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Clematis, 41
United States, Illinois, Benton

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Just ask me anything you want and I will GIVE u a CLEAR straight forward answer and EXPECT the same from you. NO GAMES, BS or DRAMA!!! I will tell you anything you wish if u just ask me and I expect honesty. I am the SWEETEST and most HIP gal you will ever meet, hard to find a gal like me to be candid. I love kayaking, skiing,dancing, shopping, dining out, movies, day trips to lakes, mtns, beach, attending sporting events even if I am not very sports minded, concerts, and grabbing a drink out. OH- if you can dance, all the better. If you can and like to dance, you may have a good chance of dating me!!! I have never tried ballroom and salsa and hope to find a man who will try this with me sometime.I have high standards for myself. I like to pamper ME because I can but I am not looking for anyone to do this for me!!. I am NOT a material girl though but I get what I want if I want something. I basically have everything I want in.life except a handsome, gentleman and companion.I am special, sexy, sweet and kind hearted. I have NO KIDS but don't mind if YOU do but it makes things more difficult as I have learned. esp. for having dates. I don't have to plan around anyone but ME!! I like it this way too. Life is way too short to NOT be happy 100% of the time. LIFe is a GAMBLE so take a gamble and write to ME if you wish. I am old fashioned in some ways.I want to have just fun, casual dating for now as I just got out of long, ***yrs) relationship that was emotionally draining!! Are you going to be my knight in shining armor??? I want to see if there any gentlmen left as my ex was A TRUE gentleman but he had some issues as most of us do.!!! Other than that he set the bar so high!! If you are passionate, fun, secure, and you are not into ONE night stands, feel free to write!! I know it is hard NOT to compare others to him as I was with HIM for past 8 yrs. I am over him though. I can learn within an hour of meeting you if we will click or not.Let things happen naturally is my motto and take one day at a time.PLease do NOT ask to bring wine or booze to my house for a first date either cuz that WON't work either.. That is JUST not good enough for me. LAME!!Also, Plese be at least 5'9. I like to wear heels occasionally. I don't want to tower over you and so a taller man appeals more to me. casual drink at some fun laid back place. Do not offer my home for 1st date or bring wine or booze to my home!!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    ***.Time for corn maze and hanted houses.who want to go.Updated ***Let me start by saying. I want to be spoil on a reg basis , but not by gifts. but by your time, your touch, your voice. your smile. I miss the touch of a man,, not by sex, but hand holding. kissing, hugging, and cuddling , i miss that hug and his kiss on on the neck. i miss the text message just to say hi. I am thinking of you in the middle of the day. just for the hell of it... .everyone has lost the true meaning of a reationship these days, yes gifts and flowers are nice, but so is a back rub when i am having a bad day, thats all I want . a nice guy who know hows to treat a female. i will do the same if I find the right guy.. I am a bigger size girl yes I am a bbw. with a big heart. .I dont smoke. but will date a smoker.as long as its not every 5 mins.. sorry. dont want a chain smoker. am looking for a guy mid 30 to late 40s age is just a number,I dont have pets, but I do like them. .. its sunday a really pretty day. when you *** tell me why you would be great for me.. i know i am on a long shot to find happiness but hell wroth a shot.. please dont think i am a witch. i just now noticed what i am really missing in life. good luckyes i am divorced with a 17 year old daughter.. .THANK YOU for taking the time to read my profile.. good luck.if you want to know anything else . send me a message..p.s.please dont be married or a real big lier.it will come out sooner or later.I am not asking for much.I want someone real.p.s. by the way i dont like getting phone calls from the guys wife . when you get busted.. not my thing sorry.. movie.maybe go to the zoo.maybe go to a shooting range..or even along drive.. or go for a drink.some where to just talk.

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a professional female and I work in the health care field as a manager. I have the opportunity to travel with my work and I enjoy seeing other parts of the country. I love to explore and check out new places and meet new people. I would describe myself as a compassionate,funny,very ambitious yet creative individual. I am a bit of a do-it-yourselfer and have been working on renovating an old victorian for the past four years. I do a lot of commuting during the week and I would prefer to meet people who live in my area. I am seeking a loyal man who is hard working, enjoys the outdoors, is a strong communicator and likes to laugh. Humour is good medicine. What I am seeking is a partner - someone who can work with me to achieve a happy and prosperous life. If what you are seeking is the next canadian supermodel or althlete of the year you have reached the wrong profile. I am just a down home, professional girl and someone who is willing to strive to improvePRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private, legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one. A drink, coffee or something low key to get to know each other a bit seems like a reasonable first meeting. PLEASE do not suggest you come to my house for a first meeting.

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Hey thanks for checking out my profile. I am new to all this so here goes. I am a mother of 4, separated after 15 yrs of marriage. Don`t get scared lol My 23 yr old daughter is in the army, my 20 yr old daughter is in college so only have my 16 yr old daughter and 15 yr old son home who are mixed by the way so if that is a problem then move on.. I like to play video games, listen to all kinds of music,reading a good book,and horror movies are my favorite. I would like to meet people to go out and have fun with life is to short... and I really need some adult conversation lol. First date would be somewhere to have a great conversation and get to know one another.

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