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Raisa, 50
United States, Illinois, Centralia

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About Me

I don't know about you but I find this difficult. What do you say to get someone's attention? But not just ANYone's attention. The right one. That special one. You've got a 60 second window to communicate all the great things about you that your friends and family already know from years of experience. Add to that the cheesy phone *** never seem to highlight your 'best side'. I get it.So, I'll break the ice, as it were. I like gardening. Fine wine. Good beer. Cooking. Manners. People who know and appreciate their roots. People who know how to relax and laugh. And those who know when to pause for a solemn moment. I enjoy those who respect old people, love the furry people (read pets), and enjoy the little people (read children). I like to give back to the community whenever I can. I like to go to the farmers market and support/interact with the folks who nourish us. I love the idea of reconnecting with our community via charity work. I cherish the time when neighbors cared about each other and expressed interest in each others well being and place in the community. About me. I've been through a rough three years with my ex husband. I've managed to fight the urge to become a man-hating super diva. Don't get me wrong, I've got lots of diva going on. But hating is just not my style. I'm working towards being the best me I can become. I'm taking an active role in my health. I'm embracing my 'singleness'. I'm embarking on new adventures. I've started to sing...even though my cats have requested that I stop. In short, I'm a work in progress. You may pause briefly to take my measure. But be advised, I'll be different tomorrow. Catch me if you can.**AND For those of you who are "not looking for anything serious..." F*** you. Relationships are serious. Man up, already. If something is worth having then it's worth working for. If you're looking for easy then buy some porn and leave me be. Cheers Maybe just a short meeting for a drink. Let's see if we click. Let's see if we clash. Somewhere quiet where we can get to know each other without a lot of distractions (live bands, scantily clad waitresses, dancing clowns,etc).

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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