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Heleen, 45

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About Me

Hi……ok time to take a breath and try to somehow word the essence of me .I live in beautiful west cork where i spend my time going to work, taking pictures, walking my dog in the woods or at the beach, being a mother to my 22 year old daughter. (Its only in an advisory capacity at this stage LOL) and spending time with my friends and family.I like socializing but am really myself one to one with good interesting honest and sincere company.I hate hate hate gossip and try to live a non-materialistic life. what i'm trying to say is that i enjoy and am thankful for all the simple pleasures. I don't worry about matching curtains and cushions and the dog sometimes sleeps at the end of the bed :)My friends and family would say i'm happy, fun dependable, honest and caring { im not guessing... i asked them :))I have a strong mind but don't usually feel the need to make that obvious. its just an inner confidence that helps me to live a calm and balanced life. I sometimes think i know what i want from life but then life has a way of letting me know that you don't have it all worked out! :)I know most people say they have a good sense of humor(and is looking for someone with the same) but what makes you giggle might make me cringe or visa versa so its a useless piece of info here isn't it ? :)I love animals and have always had them in my life. (Love me love my dog ! ) That unconditional friendship is something i cherish daily and strive to find humans that have a non judgmental nature too.I am at my best when being creative and love my camera.. My photography is both my passion and my relaxation.I think I am quite complex and full of contradictions but that makes me unique and the right fit for someone……. Thanks or Reading :) comfortable.and memorable !

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Ocie

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    I am a glass half full person! I love to laugh and keep things fun! I was married for 17 years - divorced for ***I don't have any drama from my ex - our children are older and live with me full time - however they are 20 and 16 and are on the go most of the time - I work, have my own home and support myself and kids - I don't take anything for granted - Good people are hard to find - but I have faith there are still good people out there - I am one to decide on Friday to get in the car and head somewhere!- road trips are the best - especially when you have the right riding partner and snacks! I love bonfires - I am from a small town so - simple is best :-) Something casual - low key and fun :)

  • Clora

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    Woman. 43 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 40-50

    Hi, Well were do I start. I'm giving this another go & sure we'll see what happens :-) .... I love good food & fine wine. I love live music of all sorts, concerts, gigs, musicals etc .. I also get to the gym at least 3 times a week, which serves it's purposes. Keeps me fit and it keeps me out of trouble ;-) as I don't do diets ! I work hard all week, so like to enjoy some well deserved R&R on the weekends :-) whether that's the cinema, a meal out, drinks, a Sunday walk or a glass of wine & a takeaway in front of the fire. I don't reply to grey heads, so stick up a pic :-). Also please no married men, I don't share ! Or men under 38, sorry I'm not looking for a toy boy or a pen pal :-) Anything really, but must involve either coffee or red wine and a good chat . ;-) red wine in a cosy pub is much more preferable tho :-)

  • Natalya

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    Woman. 42 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 39-49

    What is the King? The King is confident and powerful. He has self-belief. He is successful. He is fit to comfortable and takes care of his mind. He is visionary. He understands we are a part of a greater Mind and the role we now play comes with creative responsibilities. He is passionate in life, not afraid to take the less or untraveled road knowing that it comes with pitfalls and setbacks and may start out as the unpopular or misunderstood. Even so, he is not afraid to take the lead knowing he is making the path smoother and clearer for those who follow behind him. The King is generous because he can be and chooses to be. He knows it will return to him in meaningful ways. The King understands the importance of communication and practices it. The King does not play romance games and is not a player because those are signs of insecurity and of not knowing what he wants or who he is. Rather, the King knows what he wants and he pursues it to secure it so that no one else can secure his preference. The King is stable emotionally and financially and is seeking to settle down into a stable relationship built on trust, passion and friendship. He is a selfless lover, powerful in the bedroom. He is romantically mature and affectionate, temperate, a good listener. He is not afraid to say I am sorry or to let his queen win in a disagreement because he understands behind every great man there is a great woman supporting, enlightening and encouraging him, and that a happy wife equates to a happy life. She completes him and life is better that way.Who am I? I am confident, assertive, sweet, sensual, romantic, genuine, spiritual, inspirational, motivational and dynamic. I am vulnerable. I am direct and intelligent. I am innovative, not afraid to produce an original thought or original action. I am imperfect and have imperfections yet I am wonderful and magical. I am afraid sometimes, but I am always able to face my fears when they come against me, and I am able to heal myself. I am expressive and fun. I am affectionate and encouraging. I am loyal. I am success minded, a healer, a strategist, a teacher. I am courageous. I have interest in science, infinite intelligence, and the evolvement of humans, all life, and mass consciousness. I have interest in good health, performances, theme parks and nature. I am a thinker. I am at a professional crossroad. I still know how to dream and how to carry the heart of a child within me. I am a powerful lover when matched with the King. I am ready now - seeking to settle down with one powerful man to face the joys and challenges of life together, as friends and lovers, side by side, creating.Having fun is important to me in life right now. That being said, getting together for a drink first initial dates as a means of getting-to-know-you do not appeal to me. They are superficial. I am wanting to build a relationship and to build it based on who we really are. I enjoy occassional social drinking but I pursue substance and meaningful dating. I am not clingy and do not like the clingy type, but I am seeking companionship. Would love to be your travel companion. If your practice is to spend a great deal of your waking or free time on this website and find it hard to stay off of it, it means you are not ready for the type of relationship I am here seeking, and I will disassociate with you. BTW - My kids are 17 & 21 yrs. I am Puerto Rican/French and when it comes to romantic connections, I am not physically attracted to African American. Please be at least 5'6 and have no heart problems . Also, it is not attractive or appealing meeting a man who is between the age of 48 to 52 who feels he has to make absolutely sure I didn't forget to notice his age as if maybe something is wrong with me for agreeing to meet him. If you are that concerned about it because you have health issues, see yourself as an old man or something along those lines, ask me before we meet. HINT: My filter says age 38 through age 52. Show confidence. If you think you are old then you absolutely are. There are many dreams lost out there. Maybe I am an angel in your life that can help lead you to one of your lost dreams. Maybe you are the angel that will lead me to some of mine. Maybe you are the magic I've been waiting for. Important Questions What makes you come alive?Before planning the first date, did you read this entire profile to make sure we are not an obvious mismatch?Do you actually have time for dating?If so, provided there is chemistry of course, will you actually make consistent time for dating? Are you decisive - able to make a plan and keep it without using the maybe, might, and I-will-gets-back-to-you crutch because you don't know how to fit someone into your life without taking her or her schedule for granted?Do you genuinely enjoy going out and doing fun things in life with a female companion beside you?If so, are you financially able to do so?Is your profile current and honest? in Pinellas CountyDinner for intelligent conversation. I want to get to know you in person. ****PRIVACY NOTICE:Warning--any person and/or *** this website or any of its associated websites, you do NOT have my permission to utilize any of my profile information nor any of the content contained herein including, but not limited to my photos. You are hereby notified that you are strictly prohibited from disclosing, copying, distributing, disseminating, or taking any other action with regard to this profile and the contents herein. The foregoing prohibitions also apply to your employee(s), agent(s), student(s) or any personnel under your direction or control. The contents of this profile are private and legally privileged and confidential information, violation of my personal privacy is punishable by law. It is recommended that other members post a similar notice to this or you may copy and paste this one.

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