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Selby, 48
United States, Illinois, Carterville

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About Me

To put things short and sweet....Simple country girl. Mom to 3 boys (2 grown 1 still home). Not into trying to be someone I'm not. What you see is what you get. Love to be outdoors, fishing, camping, bike riding, boating, etc. I am independent, can do things for myself, but would like to have someone to share things with. Someone to do things with and enjoy just being together. (Watching a movie or taking a walk while holding your own hand just isn't working for me)I love to laugh. I find fun in most everything. I'm very upbeat and want someone who is also full of life.I am honest, strong-willed, determined and energetic. I am NOT materialistic, hateful, untrustworthy or a city girl.I can be your best friend (if you let me) , but mistreat me and you don't get a second chance. Been stabbed in the back, walked on, and drug through the trenches too many times to play those games again. You get what you give.Looking for someone that can appreciate affection and gives it in return. Must be honest, and doesn't play games of the heart or mind. If you want affection, you gotta give it. If you want a partner in life, you have to be one, too. Ready to have someone that wants to be there for me like I will be for them. AGAIN..you get what you give. Probably gonna be a little hard to get me to break down my safety net at first (I'm working on this part), but once you do, I'm completely yours. So PLEASE make sure I'm what you want before you start messing with my heart.Yes, I know I'm no Barbie Doll. I know I don't look like the model all you guys think you want. I am, however, the real thing. I'm not fake or a drama queen. I don't mind to get dirty (actually enjoy it at times) and know how to take care of business no matter what the situation. So if your not ready for something real, and you still need your little high maintenance princess arm candy, then go right on past me. I don't NEED someone, I WANT someone, there is a big difference. Go somewhere quiet so we are able to talk and get to know each other. I want to hear about your life, your dreams, your interests.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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