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Bao, 50
United States, Illinois, Carlyle

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About Me

I'm looking for my best friend to enjoy life with and one who is willing to make each day the best it can be. I am looking for a man who has a good sense of humor. I love to laugh. I want to meet a man that would look forward to spending some time with me yet respect my "me time" and of course I will respect your "me time" as well. No relationship should make either party feel smothered. I love attention but not constant attention. In my free time I enjoy music, listening to live bands, dancing, eating out, going to the movies, and hanging out with friends. I also enjoy a quiet night at home watching movies.. I enjoy romantic dinners, but am also happy eating take-out, ordering pizza, grilling out, or just cooking at home. I really am a "normal" down to earth girl! I love to dance, play darts and listen to OTHERS sing. me...You don't want me to! For now, I'm excited about meeting new people and taking one day at a time. I have a 23 yr old son that I love very much and he's not crazy about his mother being on this dating site. So here I'm willing to take a chance and honestly have no idea where this will lead but hopefully one day we will be friends!! I can't get to know someone over a computer. Face to face conversations is my choice. Any public place where we can talk would be fine.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Camping / Hiking Greek Japanese Korean Thai Pets
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