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Shay, 49

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About Me

I'm an artist (a surrealist painter) and I don't see the world the way most people do. I practice Zen. Zen is not really a religion, it's more a way to approach daily living. If you're not open-minded, we probably won't get along. I tend to get along better with younger guys. I enrolled in an extension course at OSU in weight lifting and became a trainer so I could train myself. I bought a Trek fitness bike and I love it! I'm definitely not a typical gay man. I know more about automotive engineering than I do about designer clothes and have no problem with crawling under my truck and getting grease on my hands. However, I'm no cultural slouch either. I have a decent working knowledge of modern literature and art history, particularly 20th century painting.I'm not really into the "gay" scene or too much of a bar person but I really enjoy going to dance clubs and dancing my ass off if the DJ is good. I love music and enjoy a broad range of musical genres but mostly listen to techno (I love BT) trance and 80's industrial rock like Front 242.I'm a very busy guy. My job (self-employed construction worker), tryin to stay fit and working on my paintings doesn't leave me a lot of spare time but I am more than willing to make time for someone if we hit it off. Oh, if you're going to send me a message at least tell me a little about yourself. Messages that contain only one or two words like "Sup" or "You looking?" are lame and will probably be answered with an equal lack of effort. Intelligence is sexy!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Zebina

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    Man. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    I'm a professor working on my PhD in Business Administration. My first novel is being published in ***, and my agent is shopping the second. I love to cook and dine out. I love hanging out with friends. I'm not huge on the club scene, though every once in a while I get an itch.I am at a point of transition and looking for that guy to spend the rest of my life with. So many people have come into my life, most leaving handprints on my heart, a few leaving scars. But they have all made me who I am. I want to find the partner who will contribute toward who I am going to be. Experiencing the world with another person is one my greatest joys. I want to see things not through my eyes, or through his eyes, but through our eyes. It is so much more fulfilling and amazing that way.One great joy is entertaining friends, usually when I am cooking a meal and my partner is helping get the presentation perfect. I am a pretty darn good cook, often recreating meals I've enjoyed at a restaurant. Baking requires precision and following a recipe. I use recipes for inspiration, but cook with my senses of sight, smell, and taste.I'm really looking for friends or dates or ltr. That said, if you are partnered or in an open relationship I doubt I'll respond. I do think everyone needs to have fun once in a while, including me, but couples and halves of couples aren't my thing. I'd rather meet single guys for a drink and see where that goes, but there are plenty of ways to get together. I prefer white men younger than me, but there are always exceptions. A full head of hair, dimples and a great smile are wonderful on any man. I'm vers/btm in case you got this far in my profile. I tend to be attracted to an all-American look. Smiles make me melt. A full head of hair and toned body are great too. But mostly it is positive energy (youthful energy) that attracts me. I'm not bubbly, but I tend to see the best in everyone. Sometimes I get steamrolled because of that, but I remain positive.I don't mean to be rude, but please have a picture of your face in your profile. Not one covered in a hat and/or sunglasses, but your face. Eyes are the windows to the soul and I like looking at them. Everyone is attractive in one way or the other...unless they cover their beauty up. A glass of wine at sunset. Something where we can talk but also have a memorable night. I want the first date with the right guy to be one we can recreate year after year.

  • Aron

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I\'m currently single and I have no children, but would like children in the future. Overall, I\'m looking for that certain someone who will complement my personality, make me laugh.

  • Braydon

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    Man. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Open to possibilities. Still a kid at heart, looking for a man who is open to dating and developing a relationship. I'm open to making a few new friends along the way. I enjoy movies, music, day trips, playing video games and hanging out with friends, having BBQs. First date can simply be coffee and a nice talk in the park.

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