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Janett, 33
United States, North Carolina, Spring Lake

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Ambivertnerdgeek. Sapiosexual. Digital artist. Vegan Fibromyalgia Goddess. Music obsessed. Sarcasm practitioner. Art fan. Readerwriterlearner. Sci-fi / fantasy obsessed. Wounded Healer. Astral traveller. Sleepless dancer.I saw a space photo which was labelled as a bipolar protoplanetary nebula, and it reminded me of some of the guys I've dated :). But yet that is the past, and I spend a lot more time looking towards the future. If you get the metaphors in the first sentence of this paragraph, let's talk :)."the love that consists in this:that two solitudes protect,and limit,and embrace each other."- RilkeThe six things I could never do without:- Love / spirituality [like, universal love for all, man :)]- Vegetables- All art-forms- Esoteric studies / psychology / general sciences- All forms of Humour- Nature / animalsI'm usually contemplating everything around me. I am more of a thinker than a talker, although when talking to someone I have things in common with, we can easily talk for hours about anything and everything (multimedia, humour, politics, people, science, life, randomness, whatever).For a possible long term relationship, here is what I'm looking for:I'm looking for a partner who has a lot of imagination, and is balanced enough emotionally to be able to just let his guard down and trust people. Or at least to let his guard down enough so that I can try to convince him that not all women are secretly selfish, shallow, vapid ****es just waiting to happen. When I convince a guy of this, even if we ultimately decide to just be friends, that makes me feel great :). I have an understanding of that type of situation; men can have those qualities just as easily. So, someone who isn't afraid to be himself, with no fear that his experiences and vulnerabilities will chase me away. I am a very caring and accepting person when given openness and honesty in exchange. A man who is confident, yet not arrogant, and knows what he wants. I'm rather forthright with what I want, and only want to be with someone who can give me the same in return.I would love to find a guy who takes the time to consider radically different points of view, even if just with the aim of pure learning, not necessarily to change his opinion. Someone who is comfortable entertaining ideas *** having set, unmoveable opinions. The ideal boyfriend would practice knowledge-gathering and contemplation, combined with multimedia appreciation. I'm only open to someone who is well-rounded enough to be at least a little bit spiritually curious in some way (you can even consider yourself to be atheist as there are different interpretations for what that means). But it's not always serious time - I'd like a joker who isn't afraid to just be silly sometimes and appreciates a wide range of humour.I would like someone who can balance romance with straight-up, throw-down sexytime, and even combine the two :). No, real romance is not shallow overly-commercialized stuff like flowers and expensive dates in the hopes of getting your poor neglected pants pal pleasured :P. It's flirting and giggles and cuddles in the sun, or in the rain :). It's a look, turning into a stare - leading to gentle caresses and soft kisses that grow passionate. It's timelessness lost in each others eyes. This is the stuff that can get a woman to write you poetry, gents. If you can find someone to make that sort of connection with.I'm looking for friends too and in general I prefer to meet people who are nerdy / arty / intelligent (without being arrogant), or some other self assessed variety of weirdness, and who like that. I thrive on conversations with all kinds of diverse people :).However...considering the majority of the people who message me on this site, I don't even know if anyone reads this, but I'm going to try. Please don't send a message if you have no photo (because that makes you look like a cheater or like you think you're ugly), or if all you are going to say is something like "Hi" or "How's it going?" or "You're sexy". Have an actual topic of conversation (I don't mean this to sound high-pressure, as if you have to say something complex and impressive - Just have something to say), otherwise you (possibly by mistake) make yourself look stupid and boring :). Make a random, ridiculous, humourous comment that sounds intriguing but that references something I might not know :). The more obscure the better even. I find it hard to understand why so many of you appear timid enough to look at a profile (multiple times and days as well), and yet can't seem to think of a basic subject to talk about. :) I'm a nice, fun person and don't mean to come off as some sort of hard-ass. It's just that people need to stop thinking that all they have to do is lazily present themselves and the other person will come up with something to talk about. Also, you will have more luck getting people to talk to you if you fill out at least some of your profile. Just some helpful advice.I am not looking for casual sex. In other words, don't be a random, predictable ****in creeper, unless you want to get owned. If you know what a troll is, trust me, you don't want to be spamming me your copypasta "dtf, measurements?" (besides, now my measurements are obvious considering all most people seem to do is look at pics *** also reading a profile - and I put up a pic of me that shows my chubby hourglass figure), snicker-worthy and predictable man-whore messages :). Message me to (maybe) figure that out together. Somewhere we can go and talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

