Total users: 59,635,235 Online users: 214,391
Ellie, 49

Online

About Me

To all the men that have written me. There is a wonderful man that has shown a lot of interest in me and I can only dedicate my time to one man. Good luck to all of you!Hmmm. Ok I like to shop, find bargains and sell them on e-bay. I love fashion and try to dress with the times but it's getting a little harder as I get older. I keep asking myself if it's time to cut my hair short, or when I look in my closet I wonder if I need to dress differently because I'm getting older. Mentally I feel young, This age is real confusing to me. I don't know if I should be young or old? LOL. Don't worry I'm not losing my mind because of menopause. I just asked my daughter if I should really put the year I was born lmao. I will tell you more when you take me to dinner. Hope to hear from you soon. One more thing I should let you know. I don't like the cold. I just needed to put that out there for all of you that are into all the winter sports. It's great if you love to do it but I just wanted you to know that I won't be joining you. I wrote the first half of this profile about 8 months ago and now I would like to add to it. After over a decade of being divorced I am ready to find a good man to spend the rest of my life with. It's time for me again. Don't get me wrong though I like being close to where my children live but I have no qualms about being away some of the time. I now have grandchildren that I adore and cannot get enough of. I have dated on and off and actually had a great relationship with a man for a few years and I thought that we would be together forever and so did my kids but cancer hit him hard and we lost our friend a while back and miss him dearly. Knowing him well, I know that he wants me to find someone that can make me laugh. That is my number one turn on by the way. A sense of humor. There's nothing more attractive then a man with a great smile, great laugh, and OH YEA, a great women by his side. I hope I don't have to continue this again in another 8 months. Please don't write me if you don't have a picture. It's not because it's all about looks it's just a little creepy. Hope to hear from you soon, Carol I would like to go to dinner at a restaurant of the man's choice. I want to see what he likes. I'm up to just taking a walk (if it's nice out) or just about anything except a movie. I think that would be a little awkward because you can't talk.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'5"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    Yes, socially

  • Drink

    No

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

Great
stars 4.1 out of 5 based Rated 4.1 / 5 Based  on  377 reviews
  • Cressida

    Online

    Woman. 50 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 47-57

    Time to get some popcorn or M&Ms, and a bottle of wine! And, FYI: It'll get more than a "Hello, You're Cute" OR "How was your weekend?" to get my attention. And, I'm not into long distance relationships; nor interested if you have a significant gut on you. I"m looking for healthy and attractive, amongst all this. YOU: I'm hoping to find someone that is compassionate about the world around him....someone honest (okay, mostly...but, always when it's important), positive (or tries hard to be; I know, this is a tough life, eh?), sensitive (you know, has a heart, cares about the little things too), intelligent (used wisely and kindly), a good communicator (doesn't go into his man-cave every day; but, I will respect his need for down-time), healthy and fit (normal BMI: body mass index - So, what is yours? Mine is 19.9; If yours is over 25, we are not likely a match), respectful of others' opinions and beliefs, trusting, balanced, has no compulsive behaviors (such as gambling, alcoholism, lying, stealing, smoking anything including weed, or any other drug seeking activity, etc) ...Did I just lose the rest of you? Oh, and has no STDs, including cold sores. I know, STDs is a sore subject. I'm so sorry, But, it's just something I don't want, thank you. We don't talk about it; but, we should! This would include HPV (Warts), HIV/AIDS or HSV (Herpes). The incurables. The rest are mostly curable, so not too worried about the rest. Got all that? If not, there's Google...lol. He would be confident, but not arrogant; a hard worker, but not too much of a workaholic; loving, but not smothering; serious, but has a great sense of humor. Someone trustworthy (you know, does what he says he will do, have my back if I need). Someone that will exude a magical feeling when I hear his voice, or feel his touch, or just think about him. He will be outside the box on occasion, not an average man, nor an average build. He will be in incredible shape for his age, and magnificently adorable to me. His smile will make me melt. His eyes will penetrate to my soul. I want to feel one with him. His personality will sweep me off my feet, make me laugh, make me miss him when I'm gone. So, if you don't show some of your personality in your profile, it'll be hard for anyone to get excited about you....you'd blend in with the rest. He won't be deathly afraid of commitment; and commitment is something that he seeks with the right gal...but, yes, slow is good. He should not be afraid to fall in love or to say "I love you". He would not love his dogs more than me. Better if he has no dogs, lol. (I do love dogs...but, when they are competition, hmm.) Aaaaand, we would not live more than 1 hour away from each other. ** Intermission/potty break!ME: Overall, I am much of what I ask for in a man. I have no STDs, and am generally healthy and fit (can always improve, yes), with no psychiatric disorders (not bipolar, etc). I'm mostly bubbly, with a good sense of humor (usually people laughing at me), but serious about life in general. I'm a giver; but, hope to balance that out better. I am honest and loyal. I'm not a fighter; I'm a pleaser. Due to this, I've had short relationships in the past, being attracted to the wrong men...me being a codependent. But, I hope that I've passed that phase...though still working on it. I have lots of compassion, and integrity. I hope to explore more of who I am through my partner. I hope for more peace in this world, and in our relationships with others. I am pretty clean cut, but, at home, I'm willing to be your naughty girl. I have no kids or pets at home, or anywhere else. Activities: You can check out my starter list above; open to new ones...as long as my life is not in serious jeopardy. But, beneath all this, I'm simply wanting to share a life together, harmoniously, with good positive energy, and to be in love, and love life, having the trust, compassion, respect and loyalty between us. We have a short life left...Let's make the best of it.YOUR PROFILE: If your profile is lacking of who you really are, i.e. goals, your personality, recent quality pics of you smiling, then I'm not likely to respond. Pics of you, that you took, while in the bathroom? Ummmm...I think you can do better than that! And, then, if you just say "How's it going?" after a bare profile, "YIKES" is all I can say. If you respond to some of my profile, i.e. state how you are or are not a match, or say something of substance, then I know you are more serious, and thus more likely to evoke a response. Yep, I'm looking for a needle in a haystack...but, it's my life, right? Also, it would be nice if you could date your posted pics. And, for those that say it's hard to describe yourself, there is no one that knows you better than you, right? And, really, I'm much more lighthearted than this profile makes me sound. So, now that you likely drank 1.5 glasses of wine paired with your m&ms while reading my profile, I bid you Adieu, and Best Wishes. Something casual, calming, and gentle on the senses....something short and sweet.

