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Tiera, 45
United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

Hi! To make a long story short...divorced twice (first married my son's father, 2nd I married my best friend). I have a great 16 year old Son, a great job and am very good at what I do. I am intelligent, attractive, energetic, sometimes too outspoken and sometimes too set in my ways. I am NOT rich and don't own material things and don't really care (divorce and being a single parent will do that). I think I sometimes scare guys off with my who gives a crap attitude (dating), but I am ME and if you like me for who I am then great. I've kind of been a loner for awhile (never really had close girlfriends, didn't care to) and I have been kind of living in limbo since my divorce from my best friend and partner. Sure, I've dated and even got burned a couple of times, but I refuse to believe that I am going to grow old and alone, lolI am not a player, I don't like games. I am straight up and to the point and expect the same. I am looking for a great guy who can be my friend to start, lover and eventually my partner in life. But if you are just going through a separation, divorce, still hooked on your Ex or looking for an FWB, don't bother with me. I am definitely NOT interested in any of that. Like I said, I get right to the point.I'm fun to do things with, sports, beach, fishing, golfing, camping and watching Rider games (Huge Rider Fan). Many interests and try to enjoy life, but I sometimes stress about things that truly don't matter, but that is just an aspect of my personality and of me being ME. Take it or leave it. I am who I am...I should not have to change myself if someone truly cares about me, as I would not expect that of them.I want a best friend to start and hopefully my partner in life...Don't be afraid to message me. I am still optimistic that I will meet my equal on this disheartening dating site lolKat Something casual or something energetic!

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    Yes, regularly

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Well, I had this filled out all nice and pretty on my Iphone, but apparently, if you swipe the wrong way, it just erases everything you spent the last hour on FOREVER.... (sigh) Hi! I'm trying this again to see if I have better luck. I'm a farmer's daughter and I love living in the country. I work in downtown St. Louis Monday through Friday, but I really enjoy coming home to the peace/quiet and fresh air. I'm the oldest of three kids (I'm the only girl) and I can be a tomboy. I can get cleaned up really nice but feel most comfortable in a pair of jeans and my hair in a ponytail. I can (and do) cuss like a sailor (mostly when aggravated) but I have a big heart and would do anything for my family and closest friends. I have a soft spot for animals... cats especially. I love dogs too, but my cat is my baby and she runs the house. :-) I love to cook when time allows for it. I work a lot of hours in the legal industry and unfortunately sometimes it's just cereal for supper. But when I do get to cook, my brother is my biggest fan when it comes feeding time. LOL I'm fortunate to have such a tight-knit family. We are protective of each other and love to laugh. Apparently, being a chronic smart ass is hereditary and the laughter is contagious. Having a sense of humor is big for me. Common sense is another trait that seems to be lacking nowadays... I don't have any kids of my own but I am the "Crazy Aunt T" to my niece and nephews. I would love to have my own kids someday. The bar scene is getting old and I'm looking for new ways to meet people. But I guess if it was easy, everybody could do it, right? In my downtime from work, I like to read (it helps to put me to sleep... until I drop the book on my face, then I can read a few more chapters...LOL) I also love shopping, antiquing, wineries, road trips, sight seeing, flea markets (People of Walmart has NOTHING on what you can see at flea markets), sending care packages to the military, stargazing, all kinds of music except rap (although I can handle Eminem when driving home from work some days), getting dirty in the garden or whatever new landscaping idea my mom comes up with, driving the field roads with dad, playing dress up with my niece or geek games with my nephews, I prefer the mountains over the beaches, and prefer fall weather/snow over ***degrees. However, I cannot swim, ski or skate, but I can make one heck of a snow angel followed by hot chocolate and snuggling by the fireplace. I'm not interested in one night stands, head games, sexting, or FWBs, so if that's what you're wanting, I'm sorry. I'm looking for a man between the ages of 37 and 42.

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    I am a very independent woman that is looking for someone that wants to be with me because the want to, not because they have to or need something from me. I am not looking for a boodie call or a one night stand. I am a mother of 2 children and work in the education field. I love my children and my job. I am a very devoted person.I love to do just about anything outside, travel, cook, read....etc. I love all kinds of music! I am an open book... That would be decided on depending on the 2 people involved.

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I want a man who is open-minded to a variety of activities such as sports, outdoors, random road trips, cooking for me, massages, but could just as easily kick back by the lake. I am very simple, easy-going, open-minded, adventurous, and don't get into arguments. If I get upset about something, simple apology and passionate kiss will squash it. I don't want anyone in transition; never worked in past because you have to be squared away enough to focus on us. I am very natural-no makeup, no drama, no baggage-just beautiful on the inside and out and looking to share my life with someone who appreciates being treated right. Would highly prefer man to live within 30 minutes; if outside this radius, most likely won't respond. Sorry, but like my man close by in case we want to get together at last minute. I am looking for a man who is serious about finding his lifetime partner and would appreciate not to be contacted if you are just looking for fun and games; just a waste of time for both of us. Simple walk at an outdoor trail or park would be fine so we can talk and get to know one another and no lost cost if it doesn't work out. Open-minded to any ideas..

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