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Nerissa, 50
United States, Illinois, Bunker Hill

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I am a woman that believes in treating others as you wish to be treated. Kindness and tenderness in a relationship are not signs of weakness but of strength... I think work is a few hours in between our time together and although I like my job it doesn't make me who I am. I am childlike and playful as often as possible and love to tease but also spoil. I am very passionate and require the same. I prefer a woman that is more feminine then me but don't believe in roles as I can embrace the more creative feminine side of my spirit by cooking as well as swing a hammer and "take a look at it" if something needs fixing. If a label were necessary then I would say I am a soft butch and am old fashioned and like to open doors for my date. I want others to stare at us and be jealous of how connected and passionate we are. I am very well read and am turned on by intelligent conversations and I also love water amusement parks woo-hoo is what you will hear me yell there....I am silly yet deeply intuitive. You will find me to be very loyal, protective of those I care for and faithful once committed to someone. I am tough without being hard and love a woman with spine who can call me out when needed and soothe me when I am wounded. My family is important to me and living life fully without the drama is what speaks to me. Communication even when its hard is a must for me. Being open and honest allows another in to really know you. I am deeply connected to music and it is very important to me to be surrounded by beautiful noise and beautiful sights...Please no smokers, no drugs, no shady behavior...I mean that quite seriously the no shady behavior part as it is simply rude to not truly mean what you say...Time is precious and meant to be spent joyfully and lovingly. For my part if there isn't a connection don't try to make it happen. Offer the hand of friendship *** are the old fashioned great smelling women with long soft hair who know how to be a lady in the streets, the girl next door, and a tigress in the sheets? On our first date we would.....(you didn't think I would spoil the surprise and give it away did you?) PLEASE....NO SMOKERS.....

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    woman

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'9"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Caribbean French Indian Biography Family & Kids Western
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