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United States, Illinois, Benton

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About Me

I am a huge reader. I will read anything but my favs are anything that I cant figure out. Im funny and like to pull good natured pranks. I love 50's and 60's music and classic rock. What makes me unique is that I have a keen interest in people and their personailities.I really like meeting people and getting to know them. I volenteer at various shelters and have a couple of jobs I enjoy. I have been on this site of and on for a while. My friends would say Im loyal, fun, sarcastic, and at times... a pain in the butt. However, they would also tell you Im the one who will help you move, listen to your troubles, and if asked give my opinion. I'm normal and am a half glass kinda women. I wake up each morning happy and excited to see what's going to happen. I'm adventurous but not someone who likes to take huge risks. I love to learn something new everyday I'm currently learning French and how to drive my motorcycle. I have a culinary, teaching, and psychology degree. I enjoy school. I dislike movies, books, and other venues that have sequels. Unless you are clever enough to have a great story.. Amazing! Or Shades of Gray... If you do not know the last two..maybe your a 60's fan of literature?I DO NOT suffer fools gladly...Please read entire profile because if I contact you I'm reading yours. Sounds mean... but Ive got a good bull**** meter and do not want to waste your time or mine. I know who I am very well: flaws and all and consider myself NORMAL with a little touch of weirdness. Just be you.. Ill be me. Capise?I miss the old days of people using language correctly *** constant slang. For example lol... It seems kinda lazy to me. A major turn off for me is lateness my bubba always said that it shows a lack of character and that the person whose late shows that they think their time is more important them yours.What I'm looking for..Lets chat.... before you ask me for my number or give me yours. Maybe a week or two or three....? Obviously a guy with a sense of humor who likes to be the clown and who can also take a joke. The nice guy does NOT finish last for me. I can find something good in every situation Im in, and with the people I meet.So, my top 2 pet peeves...An individual who does not know what they want out of life.... AND....People who dress innocent animals in clothing. (That is a joke.. but it does look funny and it is my beleif that the pet is actually ashamed when it meets with its peers.) Who knows? Rock climbing? A dance class? Paint Ball? Maybe over a glass of ice tea and a hot fudge sunday?

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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