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Oliver, 47

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About Me

Like a lot of people, I work a lot. But when I'm not working, I'd almost always choose to hang at home with people close to me than go out to a huge show. I prefer smaller crowds. Where people can talk, bonfires w/ homemade beer/spirits. I do like big events: plays/musicals/theater (Phantom / Rock of ages / Lion King). I'm into science and tech stuff and enjoy the fact that my 12 yr old son and I can bond through the nerdy aspects of our personalities. My son lives with me weekends. I've never been married so the independence streak in me runs deep. I'm unorthodoxed and a perpetual optimist. I can do things that many people would consider impossible...on the other hand; I sometimes have trouble doing things that most people find simple.Random facts:-I have an uncanny ability to detect lies.-I have zero ability to tolerate bs/drama-I'm very persistent and way too loyal.- (If you don't know who they are, don't worry most people don't) -otoh- If you do know who they are, you should contact me.-Music style: If what kind of music I like really matters to you... were probably not a very good match.(but a few favs are bjork, white zombie, acdc, zach brown band, elvis, mozart & gwar)-I don't enjoy alcohol - I drink socially. So, you'll never find beer in my fridge (unless you put it there).-Drugs kinda scare me.-I don't believe weed is a drug...any more than corn is.-My biggest regret is that since I'm single now, and about to achieve greatness, I'll probably never know if my next partner loves me for me or my money.(but whatever.. there are worst problems to have)-My dog "Sam" is "Dog Genius" he understands 90% of what I say & 100% of what I mean. He just cant speak.-If you're a "True Believer" in any faith, you best move along - You'd probably find me, at best offensive at worst corrosive towards your beliefs.(FYI/IMO***If your profile says anything to the effect of " I wont sleep with you on the first date"/ "I have too much respect for myself etc etc." ....Then I, (and most guys) , assume you're overcompensating for an incredibly slutty past and will probably get naked after 3 shots of tequila.... (so I'll probably e-mail you) first dates with me??? usually.... and spit on people. ;-)I love to take my time with relationships... so usually, sex has to wait until we've finished our entree'... usually.So if by chance we do interrupt the entree' with freaky monkey sex right then & there on the table in the restaurant... at least when were done... the entree' will still be warm. ;-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Webster

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 47-57

    OK I decided to rewrite this entire profile thing because apparently I am a bit misunderstood. Firstly I am an extremely funny guy and love to laugh. I have a very sharp wit and love to joke around. I am confident and not****. I am athletic and work out as often as I can, love the outdoors and like animals. I used to own a horse, had a dog and would hope you like pets too. I used to play college football so YES I do love sports. While I am not glued to the TV on weekends I still enjoy watching the games when I have time. I am anything but average. I am very down to earth and grounded. I am kind of a rare mix between refined (when need be) and rough around the edges. I mean I dress well and am well groomed. I also can get dirty as in greasy hands, love to fix things and don’t have issues with cleaning an ugly mess. I downhill, water ski, swim, fish, bike, hike, play any sport, not great at golf and a terrible tennis player.I am very close with my family and friends and I love get togethers. I entertain and have a few blowout parties a couple times of year. Bottom line is nothing better than getting together with a few friends and letting your hair down once in a while so to speak. I really didn't think I needed to put this in here because I assume most men are of the same standards. I am a perfect gentleman. That means, opening the door, helping you on with your coat, walking on the curb side, holding your chair that sort of thing. I laugh when women tell me I am a gentleman because to me it is such a given that men act this way. Perhaps I am wrong. I actually feel uncomfortable if the woman beats me to the door and opens it. I love my career believe it or not. Don't get me wrong I do have those days I would rather hang out at the house or just lay in bed but for the most part I really enjoy what I do. My job involves some international travel and while that part is interesting at times, the flights sure do suck. Aside from all of that there is a saying out there that goes "if your life has been blessed how has your life blessed others?" I believe that in this life your life is not just about you. Of course there are many things you have to be concerned about in your own life however have you ever thought about if your life has had a positive impact on others? I try to live my life in the spirit of that quote. I am not fake, arrogant or any of that. My life is wonderful and I enjoy it. So if you are going to respond please tell me a little about yourself. It doesn’t have to be a novel but more than a line or two would be nice. OK a First date. I have a great idea. You come over to my place. You are dressed in that, how do I say it? Very sexy little black dress. I meet you at the front door dressed in an Armani suit.........baby can you tell me something? I say sure, what it is..........you say........where is the laundry detergent because I would like to get a head start on it tonight....... THAT IS SO HOT I CAN'T STAND IT. Now that I tell you is a perfect first date. OK for those of you that can't take a joke I am kidding. (unless of course this exact scenario fulfills your fantasy then fine.) ok kidding again. OK OK REAL First Date scenario:I pick you up at your place in a stretch limousine. I of course greet you at the door with something in my hands besides sweat. Perhaps flowers, anyway I would have figured it out because we would have spoken a few times. I walk you to the car, open the door for you of course, help you in and make sure you are comfortable. We proceed downtown or to one of your favorite places. While we are driving I turn around and say honey, PLEASE PLEASE don’t spill your drink on the other passengers. I need to drop them off first before we can go to dinner. Well ok maybe the limo is not such a good idea after all.

  • Garry

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    I'm passionate about music, sports and making the most out of the opportunities life throws my way. I pride myself on being someone people can count on and in building lasting, trusting relationships with those around me. I'm a very casual person in my personal life, yet am extremely punctual, responsible and driven to always give my best efforts, both personally and professionally and expect others to do the same. Life's too short to settle for second best or regrets, so I prefer looking forward than worrying about the past. Love the Shawshank redemption line "you either get busy living, or get busy dying." I truly try and relish the “now” and enjoy the time I spend with my friends, my kids and the players that I mentor in youth sports.I have two kids, a teenage daughter who apparently lives on another planet and a 12 year old boy who is the center of my life. He’s awesome…great spirit, great heart, great mind and a person who always challenges me and keeps me on my toes. He truly makes me a better person and I love that about him.I coach baseball in my spare time…to me, there’s nothing better than sharing my love of sports with kids and teaching them how the values and lessons of sports can actually transcend the field and help them excel in life, in school and eventually business as well.I prefer seeing great bands in dive bars or smaller clubs rather than big arena shows. Been there done that…and I’d rather “see” a band at the El Rey or the Roxy than hear one from the back of the coliseum, if you know what I mean. Love all kinds of music except country, but am an ardent fan of hard rock, old blues and classic rock. Everything from Howlin’ Wolf to Zeppelin to the White Stripes to Anthrax and everything in between…including Public Enemy, Jay Z and Ice Cube. Love discovering new bands and CD hunting in record stores…yes…they still actually exist. I’m very open, honest, extremely loyal and dependable and am looking for a girl who shares my belief in making the most out of life’s opportunities as they happen. I’m more of a spontaneous, seize the day kind of guy rather than always saving for the rainy day or waiting for the perfect time to do something. The truth is that there is no “perfect time” to do things in life. We’re only here for a short time and it’s important to take chances, explore opportunities and spend your time surrounded by friends, family and people you truly enjoy.

  • Lloyd

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    Man. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: woman. In age: 43-53

    I like being around positive real people. I have no time for fake family or friends...I also believe in karma cuz what goes around come around! if you\'re open-minded and real be free to write me.

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