  • Jacque

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    A little about me:My kids are grown, out of the house, and I'm looking for someone to get through my "bucket list" with. I have lots to do, see, and explore - are you in?For a more detailed description of me - I work hard and want to start playing hard too. I'm a bit of a junkie when it comes to learning about virtually anything. I've traveled quite a bit but still have many more places to explore. I continually strive to be the best person I can be, am typically self motivated but I'm looking for someone that challenges me to be a better person.I love music - all genre's. I find it interesting that virtually every man's profile on this site says they are looking for someone that is affectionate. Must be a lot of frigid women out there. Of course we are looking for someone that shows affection, otherwise I would just stay single. I don't need a guy to pay my bills (I've got that covered). Don't need any more friends really (although my ideal partner would also be my best friend). So, yes, a little affection would be nice.I love the outdoors (except when it is cold). I like dancing, bicycling, walking, hiking, playing basketball, gardening, and virtually anything else that requires me to be outdoors. I guess what may make me unique is the odd combination of being a "free spirit" yet very career focused. I'm quick to laugh but not afraid to make tough decisions. I want to experience each and every day of my life to the fullest extent possible, and to realize my full potential. I've worked very hard my entire life and spent a lot of time multi-tasking - now I want to just "be in the moment" and truly experience every thing and every person as it (or they) cross my path.I love to laugh and a great sense of humor is a must for my likely partner. Make me laugh and you are halfway there with me. Have brains, a legal source of income, no addictions, a little romance, and a sense of humor and you are pretty much golden. I try to live my life without a lot of expectations. Life is too difficult as it is without placing expectations on someone you hardly know. I'd like to meet a person that is responsible, can laugh easily, is willing to discuss "deep" topics, carry a conversation, and is ready to have fun. On a first date I would enjoy the opportunity to be someplace where we can talk and get to know each other - the zoo, a walk through the park, dinner and maybe a club where the music is nice but not so loud you can't have a conversation. Just please don't take me to a movie on a first date, please (the use of the word "please" twice was intentional).

  • Kell

    Online

    Woman. 49 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 46-56

    I am a hard working, fun loving, down to earth, southern girl! Enjoy camping, I go alone ... well almost, I take my Dawg with me! Love almost anything out doors! I am looking for someone honest and loyal. Somenone who wants to explore this world with me. Someone to enjoy the little things in life as well! I listen mostly to Country music, but enjoy all kinds. Oh yeah I am a redhead lol, so if you dare drop me a line! Meet at a resturant and have Coffee and breakfast. Either off on a hike. Or a drive into the mountains, beach ( I am versital ) ... you learn alot about a person on a long ride in a car! A picnic that was prepaired for me, maybe even a nice bottle of Marlot. With music playing, a dance or two. If all is still going well and that chemistry feels good. Out for Dinner and maybe drinks and dancing or Karoke. Okay though I love to ride on the back of a motor cycle too, just saying ; ) Taking in a museum, and going to Six Flags, Stone mt. or the zoo would be nice too! Now the work has been done for ya (lol) ... where ya at?

Follow Us: