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Otilia, 45
United States, Indiana, Greencastle

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Hobbies/activities... cooking, gardening, hiking, outdoorsy type stuff, motorcycles, music, moviesGoals & aspirations... Be the best I can be at all that I do, and strive to be betterMe... I'm happy, positive, loving, adventurous, energetic, but at the same time have a very laid back personality. I have a good sense of humor, with a quick wit, and a bit of east coast sarcasm. I love, love, love to laugh! I am told I am not your average female. I think that has to do with my low threshold for drama, and my level of honesty. Ok, and maybe because I'm kind of a goof. I'm very comfortable in my own skin. Not much mystery in what I'm thinking ;) I stay active and although I'm a busy lady I take care of myself and I like to stay in shape. I'm curvy, but told they are in all the right places ;)I am a keep it simple kind of lady. Life is complicated enough. I love to live life and prefer not to get caught up in the little things... oh, they're all pretty much little things aren't they? Music.....depends on the mood, or the activity. Love christian rock because of the positive message, but I will pretty much listen to anything....especially live!Enough about me!You...hopefully share some, or many of the same qualities and interests. You are not a player, and are not looking for a fling or a one night stand. You're honest. You have values and morals, and integrity means something to you. You are stable and secure. You aren't in the middle of a midlife crisis. You have a sense of humor and don't take life too seriously!Not a necessity, but bonus points if you have a bike, like to ride, and are safe with a passenger, because as stated, I like motorcycles. I don't have one...yet....but I do love to ride!All that being said, if you'd like to get to know me better, message me and let's chat. If I don't respond right away, don't take it personally. I'm probably just super busy. :)Catch ya later...Some after thoughts....Years of experience has taught me that anything worth having is worth waiting for. That being said, I like to take time to get to know someone, and become friends first and see how things go. I am perfectly happy to patiently wait for what's meant to be. Eventually, I'd like to fall in love with someone I can build life with. When that happens, I will give him all the love and loyalty my heart has to offer. However, nothing can be built successfully without a solid foundation. Furthermore, my time is valueable and so is yours. I know who I like to hang with, and I'm sure you do too. If things aren't headed in a favorable direction for one or both of us, its all good. Pushy, over persistant and needy are huge turnoffs and make me really uncomfortable.Lastly, and something I consider trivial, but you may not...when I put this up, my hair was blonde. Today its red. Next week it may be blonde again. I do that sometimes. I get bored. Nothing too radical though, I promise! ;) Call me old fashioned, but I like to get to know someone a bit. I'm not one to want to have the rest of our lives figured out within the next 2 hours. So, let's enjoy talking over a good cup of coffee, or perhaps a walk in the park. If there's something more to explore, we'll get there when we get there. No hurries, no worries

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Widowed

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I enjoy confident men with a great smile, that goes a long way with me. I'm a big dancer, so if you enjoy dancing or watching thats great with me! Rock bands, dance music, I love it all! I like a man that is strong physically as well as emotionally. No lazy beer bellys need apply!!LOL...Most of all I would like to meet someone who is sincere and honest.. no games..Whether it be a great new friendship or alot more!! For my first date Dinner would be great, then if all goes well something more spontanious, like going somewhere different, or just doing something new!! And please be taller than me!!

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I like to travel and see the world. I love beaches and walking . I love to laugh and I cant stand drama and negativity. I am a very honest and caring person and I am looking for a friendship to start and then maybe a relationship . I cant stand over confident people, it is good to be confident but not to the point were it is overpowering and gives the wrong impression and seems fake ! I like all music ,and I love to go dancing especially to latin music. If you want to know more you will have to contact me. CHOOSE TO ENJOY!Make life more enjoyable by choosing to see more of it as enjoyable. *** assuming that what you’re doing is unpleasant just because everyone else thinks so, see if you can find a way to enjoy it.Much of what makes life unpleasant is your worry that you’re missing out on something more enjoyable. Let go of that worry, enjoy the moment you’re in, and feel the genuine beauty of life that lives within you.The distinction between work and play is nothing more than a judgment call. *** making that judgment, make the choice to put meaning and fulfillment into whatever you’re doing.It’s easy to feel confined by your commitments and obligations. Yet when you choose, it is just as easy, and just as realistic, to feel enthusiastic and empowered by whatever it is you must do.Your situation is what it is. However, the way you feel about your situation is completely up to you.It feels much better to feel better, and it makes you vastly more effective at bringing real value to life. So choose more often to enjoy, and happily experience life on your own enjoyable terms. A life with no problemsThe difficulties are not what make life so difficult. What makes life difficult is trying to avoid the difficulties.When you can accept that life is always going to have difficulties, it becomes much less difficult. When you stop running from the challenges, they become much less challenging.Living a good life is not living a life without problems. Living a good life comes from acknowledging, facing, and then transcending each problem as it comes.If you let the problems get you down, you’ll always be down. Choose *** let the problems get you up, get you going, and get you working on solving them.Choose, in fact, to be thankful for the problems. For in each problem is a new opportunity to create value and to move life forward.A life with no problems is no life at all. Live with the problems, work successfully through the problems, and enjoy a rich and fulfilling life. THE POSITIVE SIDE!Your attitude may be the biggest thing holding you back. And that’s great news, because you can change it very quickly.Other challenges and limitations can take much time and energy to overcome. Yet if your attitude is what’s limiting you, then you have the key right here and now to break free.Your attitude does not define you and it doesn’t really control you. It does, however, exert a powerful influence on the way you see the world.The simple fact is that with a positive, purposeful and loving attitude, you are able to see and to connect with life’s best possibilities. And simply by deciding to choose it, you can immediately benefit from such an attitude.You don’t have to let your attitude be held hostage by negative people, events or circumstances. You can choose whatever attitude you wish, no matter what may be going on around you.So give yourself a powerful advantage. Choose an attitude, right now, that will illuminate the positive side of life, and begin right away to reap the great rewards of your empowering focus. Laughing and enjoying the moment to see if it leads to a second date..............

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Good food is my ultimate aphrodisiac... I am in constant struggle with the rational and the irrational side of me...I make friends in the unlikeliest of places, and I love to talk! I truly do believe that life is too short to sweat the small stuff, and because of this I pick my battles carefully. I believe that laughter heals any and everything. What else can I share??? I'm random, impulsive and believe in good ol fashion chivalry.;Breakfast at Tiffany's" over and over. I love music, and much like my favorite movies, I will play the same cd over and over and over, just because of how it makes me feel when I listen to it. I just started to collect albums, and I do have a record player:) so much fun... When it works:) I think music is like a photo album... A song can take you back to a moment, a friend, a time in your life... I always have my music on!Let's see, my family and friends ground me... I will try anything once, twice if I am not sure.... I am VERY social, and not in the least bit shy. Damn, this is tough... I curse like a sailor, have been on here once before, but was truly not ready. My family comes first, that said I am the oldest in a very large, Irish, Catholic family, and I am definitely the "black sheep.” I subscribe to that statement and firmly believe that every family needs some color, I am that in spades! I love to laugh as I have mentioned earlier, and it truly has been my saving grace. Hmmmmm, let's see.... I speak my mind, I just don't believe in games... and as much as I try to avoid it, trouble always seems to find me. I am sure I will add more as the mood strikes me:) If you have any questions, please ask:) I am an open book, and if a chapter is closed, I will tell you! Promise:) We can decide together, but I think a drink and conversation is the best place to start... I'm equal opportunity, I love coffee, I'm addicted; but also love a glass of wine at the end of the day. (Add an obscure restaurant to the mix and that is even better!!!!) Peace and luck navigating the site! Jules

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