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Helena, 49

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About Me

So I'm not blonde, or an athletic model...and I won't ever be (no, I'm not a gym rat). But that doesn't mean you shouldn't check me out. I'm a nice lady looking for a man who will appreciate me for me and allow me to do the same in return. Nothing special, fancy or spectacular. I live a relatively happy life...without drama...I have 2 teens who are rarely home, and all that other stuff that people do and acquire by the time they've reached my age of 49. I work as an Early Childhood Educator with kindergarten children 5 days a week so it keeps me very active...I love this profession and wouldn't trade it for anything. I like a little of everything as my interest list indicates...if not going to see a band, I love listening to music whenever given the opportunity. Not crazy about country, definitely don't like rap... otherwise, I'm game for it all. I like going/watching movies --coms. I love to entertain friends and enjoy their company very much. Drawing, painting and photography are 3 past times I have reconnected with and enjoy immensely. Dancing is also one of my fav past times ... live or dj... it's great fun! I did do ballroom dancing lessons many years ago and would love to do it again.I am told I'm an attractive woman, have all my teeth (yes, the pictures are accurate and current), a minimal amount of wrinkles for a lady my age, long red hair, blue/green eyes, a warm smile and an equally warm heart. I am a casual dress person most of the time but do enjoy dressing up when opportunities present themselves. I would like to meet a man who can wear jeans & a tee, do what needs to be done around the house, loves to do things out and about...doesn't mind dressing up a bit when called upon to do so...and is still relaxed doing it :) Someone who is easy to talk with and will listen. I would love to do more!I would love to do lots of fun, exciting, and different things yet to be discovered...and maybe some romance thrown in for good measure :-)I DON'T want to do endless chat on here. If you are interested, contact me and let's meet for a drink :) Life is meant to be lived outside :)It says long term on my profile but dating for now on the basis it all has to start somewhere right? If you say you are a "non-smoker", please be a non-smoker. If you have younger children, best of luck to you. I'm at a point in my life where my kids don't need me as much and I want to be able to spend time enjoying the company of a male friend/companion.Out of courtesy, it's nice if you respond at the very least to say ...Thank you for your interest. Looking forward to hearing from you... after the initial meet and greet... guess it's up to both of us. I do like surprises though... I am a romantic at heart... so if you know what romance is all about, you will know what to do :-)

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Separated

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Green

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Macey

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    Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 44-54

    Recently divorced and looking to infuse a little fun back into my life. You know how that goes...a couple of months being sad, a couple of months being angry, a couple of months hanging out with friends and then the decision to put it all behind you and get on with it. I firmly believe that everything happens for a reason and the trick is in what one emphasizes. We either make ourselves miserable, or we make ourselves happy. The amount of work is the same.So, what am I looking for? Someone fun to hang out with. Someone who wants to catch a live band on a Thursday night or bike the trail on a Saturday afternoon. I try to live a relatively healthy lifestyle and while I'm definitely not a gym rat, I did just start crossfit (after about 3 weeks of internal debate and 10 minutes of sitting in the parking lot talking myself into going inside) and I'm pretty excited about it! Maybe we could flip tires together. :) I should mention that I don't swim so I'm not much of a water baby. In other words, paddle boarding, diving, snorkeling in the Keys, while very Floridian, is not my thing. I might, however, be persuaded to sit on a lawn chair with a cold beer and watch you fish. How about coffee to start? Test the chemistry and see if there is mutual interest? If there is, great...we'll plan an adventure. If not, we both got to meet someone new and drink coffee...how can that be a bad thing?By the way, "wants to date but nothing serious" is not synonymous with "casual encounter". If that's what you're looking for, you won't find it here.

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    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    Banned from the local grocery & home improvement stores. Seems asking customers if they are single or know any decent single men is frowned upon... Gotta get a new plan.I really don't fit into just one personality I love adventure, nature, animals, the beach, learning, exploring & art. I love finding humor in the irony of life. Looking to find someone to enjoy life with, be it walking trails, beach, amusement parks, concerts, art shows or a new destination to explore, or doing nothing at all. Someone who is willing to put the effort into a relationship through the good and the difficult. No one is, perfect but maybe the things that make us imperfect will be the things we find irresistible about each other Meet as friends, have fun, get to know one another :) Especially If you're Gallifreyan!

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    Woman. 46 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 43-53

    I enjoy working with children and I am currently a Pre-K teacher. I love to read, being outdoors. Chilling by the fire pit with with a mixed drink in hand. Note: I am not an alcoholic lol. I love all types of music. Im open for just about anything. Casual dinner and lots of conversation.

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