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Lindon, 43
United States, Kansas, Derby

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About Me

I am 42 years old, I'm 6 feet tall about ***pounds. I have brown hair & green eyes. I am on the slim side but have a good body. I guess I'm not like most, I was in 1 relationship that kept me from living the "gay" life, so there wasn't much going to clubs or to Fire Island so I guess what I'm trying to say is that I don't have much experience with the "gay scene". I am not a gym guy, I don't work out but like I said, I am slim so I'm lucky. I prefer quiet nights at home opposed to going out, most of my friends are straight, I like crappy tv, I prefer beer over wine and I am definitely family/friends oriented guy. I am trying to find someone that's like me, just a regular guy that likes guys. Someone to share life with on a daily basis. To be honest, I am not interested in feminine guys at all. Not to say that I am super masculine but I'm just regular. Although, I am proud of who I am, I don't broadcast my sexuality. I like to start things out by speaking thru text, moving on to a couple of phone conversations and then meeting. Being that I am new to the dating scene, I notice that people like to jump right in bed and I have tried it but it's just not me. Maybe you're the guy I'm looking for? My idea of the perfect first date is pretty simple. I was in a relationship for a long time so I feel so NEW at this. Going out to dinner is cool. Staying in for dinner is cool too. Drinks. A walk in NYC. Just being in a setting where we can talk and get to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    6'1"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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