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Elissa, 47
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

Had an entirely different profile up here for a while, but I think it was too serious. Time to change up the bait.I'm not going to tell you a bunch of shallow things about myself. We all like walks on the beach, dinner, blah blah blah. I'm going to talk about you, the right man for me. I'm going to tell you a little about me too.Straight up, I am looking for a relationship.I'm looking for a man who knows his worth and who recognizes mine. A man who knows what he wants and goes after it. A decisive man. A man of action. Why? Because such a man is sexy in my eyes. I'm looking for a man who has his act together or is working on improving himself. I'm looking for a man who will treat me like the treasure I am. I'm looking for a man I can build a relationship with based on mutual respect, working together for common goals, enjoying each other in every aspect possible and continued growth as individuals.In return, you will find that I am a happy, passionate, well adjusted person, that I have my act together, that I take care of myself. That I don't "need" you but that I "want" you. When you're down, I will lift you up. I will support you and be your biggest cheerleader in whatever you decide to do to make yourself a better person. I will give you your time and your space as needed and I will eventually love you truly, madly, deeply!That being said, I am not going to jump into a relationship with you overnight. These things take time and I want to get to know you.On a lighter note, I love football, especially my Seahawks. You should watch a game with me some time or better yet, take me to a Chargers game! I'm flexible!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Bluegrass Middle Eastern Adventure Documentary War
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