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Alic, 47
United States, Louisiana, Iowa

Offline, last seen Mon, 17 Nov 2025 14:23:44

About Me

I advise you to run quickly and as fast as you can from me. You don't want any part of a relationship with me! I thought this might be the best introduction to attract you..;) Ya think?By the way, Im so glad meetville agrees with me about the importance of asking if you have car? This is a strong indicator of the likely success of a relationship..;) Maybe you have an initial sense of my personality? Yes, I can be sarcastic, silly, playful and witty. But, I can also be intense, passionate and serious. Often our best attributes can also be our most challenging. I am a Father first and foremost. I have three beautiful and dynamic teenage daughters. I am extremely involved in their life. My girls would say perhaps intrusive..;) It is true that I can tend to embaras them when we are out with my antics! The most sexy and attractive quality to me in a lady is that she is a good Mother. Yes, believe it or not that's what I said! I have experienced a great deal in my life;And from that experienced I have gained a lot of wisdom. I have had my share of failures and successes. This has yielded a balance between definite confidence and self-assurdness tempered with humility. I am self evaluative and know myself extremely well. I am clear about what I seek in relationship and the qualities that attract me in a woman. I think too often in our culture men look to get definition as to who they are as men through women. A man should bring to a relationship an already healthy developed sense of self and clarity as to who they are. I am also clear about what characteristics I seek in a woman. You don't have to have children. But, if you do I find that our likely world view may be more suitable. Your are passionate about something in your life. It can be a general sense of passion. Or, it can be something specific in your life. You are nurturing. I don't mean that I need to be bottle fed..;) Unless, this is a mutual agreed upon activity. This can be great foreplay..;) I mean you support me in endeavors and my desire to grow as a man. You have gained wisdom in your own life and are prepared to share that experience with me. You are not aggressive or too dominating. One of us in the relationship is enough..;) I don't find this to be too feminine. Don't mistake what I am saying. I want confidence in a woman. But, that's the key term.."as a woman". So, this process is likely not my style. I am very personable and outgoing. But, I am not making it complicated or putting my hopes and dreams into this process. I simply thought I would open myself up to the possibility. I may not be for you, But, if I am you will find me to be direct. You will always see me coming without agenda and pretense. Lastly, my profession is time consuming. I own a professional corporation that provides legal and psychological services to children and their families. This does not define me. But, it contributes to who I am. I am an attorney and psychologist. Please don't be intimadated by this. I'm not implying you should be. But, I have experienced this before. I am far more street smart and down to earth in my personality. I like to think I am a bit different and unique. But, that's for you to decide. I tend to communicate on an emotional level. I will tell you how I feel as well as how I think. Most men struggle with this style of communication.I have a busy and sometimes complicated life. These days I am attempting to make it more simple. I have spent a lot of my time caring for others in my life professionally and personally. Sometimes in doing so, I have given too much of myself away;attending less to myself. I am seeking a healthy, committed relationship in which true intimacy is achieved through being emotionally open and truely sharing in each others lives. This takes time. Sometimes it seems everyone is in a rush to find that "someone". I am seeking "the one". not just "someone", Above all words are words. This doesn't mean that they are unimportant. But, I could communicate anything I want on this profile. That's part of the challenge on a site like this, weeding through potential agendas. Use your intuition and judgement. If I can delicately suggest something..;) It's all good that you enjoy traveling, wine tasting and soaking in bubble baths. But, my lady, please have something of more substance to tell me. Tell me that you you want me and need me. After all, we have shared so much together so far :). It's time we move onto the next stage of our relationship..;) Romance is critical. I pride myself treating my date with the utmost in luxury. So, perhaps I would take you to Arby's and we can make eyes at each other over roast beef..;) This is a very underrated environment for love..;)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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