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Oswaldo, 36
United States, Illinois, Mount Carmel

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My personality: I am warm, open-hearted, friendly, honest, loving, tactile, sensitive (but not over- Even though deep down I am very serious about life and living well, I try not to take myself too seriously, have learnt to laugh at myself and to be open about mistakes I have made and my own failings. I enjoy good company, particularly eating together, having deep & intimate conversation but also a lot of laughs, going to pubs/cafes with soul, walks in nature, enjoying great music with others, but equally I like and need a fair bit of time alone in order to feel balanced in my psyche. I am lucky that my job (Tai Chi/martial arts teacher) is also my main hobby. Personally, I would like to form meaningful relationships and partnerships with others that help me to learn from them, to share my knowledge and gifts, to become a better person and more fulfilled. Of course I would dearly love to find a life partner who I can share as much as possible of my life with and grow with. By the way, I am a good cook and particularly love to cook for others ;) I also love people who can really think for themselves and show some intellectual curiosity - if you're not curious in this way we may not have much to talk about! Also I am a big fan of straight talking people who are really committed to being honest with themselves and with other people. From experience, I know this is not easy and I still have a lot work to do myself! I love any music with feeling, spontaneity and care in its creation.- his playing moves me the most and having been a trumpeter myself I can really identify with it.I realise that I am quite an unusual person in terms of my lifestyle. My quiet, simple life may seem dull and boring from the outside, but I have a rich inner life and I cannot adequately describe the joy that it brings. I just wish I had more like-minded people around me to share with. I am not a materialist and don't have much money because that is not a driving force in my life. I am driven to discover and follow the purpose of my life, to not get distracted by all the bullsh*t that our world puts in the way and focus on pursuing my passions and convictions no matter what people think of me or how my life is viewed by 'society'. And to be happy, of course - I am getting there :) Beyond that, all you really need to know is that I am actually an ordinary, down-to-earth, level-headed, genuine, honest and humorous person who is not living with his head in the clouds or buried deep in the sand. Although most people would view me as 'alternative', one thing I am not is a fluffy new-ager! Meeting in a quiet cafe or bar (somewhere with character and uniqueness), going for a walk, sharing our passions and aspirations... and hopefully some really good laughs and a nice hug at the end!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'11"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

British Caribbean Korean Thai
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