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Alvena, 42

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About Me

Disclaimer: I have read what I wrote and it tends to sound rather formal. That really isn’t who I am. I am a down to earth person who will pretty much tell it like it is (or at least how I see it). Notice the line about making others laugh, this is something I love to do! Anyways, read on and you’ll see what I mean…I value people who exhibit life ambition. This doesn’t mean that you are constantly looking to climb the corporate ladder, but rather you are always looking for ways to better yourself and broaden your horizon. This could mean schooling, but mainly it is doing the things that make you happy with who you are as a person. It could be learning a new hobby, taking a class or face and overcome a fear. A personal example would be facing my fear of claustrophobia by crawling through an enclosed maze in the dark. My heart was beating out of my chest and I hated every second of it, but once I was through I was very proud of my accomplishment.Family and friends are a very important part of life. I was raised within a loving family and I am still close with all of them. Even though we are now scattered around the U.S., we stay in touch and visit when possible. If my family or a friend needed me, I take pride in being there to support them in whatever way I am able.I am an outgoing person. I love to make people laugh. I would say that my brand of humor is sarcastic, but not mean. I am honest, sometimes I think I might be too honest. If someone asks a question looking for the answer to be what he or she wants to hear, I may be the right person. However, if I sense that this is the case I will ask the person if they really want to hear my opinion. Just because I’m related to you or your friend doesn’t mean that I will lie to you and tell you what you want to hear. I am an independent person, but I would love to find someone to share my life with. I don’t need anyone, but I want a special someone in my life. I feel that if you need someone, a relationship won’t work. If I need someone to be happy then I am not happy with myself, and honestly, it’s too much pressure to put on someone else to make them responsible for my happiness. I think it is important for two people to have shared interests, but also to have different interest as well. Variety is the spice of life, or so I have heard. The perfect first date is something that allows plenty of time for conversation and getting to know each other.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'7"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

SIMILAR PEOPLE

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  • Carolann

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    Woman. 41 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 38-48

    I enjoy spending quality time with friends and family, getting creative in the kitchen, trying new restaurants, driving balls at the golf range, wine festival/music venues, and working on projects around my house, enjoying the solitude. Street festivals and day trips are fun, but more importantly, it's the company I prefer. I'm not sure why, but I tend to get along with people who are more outgoing than myself. I am not a crazy cat lady, nor do I own any pets, dogs being my favorite. I'm looking for a man that has a good head on is shoulders, is kind, adventurous, and athletic. I enjoy hiking, kayaking, wall climbing, antiquing, and live music venues. and would like to share these interests with you. I tend to be attracted to someone with a great smile, clean shaven or beard, those physical attributes do not matter. Responsible, confident men with a good sense of humor get my attention. On the first date, I prefer a casual meeting over coffee or drinks, to see if there is any chemistry.

  • Susannah

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    Well to let you know a little about me, I am very hard worker and love my family. I been married once a long time ago which is about 15 years ago. I have been holding out for the one that make my life complete. I love to sing, fishing, boating, and just living life to the fullest. I want to some day own my own business and have been working on that. If you want a good hearted women who has love to give then let me know. Please if you are looking for a one night stand don't look here. Don't want drama or like to play games. I think that all depends on the person and what they like to do. I would go to dinner or just for coffee to see if we have anything in common. From there we will just have to see where it takes us.

  • Inocencia

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    How hard can this be? For me, it comes down to simple basics--the things we learned when we were young: be honest, be reliable, trustworthy, a good listener, cherish and love your family and friends, remember we are all different, but different is not "bad," never judge anyone--we all have opinions and in this country we have the liberty of "freedom of speech," however, sometimes it's best to keep our thoughts to ourselves. Never hurt with intent, never spread rumors--if that's how you play, get out of the sandbox. Always be a lady. Always be respectful of those younger and older. Common interests can be helpful; however, learning new things is always exciting and sometimes more rewarding when you share the experience with someone.Top of the list: laughter is a must! I laugh at myself all the time and to laugh until your face and ribs hurt and you're crying because something is just so funny, now that's what I consider the best it can get.I am a drama-free woman. I have seen too many woman who feed the drama pool, hook up with men for all sorts of reasons--liking them, loving them or enjoying being with them, are not at the top of this list and that's just wrong!I enjoy nature and all the beauty it brings us.--perfectly prepared delights in a cozy, romantic setting.I enjoy dancing and most music. I can't get into "gangsta rap and I don't twerk." I love exploring new places, photography and architecture. I can do ball-gowns, sweats or my favorite, jeans and a white tee. I would enjoy meeting a man to hang with doing whatever--or doing nothing together.So there you have it. If anything I wrote strikes a cord, let me know. Thanks for stopping by and reading ~ Andie ~ 1. Find someone "online" you are attracted to.2. Converse online.3. Talk on the phone.4. See if you feel any "vibe."5. If so, continue talking.6. Find a mutual "happy" place to meet.7. Perhaps have a drink, coffee and be "present."8. If this feels good, then continue....

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