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Ethyl, 50
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

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About Me

Hi! If I meet a man with whom I experience great compatibility, I will be a marriage-minded person since I believe that this is the sacred way of commitment and love between a man and a woman.I have been deeply dedicated for the past 18 years to raising my son; most of those years as a single mom. I am a non- I am extremely proud of my accomplishment in my rewarding journey as a mother. I love to dance, read, study and am spiritually focused. Both the mountains and the beach bring me a deep sense of relaxation and rejuvenation. I definitely enjoy quiet contemplative times on a regular basis but also need my out in the community, extrovert opportunities. I am currently exploring going in business for myself.I am looking for a man who is successful in his life, like I am - even though his success will likely look different from mine. What I am saying here is that I consider myself successful even though I am in a modest place financially. It is also important to me that a man takes care of himself physically. He does not have to be a bodybuilder, no need for that please, and I don't mind a solid body, but health should be important to him. Also it is important to me that he has done some inner work. All of us experience things in life that challenge us, but it is what we do with those difficult experiences that will make all the difference. Did you use it as a vehicle to get closer to Spirit/God? I have used my life experiences as a vehicle for personal growth and to come into a deeper spiritual understanding of myself, God, and life in general. My main motto is: Always choose back into the joy and love of yourself and others.I am interested in creating a relationship based on awareness. Creating such a relationship to me means that my partner and I would make certain agreements and commitments about how we communicate with each other and how we support ourselves and each other in being fully and lovingly present in most moments. Other ideas or philosophies welcome.I am an open and excellent communicator and share from my heart and intuition. I prefer to be in my feminine softer expression, but it certainly is helpful to do that in the loving company of a strong but sensitive man. It took effort and a deep trust as well as a deep belief in the beauty of my femininity, to maintain that femininity and I hope to find a man who deeply understands this. Many blessings.-year old son and me.-!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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