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Pippa, 48
United States, Illinois, Carbondale

Offline, last seen Mon, 08 Sep 2025 18:00:15

About Me

Fun, romance, friendship and love. Why does that seem so hard to find? I have been on here a little while now and I have found so many men are not who they say they are. Why say you are romantic, buy flowers and open car doors only for the woman to find out you are not like that at all or any more? You have been burnt so many times and are bitter that she does not get to see that side of you. Or you ask a woman out, she arrives and the man has not decided which groupon he wants to use after having days to plan the date. Or by the second or fourth date he is just trying to sleep with you. It is no wonder I hear so many men say women are serial daters. Aren't so many men too? A drama free life...really? When have you ever had or seen a drama free life? Lol. Even pastors in church have problems and drama. I have my kids ***. Is my life drama free? No. Are my kids perfect? No. Any parent who has their kids all the time cannot say they live a drama free life or that their kids are perfect. I have been witness several times to a man thinking that way. Or bitter because he has to pay child support. I am NOT bitter from my past relationships and believe me I could be. I believe in friendship and love and their are good people out there. I choose to believe that way and I don't take out my past on my relationships. Am I scared? Of course, no one wants to be hurt. But you never know until you give someone a chance. There are no guarantees when it comes to love. I am an attractive woman who likes to have fun and laugh. I like to hold hands, kiss and be romantic. Go on picnics, sit out and look up at the stars at night while snuggled by a bonfire. I very much like hugs too. : ) I would also like to find someone to play sports with and teach me about them. I am a diverse individual who has many likes and I am not afraid to try new things...except jumping from a plane. I do like to go out to dinner as well as cook at home. Cooking together while nice music is playing and maybe sneaking in a dance and kiss. Outdoor activities as well as indoor fun. I also enjoy spending time with my kids. So it is important that the man I am with also likes kids and not someone who just wants to ALWAYS be alone with me and not include them. I am their mother first and foremost. I will not settle. Life is to short to live in the past. You can not change it, only learn from it. Build a better relationship from what you have learned and don't punish others for what you have been through. conversation and a nice dinner getting to know one another

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

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