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Jakki, 47

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About Me

Here we go again, lets try this one more time. Looking for respectful decent, patient man... Why does everything have to be such a rush?I have been a single mother for many years and now that my children are grown i find myself alone most of the time. I believe maybe it is time for me to rejump my social life. Most people know exactly what they like to do for fun but unfortunately I am lost for words unfortunately. I feel I have spent most of my time doing what my children like to do that I really never got to know myself or what it is I like to do for fun.At any rate, I am looking for that special someone that may be able to show me how to live again, be adventurous, have fun, smile, be happy. I am ready to leave the nest so to speak lol.Well if you think you are that person or could be that person please ***, I am not looking to serial date as it just takes one so i hope that ONE comes sooner than later lol. i like surprises i do and i like to be spontaneous when i can but hey i dont consider skinny dipping a good first date lol geesh..... im not that girl.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Debi

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I'm ready...let's go:A. have a good dinner either homemade or at a nice restaurant, go to a movie or watch one at home.B. take a spur of the moment road trip to Vegas or up north and spend the weekend in a cozy hotel room. C. to a sports bar to watch a game and cheer on your favorite team or get some great snacks and drinks and watch it from home. D. to a comedy show and then come home and make each other laugh.E. on a great vacation to an exotic place and do something you have never done before or have ; )F. listen to a live band or go to a concert then come home and make our own music lol.G. just spend time doing everyday things with someone who cares about you as much as you care about them.H. all of the above. Would like to find someone who likes to enjoy quality time together but also understands that personal time is necessary. I am originally from NY and 100% Italian so family is very important to me . My sons are growing and getting more and more independent which gives me plenty of time for the right person. I am not into playing games. I say what I mean and do what I say. I am in a good place in life and I am hopeful to find someone to share it with me.Note: I am not interested in an e mail or text buddies, enjoy the companionship of real people too much : )Someday all of this will be worth it. Let' s see if there is a mutual attraction and take it from there.

  • Vicenta

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    ;My son, there's a battle between 2 wolves inside us all. One is evil, it is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies and ego. The other is good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindess and truth." The boy thought about it and asked, "Grandfather, which wolf wins?" The old man quietly replied, "the one you feed." So, a little about me: I am the oldest of six children. I am close to my family, although I don't get to spend as much time with them as I'd like. I have two daughters, 11 and 12, both are very smart and they do make it all worthwhile. I am passionate, expressive, playful, generous, thoughtful and fiercely protective of friends and family. I am slow to anger, but a good person to have in your corner if you have been treated unfairly and need an advocate. I will not run from a fight, but I believe in choosing my battles. When I love, I love completely and with abandon, much like Ronny and Loretta in "Moonstruck". If you are looking for a playmate only, please don't respond to me. The word "intimate" has nothing to do with sex although many people make the mistake of believing that they are one and the same. True intimacy is the deep connection of two souls, and I won't accept anything less in my next relationship. Some things I like in a man: Honesty for one, for ***, exclusive means that you don't see other women romantically (a duh moment, I know) I like someone who can take charge, without being bossy. Someone who knows enough about cars to hazard a guess as to the cause of a smell or a sound emanating from the engine but doesn't know TOO much. I like a man who will wrap his arms around me and pull me in close when its cold or when I'm sad or worried and make me feel as if the world can't stop spinning as long as his arms are wrapped around me. I like a smart, educated man, that can match wits with me and that realizes I am truly a prize and doesn't take me for granted. I don't need to be catered to or pampered. I do, however, value attention from the man I love and reciprocate gratefully. But you should know that all the things that make me interesting can also make me challenging at times (I've been told) and if you can't handle a strong woman who will challenge you to be your best self, than move on to the next profile. When we meet for the first time, I may be quieter than you are expecting. I will likely listen more than I talk because I want to know what makes you tick and whether together we are a "yes" or a "no". I don't like endless *** phone conversations with men I have not yet sat across a table from although a short initial conversation is totally okay in the beginning. If you have had or still have women in your life with whom you've had on again off again relationships that never really ended, please don't *** used to tell people that I never re-cross a bridge and I didn't really understand why I felt that way. I have discovered that when relationships end, there's a reason, and revisiting those relationships often creates an endless cycle of heartache and dysfunction. I am learning to accept the ends of things and be open to new opportunities. Whether it is physically or emotionally, I strive to be healthier every day, and be true to myself. I know that I'm never going to stop falling in love and that I will always be risking a broken heart. It is a risk that must be taken. I know that when I meet the one I am supposed to be with for the rest of my life, I will continue to fall in love with him every day until I take my last breath. There is no true victory without significant risk. Something casual. Happy hour works well for me....coffee on a Saturday morning...anything that will allow me (and you) to know whether there's a spark.

  • Philippa

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm a country girl, have no interest in living in a city. I’m a simple woman, I’d rather have wild flowers over roses, go for a picnic rather then a fancy dinner, Friday night car races or drive-in movies. I love boating & enjoy a good book. I love going for rides in a 4x4. I also can be somewhat of a homebody with the right person. Love cuddling up on the couch to watch a good movie or TV program. My favorite place to travel is to the ocean. I have a very full and happy life, but realize that I'm not meant to be alone. I have much love in my heart and want to share it with a very special man, a man who can help complete me. Are you out there? Looking for someone who's baggage free, non smoker and likes full figured woman. Start out as friends and see where it goes from there. It's been a long time since I've dated... I tend to like the man to take the lead in the beginning.

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