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Jame, 40
United States, Illinois, Greenville

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About Me

Simple, single, playful, active, light-natured(drama free) guy open to the chance of meeting an interesting woman. Not sold on the idea of internet dating, it seems contrived and superficial. We should hang out and get to know each other, then when the chemistry seems good we can move into the romantic/dating area. It just seems more natural, comfortable, low-pressure. I don't go to bars very often at all, or meet many eligible women at all in my line of work, so I just see this as an opportunity to broaden my horizons.If it looks like I am always online it is probably the app doing that. My pictures are all within the last 6 months.I have never married, have no children. Always present yet never anxious. Work m-f as a cad-draftsman/mechanical design/cnc programming, so I can design and make from scratch(quite literally), refurbish, or restore practically anything that I fancy, normally a few projects going on at any one time. I have absolutely no debt, if I want something I simply save for it, I see it as a form of government supported charity, not for the benefit of those borrowing but for those with something to sell. I live alone near downtown St. Pete and love the area. I enjoy pretty much anything other than television, bars (especially scene-y bars), or sporting events. I have no issues with alcohol or addiction, drinking is just not something I choose to do very often. A bit more on the introverted side, kinda like being the outsider. An INJT personality type... but a healthier sort, I think taoism has helped me tame some of its less sociable aspects. I make my own sandwiches and will make them for you too. Being in nature is always good, have a fondness for cycling, hiking and walks, but not so much sunbathing. I do stay fit and active, but nothing religiously. I eat healthy also, no fast, chain, or overly processed food. The music genres I enjoy are ska, rocksteady, roots reggae, punk, hardcore punk, bandcamp punk, garage rock, blues, jazz, classical/chamber, classic R&B, regional/world music.As for who I am attracted to, personality means a ton to me... someone nice, compassionate, kind and giving. A lot of people start out this way then turn bitter, that's a mistake I think, you shouldn't stop being a nice person, just find people to surround yourself that can appreciate it and not take advantage of it. Hate is easy, to love takes courage and patience. No racism, sexism, or homophobia, I ain't got no time for that! ...Cute and relatively fit/ healthy are about the only physical "requirements" I have. I often find myself attracted to the type of physical peculiarities that people often feel compelled to cover up or pay to get changed. Curly hair, yaeba, freckles, those sorts of things. The types of things that makes one unique, really not looking for the "everywoman". If you are the type of woman that finds herself comfortable without a lot of make-up or hair primping, its all the better, I often fall for the natural look.If your profile contains any of the following terms, I doubt we will be very compatible..... =PI am in no rush, we should get to know each other and develop a friendship first. The relationship part will come naturally... chemistry and mutual attraction would make it inevitable. I am not looking for a quantity of dates, but a connection that is explosive. If nothing else I may make some new friends. In a relationship I am supportive, affectionate, loyal, and never overbearing, controlling, or jealous. A chance to talk would be best, so movies or loud bars would probably be at the bottom of the list.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    6'2"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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