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Effi, 42

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About Me

I Love life and finding out ways to enjoy it more. Always smiling and laughing. Down to earth and easy to get along with. I know who I am but not a bit of arrogance in me.If your looking for someone with lots of personality/spunk/witty/confidence/ smart alack/downtown gal who also enjoys the outdoors/a kind heart/and a good all around gal..you won't be disappointed with me. :)Love the outdoors especially in the summer. Hiking, exploring new places, biking, camping, new restaurants, concerts and open to trying anything at least once. I enjoy going to the gym 4 to 5 times a week and working on getting into the best shape of my life. I"m more on the curvy side but with muscle. :) Would love to travel more and would love to find a partner to have those experiences with. I'm passionate about music! Going to concerts and finding local new bands. Spontaneous is aways fun!Enjoy my friends and meeting new people and going to new places. Great food, great wine, and great company! Have two great kids that keep me busy part time but there is still time for me and the things and people I enjoy Hoping to find a guy that is honest, fun to be around, won't put intimate encounters first, ACTUALLY wants to know me, spontaneous and loves to laugh. The qualities I look for in a man is who has chemistry, knows how to enjoy life, integrity,is open minded, educated, who knows the right moments to be serious, witty, naughty and nice. Someone who is outgoing and no hiccups to be themselves. Communication is a must. *I'm not attracted to Black men. Sorry"Geez, Are there really any men out there that want more then a hook up? I don't want to go to Match. I'm truly wanting a long term friend in my life. Meet for coffee or a drink and see how the chemistry is

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'10"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Johnette

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I enjoy being me, I don't put on an act.. I think i am fun to be around,I do have 1 child, well hes grown, he will be 21 in June. He has made me very proud of him. I have a lot of great friends. I love to make people smile, its so easy to make someones day. It's so easy to be myself!!I really would love to know what happen to men and woman wanting to get to know each otherI am looking for someone REAL...Life is to short for games... Come on now if i tell you what i want you to do then it will be to easy :)

  • Daniela

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Hmmm... I have been in this area a couple of years now and feel like I have been wasting it. There are so many good places to hang out and things to do. Yet I don't do any of it. I work and go to school and never seem to go anywhere. How boring! I would like to meet someone to really hang-out with. I need some intellectual stimulation in my life. Some good conversation would be nice. I kind of like the intellectual "geeky" type. Also must like cats as I have 3 of them. Thanks. :) Probably coffee or something similar.

  • Norah

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I am a medical profesional and I love my job. I have a 13 year old son that means the world to me and he is my first and foremost concern right now. I love spending time with him. There is something missing in my life and that is an honest, loving and caring man to be by my side. I am looking for a helpmate, not another person to take care of. I want to be there for you and you be there for me. I am looking for someone that is willing and capable of accepting my son as his own. I need someone that is able to be supportive of him as well. If you have children, that is fine and I will accept them as mine as well. Family is something that is very important to me. I like all kinds of music, with the acception of some kinds of heavy metal and some rap. I grew up in a family where learning music was important. I enjoy the outdoors and staying indoors as well. I enjoy taking walks, camping, fishing, bonfires and spending time with those I love and care about. I like chilling out and watching movies, playing cards and board games. I am a pretty good cook and do enjoy it. I just don't like all the dirty dishes it creates afterwards. LOL. As you can probably tell from my pictures, I enjoy humor. I enjoy life and what it has to offer. I would love to get out and have fun a little more often, but I also have responsibilities with work and my son. I do also have a serious side. If you get to know me, you will see both.I have been trying to improve my health with diet and have started working out. My son has helped me in that department. I want to see my son grown and to see my future grand babies some day, if that happens. If you are just looking for quick short relationship, are a serial dater or just a player, please pass me by. If you are interested, please feel free to leave me a message. Have a wonderful day and I wish you luck in your search. Going out to dinner, meeting at a cafe or possibly doing something fun in a public place. Somewhere that we can talk and get to know one another better.

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