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Tamala, 42

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About Me

Here goes - I'm not one to go on and on about myself.... I am an outgoing positive person that likes to laugh (sometimes inappropriately) and to let my hair down :) Some may say I am picky - if any of the following describes you - we may not be compatible....Prettier than me - OCD - uptight - idiotic tendencies and of course the obvious - jobless, homeless, and carless. Drinks or coffee

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'3"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Aleah

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Please READ my profile..If you can't handle a successful woman and all that comes with it....It won't work. * I'm not trying to be ugly, but it's my preference and a waste of time contacting me if otherwise.*I am diverse and well rounded. I embrace all life brings and stay busy. Between children and business I work very hard. Being the best person/parent I can be is very important to me. I enjoy my downtime. I love the ocean... I love to travel, I am... adventurous, smart, witty, loyal, outgoing, sweet, kind, confident, generous, loving, affectionate, love to laugh and not being treated like a lady is a deal breaker. I love intellectual conversation...I can go from a ball cap to a ball gown. I'm very down to earth and always try to see the positive side in any situation. God is at the center of my life.I am always open to learning and exploring new things and places. I am a self starter, philanthropist and entrepreneur. I have many different interests, far too many to list here.Please have a pic on your profile, after all initial chemistry is where it starts.I deplore liars. I will not date anyone under 5'10. My preference...Attracted to 5'***'6 tall (I'm 5'7 put on a pair of heels=tall) I am not interested in dating anyone younger than me. There is no wisdom greater than experience. I am attracted to self confident men, not arrogant, there is a big difference. Presence is a must. If you're insecure, I am not the one for you. My guy has to be loving and compassionate, but strong enough to handle me. Looking for quality individuals to spend time with and get to know starting as friends. Live by the Golden Rule...God is in charge of my life and has blessed me many times over. I am not perfect by any means, but strive to be my best. Actions speak louder than words. Control freaks.....Move on!As for you, your sense of humor will make me cry, your intelligence will keep me riveted, your smile will become an indelible image in my mind, and your eyes will reveal your love of humanity. You are never fake or pretentious - it's just not who you are. Your creativity in any way, music, writing, designing, technology, building, painting, hands that heal or words that move people, will capture my curiosity. You naturally have a way of bringing out the best in me and those around you. Being self driven and motivated, you have achieved and take pride in what you do and what you have accomplished. You also know the importance of balance of work and play and the impact of that within your life and that of others around you. Mostly, I would love to find someone that is my best friend, lover, confidante, as well as makes me laugh..loosen up, life doesn't have to be soooo serious all the time! Don't get me wrong, I have serious,deep side, but I love to enjoy life, family, friends and laughter is key. Men, if you are searching for the perfect body and size 2, I am not the women for you.If that's not ok, then pass me by...I'm not looking for the shallow Hal's of the world. ..I'm 43, beautiful, charming, funny, sexy, successful, smart, very smart, an incredible kisser and mother of three! I'm a real women and not trying to be a plastic barbie that's 25 yrs old... I was an All American athlete in 2 sports, basketball and track; a 2time gold medalist in the Jr. Olympics in the ***meters and long jump...a LONG TIME ago...Being at that level fuels me...who I am and responsible for much of my success, but I'm not in shape now. This is just where I am at this particular time in my life. I'd rather spend my extra time being a mother to my children! I believe in honesty...so there ya go! Yes, there must be attraction, but not perfection, nobody's perfect, including you. If you don't like me calling it like it is....good then, Quality Control ;) Honesty is the best policy :) My pics are CURRENT...are yours?Lastly, as direct as this profile comes across, I am quite soft, sweet and tender to those I let in my world and would do anything for those I love!A few fav quotes:How far you go in life depends on your being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will have been all of these.~; joy's soul lies in the doing.~William Shakespeare“Success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts"~ ~ With the right person anything can be fun! Coffee, lunch or dinner. You typically know right away if there is chemistry or not. No pressure and laid back. Intimate setting so we can talk and get to know each other. Stroll on the beach, a sunset, a glass of wine, dinner in a small quaint cafe, coffee.....

  • Isadora

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    Ok, a little about me: I have a couple of degrees in the graphic design/video production field and a career currently doing something else which I have aspirations for in the form of my own business. I love art & animals and the vast beauty and amazingness of nature. There is so much more to this world than meets the eye! I like different kinds of music but love rock/old metal, although the newer stuff sucks lately & I really hate scream-o.; Those are some of my favorites but there are more. I do like to dress up and have fun on Halloween... I like to have fun any time if possible, but I love it when everyone dresses up for Halloween. I think this is an amazing planet we live on and would LOVE to travel and explore it. I look forward to traveling someday to many beautiful places and soak up some scenery and culture, visit ruins, cathedrals, caves, pyramids, etc. I like to joke around and have fun with people and would like to find someone who will appreciate that and have fun with me.Who I hope to find:First off, I am not looking to jump into a relationship, I would like to take the time to get to know each other first and find out if we are compatible and have fun with each other. With that said, I would really like to find a good man. Self confident yet not arrogant who believes in loyalty and faithfulness! Someone who takes into consideration and respects what I want and what makes me happy, has my back, not just my backside, who treats me well, with respect and not just talk about it. I want a man who does what he says he is going to do (otherwise don't talk about it; show me, don't tell me). I want an attractive, good looking man who is clean, takes care of himself and keeps in shape. I want a man who is respectful and communicates & shares who he is with me but listens as well. Someone who is upfront and honest about who they are and what they want. Honesty, trust & respect are of UTMOST importance as well as a good sense of humor. By the way, I do not ask for anything I am not willing to give, myself. I would really like to find someone who loves and adores me as much as I do him, can be a best friend and have a blast playing around & hanging out, and be my sexy, hot lover. I would love to one day find a fun, monogamous relationship where we communicate & support each other rather than tear each other down or shut each other out. It is important to put in the effort to make a relationship work. I want a man who wants to please me and gladly puts in the effort to help create a great, fun, romantic, relationship. I think it is important to take the time to get to know each other first though, and find out who we each are; I'm not interested in jumping into a relationship right off the bat. If you want to date exclusively after the very first date, then it won't work out. If you are not needy, yet not into the game playing thing, are straight-up about who you are and how you are feeling, good or bad just so I know what's going on, would like to take a little time to relax, have some fun and get to know each other first... great! Does such a man exist? I hope so... Oh, and I don't "chat" online, I don't give my number out nor am I looking for a pen-pal. I also will not call you on the phone. If you are interested, absolutely do message me and we can figure it out on here. I am more about meeting up in person and talking face-to-face to see if we like each other. That's really the only way to tell if you are actually interested. :) I would like to get to know who I am with. Dinner is fine for a first date, some chai tea/coffee, or possibly if you have something different in mind that you would like to do. NO Pressure, it takes time to find out who a person is. :)

  • Aleisha

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    I am a fun, loving, very honest and loyal lady. I seem to be finding these basic qualities hard to find in a man. Which i think is quite sad. I love to horse ride, walk my dog, sit around a fire and look up at the stars. Take long drives with the sun roof open and the music playing with the long road stretched out in front of me, not always knowing where I am going to end up. I like all types of music from country to hip hop. Love cars, quading, laughing, family and quiet times with someone special. I am very easy going and although I work hard I always make sure I make time for those important to me. Im looking for someone who believes in the same values as me. Its the little things that are important. Not the big expensive things. The knowing looks those caring touches. Yes a hopeless romantic lol. Thats me! I don't judge people so please don't judge me. But if your not over your exDon't have a pic Or just want to hook up..... please contact someone else.

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