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About Me

I am a SINGLE Bay Area guy seeking chemistry on any level. Im interested in friendship and ultimately something more serious with someone I am mutually compatible with and wildly attracted to.I tend to find myself attracted to younger, fit and masculine guys, a great sense of humor, youthful energy, a man with drive and a kind heart.I'm typically attracted to fit and handsome guys younger than me within the age range of ***. My ideal mate prefers the bottom bunk in the bedroom and is HIV negative and std free and enjoys keeping fit. He is wired for monogamy and has done some self development work or sees value in self development. Im a relationship guy that just happens to be single at the moment. I am a big fan of monogamy and the idea that two men in love can actually thrive in a wonderful monogamous relationship.I enjoy the study of the Law of Attraction, quantum physics and practicing the power of positive intentions. I think keeping the body moving is a good thing. I enjoy keeping my body active with daily physical activities including the gym or a workout of some sort to promote a healthy body. I love to cook for friends and explore healthy recipes. On the flip side I also enjoy meeting friends for dinner and drinks. I guess its all about balance sometimes I get a little crazy on both ends of this but I try to have a lot of fun either way. Im looking for someone that can appreciate the whole package.What Im looking for on here? ...Im open to friendship, dating and ultimately a long term loving relationship with my match. Im the type to take it slow to get to know someone to see if the connection goes in any direction. Mutual spark is rare but possible. I'm looking forward to meeting my match. I like a first date to be casual with no expectations. Meeting for coffee or a drink or a chat face to face on *** if there is enough spark and mutual chemistry for a second date.If all goes well then my ideal second date would dinner or lunch and some good conversation getting to know more about each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zebina

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a professor working on my PhD in Business Administration. My first novel is being published in ***, and my agent is shopping the second. I love to cook and dine out. I love hanging out with friends. I'm not huge on the club scene, though every once in a while I get an itch.I am at a point of transition and looking for that guy to spend the rest of my life with. So many people have come into my life, most leaving handprints on my heart, a few leaving scars. But they have all made me who I am. I want to find the partner who will contribute toward who I am going to be. Experiencing the world with another person is one my greatest joys. I want to see things not through my eyes, or through his eyes, but through our eyes. It is so much more fulfilling and amazing that way.One great joy is entertaining friends, usually when I am cooking a meal and my partner is helping get the presentation perfect. I am a pretty darn good cook, often recreating meals I've enjoyed at a restaurant. Baking requires precision and following a recipe. I use recipes for inspiration, but cook with my senses of sight, smell, and taste.I'm really looking for friends or dates or ltr. That said, if you are partnered or in an open relationship I doubt I'll respond. I do think everyone needs to have fun once in a while, including me, but couples and halves of couples aren't my thing. I'd rather meet single guys for a drink and see where that goes, but there are plenty of ways to get together. I prefer white men younger than me, but there are always exceptions. A full head of hair, dimples and a great smile are wonderful on any man. I'm vers/btm in case you got this far in my profile. I tend to be attracted to an all-American look. Smiles make me melt. A full head of hair and toned body are great too. But mostly it is positive energy (youthful energy) that attracts me. I'm not bubbly, but I tend to see the best in everyone. Sometimes I get steamrolled because of that, but I remain positive.I don't mean to be rude, but please have a picture of your face in your profile. Not one covered in a hat and/or sunglasses, but your face. Eyes are the windows to the soul and I like looking at them. Everyone is attractive in one way or the other...unless they cover their beauty up. A glass of wine at sunset. Something where we can talk but also have a memorable night. I want the first date with the right guy to be one we can recreate year after year.

  • Parry

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    Man. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I am looking for a Long Term Relationships. I work hard and play hard. Like to travel, beach, camping, and boating. I am easy going man and like to find the same. Lets talk and see if we click.

  • Kale

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Laided back guy here,looking for the same. Love the summer, beach walks and the sun, love PCS and boating and sking in the winter, I'm 160lbs and in shape with blue eyes. I work out every day in the early mornings, and I like going on bike rides in the woods or on the road. I really like guys that r my height or smaller!I do not rule out taller guys either. I would take out my first date out to dinner,talk and get to know each other, and see were things go!I would just love to find a guy that is caring understanding and honest and be up front! Thats what relationships and freindships R for.

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