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  • Gina from Spring Lake | Woman | 33 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    I can be a fairly chatty person, but online I never know what so say so here it goes.... really I'm just here to meet new people , I'm not the kind of girl that's dying to get married( yes we do exist) I love to laugh and have funMy family and friends are everything to me.I hate sitting in one place too long unless it's a patio with a drink in handI love music of all kinds, but at heart will always be a rocker girl I've had to chance to travel some and would absolutely love to see more of the world... Not dinner..maybe drinks is a good place to start :)

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  • Rae from Spring Lake | Woman | 33 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Well hello! I'm a woman with a great sense of humour and an affinity for the simple pleasures in life. I love all the stuff that money just can't buy & I hope you do too. I cherish things like a good sunset, a nature trail, the sound of loons on the lake, the seasons changing, a good catchup with a good friend, "starting" a new book, laughing with my sister, new ideas, movie marathons, timeless music (I have some vinyl!), a tennis court, a good swim or a road-trip to no where in particular. These are the types of simpler pleasures that I value. Life's quieter moments are what re-energize me.) because it is the best of 2 worlds. It has all the fun city "stuff" like live comedy, live music, culture and career-- Cottage life and beach life (and everything that goes along with each of them) hold very special places in my heart. Cherished memories with more to come I hope!Travel ***if money was no factor, I'd do more of it! (I've done the backpack through Europe “thing” and loved it. I've done the all-inclusive “thing” and loved that too. Doesn't take much to take me away from it all.I was taught that life is what you make it. That "adventure" and life's great moments are often found in the simple things. And that the secret is to SLOW-DOWN and take it all in.I'm looking for a meeting of the minds, great chemistry, hilarious banter about things that maybe only WE find funny, and a deeper connection that lasts a lifetime.So with that in mind, let's just see where it goes, and have fun finding out!:) a Pub? a Stroll? a bit of both?

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  • Peter from Spring Lake | Woman | 34 years old | Aquarius
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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    Bit about me...I'm a single mom of 5 kids, yup, you read that right, 5 kids, can't imagine life without any of them.Contrary to popular belief, I am fortunate enough to get plenty of me time. I'm not looking for someone to play the daddy role but they can't be *** No worries though, because I don't introduce them to men unless it turns into something serious.I work two jobs and raise 5 kids. I have many tattoos and plan to get more, no peircings anymore though.My favorite thing to wear are my baggy sweatpants and fitted t-shirts and skater shoes but I can throw on a dress and heels nicely. I also like taking random roadtrips with no destination.I'm a very social person, when I have free time I don't like staying home. I've been called a dork and nerd plenty of times, but hey, it makes my life fun! I like to dance, and by that I mean I like to do the running man and the sprinkler and the cabbage patch, I'm currently learning how to do the Duggie...okay okay so I don't Duggie.. I don't have a "specific" type of guy that I look for as far as looks wise. Although, if you don't have your sh*t together or don't have any direction in life, then you are NOT my type. I like men who know what they want and know how to get it. I like men who are educated and intelligent. I like men who are social and friendly with anyone. I do not like neediness or clinginess or jealousy. If you are someone who tends to make fun of everyone that crosses your path, then you aren't my type. I like to surround myself with positive and motivated people. So if you are a man that is negative all the time, then you aren't my type. Life is what you make it and I plan on making my life fun, positive and successful! I've recently started getting into fitness and eating healthy and prefer someone with same habits to keep me in check at the gym!! lol Things I am NOT:JealousTrashA second choiceIrresponsibleSkinnyLazyA drunkDishonestSuper girlyClubberPsychoBooty callJudgmentalA criminalThings I AM:FunnyNerdyTattooedAffectionateThe best mom everLaid backRationalHard to getEasy to get along withMotivatedOptimisticSmileySome favorites:StaindKornBoondock SaintsFirearmsT-shirts with funny sayingsPrime RibAnything grilledInceptionMy german shepherdPastasweat pants one where you don't expect to get laid.......

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