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Zelia, 46
United States, Illinois, Centralia

Offline, last seen Wed, 10 Sep 2025 18:36:57

About Me

I love the idea of a Renaissance woman, and while I can't yet claim to be that, my goal in life is to learn about everything and, more importantly, how to do everything. So over time I've gained a few useful skills - give me a call if you need your roof fixed, a window replaced, a leaky faucet repaired, or a wall moved. I like projects (and power tools!). And have a heated discussion on the way home about whether string theory really does fit in to the explanation of how the universe began. Alas, my portfolio of interests is not yet complete; it's a big world out there to learn about and experience. Let's see... On our first date, you'll pick me up in your late model Ferrari that you personally converted to full electric and charged on your 10 megawatt solar panel array before you left home. Since you already have a deep understanding of my personality from reading my profile, you know to show up exactly 7 minutes late while I flutter around trying to decide which earrings will properly reflect my unique balance of deep intellectualism and runway model fashion sense. After a few introductory niceties, you whisk me off towards a great little local restaurant run by a former celebrity chef where the entire menu, produce as well as livestock, is raised on a small plot of land behind the restaurant. We play and laugh with the free range chickens while we wait for our table to be prepared. Throughout dinner, we charm one another with our intellect and wit, sharing stories of past adventures and lifelong dreams. After dinner, you drive us by the beach, where we walk barefoot along the surf in the moonlight and happen upon a sea turtle nest where the hatchlings are just emerging. We marvel at the miracle of nature as the hatchlings make their way into the foamy waters, their fate unknown. The moonlight sparkles on the water, a pair of dolphins leap gracefully into the air. Our eyes meet. Without a single word being spoken, we exchange a devilish smile, strip down to our bathing suits (that apparently we were wearing under our clothes all evening), and dive into the warm waters. I had no idea you were a former olympic medal swimmer - you didn't include that in your profile! The local public radio station plays quietly on the car stereo as we each silently reflect on the evening and marvel at the connection between us. We're not certain when, but we will meet again.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

American Caribbean English Adult Horror Cricket
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  • Ellyn from Centralia | Woman | 50 years old | Gemini
    Ellyn

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    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    I am a very happy go lucky person..takes a lot to bring me down.. People say they notice my smile first... It's always there.... Young kid at heart, love to just take off and do things on the spur of moment,enjoy concerts, hockey games and baseball too!,love street fairs, kayaking ( have my own) floating down a river and having the sun on you, enjoying the sights and sounds.and enjoying who you are with!! exploring small towns, parks really any thing that give me something to do! But I have to admit I wear my heart on my sleeve ......and this is what I truly wish for.........Every woman deserves a man who calls her baby, kisses her like he means it, holds her tight like he never wants to let go, doesn't make her jealous of other women, *** other women jealous of her, is not scared to let his friends know how he really feels about her, and lets her know how much he really cares......I'm not into playing games...don't hide behind text..this is NOT HIGH SChOOL anymore !! My heart gets hurt just like yours.. Yours may be a little tougher tho !! I would like the man to plan it ...... Casual is great...up to pretty much anything .....

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  • Sydne from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Virgo
    Sydne

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    Thanks for stopping and reading my profile. It is always difficult to write this part. Are there really any guys out there wanting a relationship and not just a hook up? If so please read on if not good luck. I enjoy spending time with my family and friends.I love watching Football both NFL and college, Hockey and Baseball. I love what I do and have been doing it 25 years. I have been told I'm a good listener and have had some good advice given to me over the years. The best is always be yourself and true to you. I like to listen to country music and am trying to get to some concerts this year.I would like to find someone who could be my best friend first and see where it goes from there. I know all of us have a past but its how we deal with it that matters. I don't think we have to have similar interests all the time. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean you have to give up who you are. I like to cook, a nice glass of wine or cold beer out somewhere. I'm just not into games. If you are looking for a text or *** am not your girl..but I would like to meet and see if there is a spark if not that's OK. I am finding that you have to take a risk some times.What I'm also realizing is that not everyone wants what they say they do. I'm beginning to wander if people on this site really want a relationship or even know who they are.So if you've read this far and would like to talk after a few texts then drop me a line. If you want a one night stand keep searching I'm sure someone on this site will oblige. If I'm not what you're looking for its ok but thank you and good luck in your search. Whatever we can agree upon...coffee or drinks and see where it goes from there

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  • Reatha from Centralia | Woman | 48 years old | Capricorn
    Reatha

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    Woman. 48 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 45-55

    I'm not your typical conventional girl. I'm not obsessed with shopping, there's nothing that I want I'm happy with what I have. I'm well mannered and well spoken, more reserved and modest than I may appear. I don't like a lot of mush. Don't like to be smothered too much too soon. I truly like things that would interest guys more than girls. I'm not high maintenance but sexy just the same probably more so. I was told by a stranger, a woman who sees me every day I look just as good without makeup as I do with since I rush out without it in the a.m. That's the biggest compliment a woman can pay another woman : ) I'm a very introspective person and well educated thanks to my mom and dad and enjoy reading up on many different topics. I'm inquisitive, if I'm not familiar with something I look it up. My parents have gotten along together 49 years now and I realize how a man and woman should treat each other. I haven't gone through what most my age have so I don't have any drama. I'm very uncomplicated and luckily always have been. Having too many expectations of someone is very unrealistic. I do dislike arrogance, don't want a man who is wrapped up in an image or feels he is above anyone. I would like to meet a compassionate man who likes the company of kids, older people and pets as well. Being a child of the 70's & I try to keep it that way as much as I can. Get along best with a man who isn't hyper and doesn't have to be doing something all the time. I have religious belief and a conscience and would like a man who does as well. I feel it's important to have time to yourself as well as together to keep your sense of identity and appreciation for each other. Chemistry is either there or not, you can't make it happen. At the risk of being blatantly honest if you can't see yourself sexually with someone than it isn't going to work. To me intellectual chemistry is equally important because that is going to supersede everything else over time. I find a guy with a little boy charm who knows when to be a man very appealing. You don't have to be Superman, you can be Batman, he was always my favorite. I like to have fun and joke around, I'm easy to talk to and enjoy hearing about your interests as well. I'm very relaxed and not into questions, it's just not my nature. It's not that I'm not interested but I don't think it matters, things start from this point forward. I'm not a particular type, I'm comfortable no matter whether I'm at a cozy lounge or jukebox bar. I'm self-sufficient, my motto is if you want a job done right do it yourself. I'm very creative and see the artistic quality in things. I love summertime, the beach, spending time with family and friends. I have a lot of respect for and I'm close with my family and hope that you place importance on that in your own life as well. I enjoy all eras of music, more so classic rock and 80's pop. I'm most content at this age with myself and I try to see the best of a situation because most things aren't as bad as they seem. It doesn't matter where a first date takes place, more importantly is the company, you can be anywhere and have a good time.

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