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Chong, 38
United States, Illinois, Mount Carmel

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*Just wanna chill, have fun, work hard, and most of all connect with someone different. Someone who can think outside the box.Met a girl from over there, moved over but split over 3 years ago. Stayed there for a while but eventually decided the sensible thing was to move back to family and friends. Had a great time over there. It does have many positives, but having been away makes you more aware of all the negatives too. Strangely though I'm probably the happiest I've been in many many years................ I've got an A-Level in Maths yet I can't quite 'do the math' !! Ha.So, been single for about 3 n half years now. Not sure what I'm looking for. In fact, I'm not looking. What happens, happens. What comes, comes. I believe in having a very chilled attitude to these things. Trying to force it won't ever work. Too many people do. They go looking, and usually with quite specific criteria, and end up very dissapointed and frustrated.I've found that the people the you end up drawn too, lovers or friends, tend to be the ones that you'd never have chosen on paper. It's about a connection, a mutual appreciation, chemistry, and sometimes even something that you can't explain - something unconventional, something that shouldn't add up! Then when you 'really' get to know them you realise you have more in common than you ever could have imagined. I have some great friends, and although none of them is 'perfect' I wouldn't change them for anything.I won't, and I mean WON'T, look at life and relationships like the average person does. Come on, get real! Life is not like the movies, it's no fairy tale, you're not gonna meet the perfect person. But if you believe in yourself and look around, and I mean really really LOOK, you'll find that there are some amazing people out there. Open your mind.Anyway, enough of all that :)Have competed as a Natural Bodybuilder since age 18 and it's great being back at my original gym (Bodytek). Just need to get myself motivated to get back into proper serious training *** just lifting a few weights here n there and eating the odd tin of tuna! ;)I've competed at a very high level but have never really done myself justice and have unfinished business as a Bodybuilder. Also time's running out if I'm gonna fullfill my potential - know there's plenty of guys that would love the opportunity that I have and I feel I owe it to them (especially the ones that have supported me so much over the years) to give it my all.Tend to lack discipline, could do with someone to 'crack the whip' (in the bedroom, or on the stairs. would be fine too!).Also I live at the gym now so I've pretty much got no excuse!! My youngest brother and his girlfriend are the worst influences, she's always the one buying rounds of shots on a Sunday afternoon! Bad bad influences - but I do love em both :)Obviously I like to keep in shape, and 'try' to look good, but get the impression that women think I'm up my own a***....or gay!!I'm very very open in that respect but I'm most definatley not gay.......I think ;) Ha.;) xOther than that I'm a nice bloke (honestly!), pretty chilled (maybe too lazy), and just like things simple - as I see it LIFE is complicated enough as it is. Few drinks. Have a laugh. Get relaxed. Get flirty. Can't keep my hands off you. Few more drinks. Maybe dance. Maybe grind!! Laugh. Drink. Touch. Kiss. Your hands everywhere- "Please respect my dignity". Or not!! All cool :)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Reggae Fishing Canadian Chinese Indonesian
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