outgoing lady who enjoys a good time. I've been single for a year now and learned a lot about myself. I like to party on the weekends I'm a single parent to teenagers who also happen to be my best friends. I workout 5 days a week I am still overweight but I'm a work in progress I have lost over ***pounds. I hope to make new friends and meet a few nice guys to go out with on here. My ideal first date would be to meet up and go for a walk and dinner.

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