SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Dori
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
Is there any one out there with actual morals and genuineness to them? Stability, a job, and not living at home (with your parents!) are bonuses as well. I like to laugh and am someone that is able to laugh at themselves, I hope you are too. I'm an intelligent, fun, witty, and honest person and expect the same (hence be impeccable with your words***say what you mean and mean what you say. It absolutely gets you further with me than saying things you THINK I want to hear. If you're not genuine with your words or feelings please don't waste either of our time. It just doesn't make sense. We are adults and should act like it. So, if you've made it this far, send me an intriguing message to capture my attention and I will reply. Dealbreakers: I am not interested in being the other woman so if you're in a relationship, married, or on the rebound then please save your time. Nor am I interested in a "hook up" or friends with benefits, etc. Lastly, If I'm old enough to be your mother - please don't bother. I'm flattered and all but let's be realistic. The chances of something evolving are zero. I'm not a high maintenance girl. It's the little thoughtful things that matter the most so let's keep it simple.
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Youlanda
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I love the outdoors. Hiking, traveling, harleys, boating. I also like staying indoors and cooking . I like to give and receive affection. I'd like to meet a strong man that's not a mamas boy, who is dedicated to life and growing and learning. I am spiritual, love God! I am not into the party scene, been there, done that and had enough :-) . I like men who are authentic and really know who they are and where they are going . If you have a short fuse, keep on looking. No room for drama here. I have quite a few dear friends and hope you do too. Life is a journey and even a better journey when you have the safe place and relationship that is safe to be who I am even on a bad day. Not interested in men with kids of any age that still live at home. I am very traditional and looking for the same. Surprise me! Talking for sure :-)
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Rheanna
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Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 41-51
I think a couple can be total opposites and not have hardly anything in common, one can be a health junkie while the other a junk food junkie. One can be a professional, the other unemployed or a waitress in a small family owned diner. Both may have different beliefs, different likes and dislikes, and difference in opinions but still be the best of friends, the best lovers, and even soul mates. So when someone says "we have/don't have a lot in common" I take that with a grain of salt. Because I believe it's not only about what you have in common but it's about the differences you're willing to accept and deal with. It's the differences that makes a person unique and who they are. For me, if I'm physically attracted I look at how we connect on an emotional level, how someone makes me feel, the things they say and do, as well as the things they don't. It's not about how much someone is like myself, it's about how different they are from anyone else. It's the little things that a person brings to my spirit that mean the most. I go on a date to see if we connect or if there's energy vibes there and I simply ask questions because I'm interested in you and who you are and for conversation. Having things in common is only a bonus but some of the best relationships are those that you would think would never work because the couple are so different. Opposites do attract and that's a fact. Real love comes without reason. It's a feeling that someone possesses upon you. It just is.... If you have a reason for loving someone, you don't really love them, you like them. If you have reasons for loving someone, then you are using your mind, but if you love someone for no reason, then you are using your heart... Maybe some people don't find they're perfect match because they don't give the not so perfect a chance. Maybe they're looking for all the wrong reasons. Just my own little drawn out opinion for those that are seeking commonalities. My hobbies are playing with my little girl, spending time in the kitchen, and of course shopping. I like fishing, watching football and nascar, taking walks, going for rides to no where, and snuggling on the sofa to watch a movie. I'ld like to find a job that I actually enjoy. My favorite food is spaghetti. I like all music but I'm a country girl so I listen to more country. I do have a southern drawl in my accent. I love to take photos of things. I'm down to earth, out going, good hearted and love to joke and play. I'm also sentimental and cry during a touching or sad movie. I tend to think of others first. I love animals and children. I've wasted all of my love life on dishonest cheaters with no clue what relationship means, who think the word love means a hill of beans, and don't know what they've got till it's gone. I'm a real woman and I want a real man. Well fellas that's me in a nut shell. ;-) First date. We don't have to do anything special. Just sit and talk and focus on getting to know one another.