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Ellen, 45

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About Me

;meet" and get to know someone before I arrive.Part of the attraction to the Okanagan is my love of the outdoors. Camping, hiking or just spending a day on a boat. Planning to get into kayaking or stand up paddle boarding. I work remotely in Recruitment and set my own schedule. I enjoy it and am passionate about what I do. I have a spiritual side and spend time studying Buddhism. Charity/volunteer work is also important to me. Will probably do more half marathons next year once settled. I don't drink and I'm not a party girl (anymore! I am outgoing, fun and easy to be with. I finally got to my first Burning Man this year and it will be an annual trip for sure. Music is a passion and I have over 27k songs on iTunes. All genres except heavy metal. When it comes to travel there are no boundaries. From 5 star resorts in Bali to 3 months backpacking in India, I'm up for it. Done something like 25 countries to date and can't wait to do more...

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Someday

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Athletic

  • Height

    5'6"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    No

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  • Caterina

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    Diving back into the proverbial dating fish pool...it's time ;-)Hummm....Are there any gentlemen left out there? Do the words honor, love and respect mean anything to you? Do you open doors for women of any age? Do you desire to get to know someone your attracted to beyond the physical? When a woman asks you to...can you step it up and communicate your feelings openly and honestly?;-) Lastly, do you have most of the drama in your life dealt with?...we all come with some baggage at this point in our life...has most of yours been zipped up, dealt with, and left behind so that you are ready and able to work towards an incredible relationship with someone equally as capable and ready?If any of the above questions resonate with your heart...read on...A little about me...Honest,loyal, compassionate, independent, beautiful (inside & out),successful, comfortable in lulus and a t-shirt and elegant in an evening gown, a romantic at heart, a half-cup full optimist. I come complete...so no assembly required...;) I've been described by friends as spontaneous, loyal, sexy, sassy, creative, optimistic,entrepreneurial, successful, and in your face honest...I believe that the truth and calling it out is often for the best as it can set us all free to learn from a situation and soar to greater heights :) What's important to me in a man:an intelligent and curious mind, beautiful inside and out to me :), successful in your own right, confident, independent,not overly judgemental, spontaneous, you know what you want from life and you "live it" by rising to the challenge in every moment regardless of whether you "feel" a situation scares you or not...you will always push yourself beyond to learn and grow. Lastly, and most important…. You live your life with integrity, which means you do what you say and say what you do…Tall order? Well maybe…but you should expect nothing less from me :-) Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing,there is a field.... I'll meet you there :-) Oh wait a minute!!! This is the 21st century and we are in the third dimension so.... ;-)

  • Ka

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    Woman. 44 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 41-51

    Ok...do you want the truth or would you prefer the cotton dry...copy and paste version of what I'm looking for and who I am? Funny....every single one of us here sounds like the best thing since sliced bread. Then why are we here if we are so good at being a partner to another human being? I don't like bs and I won't serve it to you either. You must be a man between the age of 35 and 50...we will have something in common...like the 80's.I've been asked many many times what am I looking for and why am I here? I will NOT tell you. I will not put words in your mouth just so you can tell me what I want to hear. I'm 44 years old....and I know what I want from a man and from a relationship with a man. Now it's up to you to be yourself and show me who you are. Be original, figure out who I am and what I like...then we'll click.I'm not perfect...thank God for that...and I know you aren't either. You can't fool me on this no matter how hard you will try. We can play mind games...but wouldn't that be an exhausting waste of everybody's time? And let's be honest...we are not getting any younger.This is a wonderful website to find people of all ages...shapes and sizes...ethnicity...likes and dislikes. Read mine first before you contact me so there is no confusion on your part. I am not 20 years old, so don't expect me to act like one. Do I have a firm body??? Yes I do...underneath my feminine and soft curves. Do you want to know about my sexlife? I'm here for a reason, does that answer your question? Be yourself and be honest....leave the faking to the women. Please don't ask how I know about faking and pretending...long story. Nothing about me is fake. I'm as real as it gets. Real feelings...thoughts....emotions. ..wants....needs and boobs. I'm not here to see how many men I can have sex with...so if that's all you are interested in please move on. Age is just a number...but please don't ask me to act like a bimbo because I am not one. I am a grown woman and even if you are younger than me I do expect you to act like a man and not a boy who can only see as far as his penis. Still interested? Talk to you later....Cheers My first date will have to be somewhere "safe". A coffee shop, meet at a park and just walk around. If it's hot, go for ice cream, walk around and hold hands. If it's cold, a nice hot chocolate will hit the spot while sitting across from each other holding hands. Make me laugh and the chances are we will get along.

  • Penni

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    Woman. 45 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 42-52

    I'm looking to loose the workaholic and spend more time on me(and/or some people important to me).I am very focused.I am sometimes Too selfcontained.Looking to expand my horizons I guess. This is uncomfortable for me because it is outside my"Box". I can come across as very reserved; I just need to relax and get to know the person. Anyone who knows me well knows I always mean the best and want only to do the right thing.I just got two pets after many years of not being able to have any because of work so I'm stoked about that. I'm a marshmallow inside with the crispy burned part outside. I'll change this as poop pops into my brain. ***update: I get the messages from people who want to meet me...days or weeks later...I am rarely in service...Let alone TOWN..PS STILL WORKAHOLIC!!!! Maybe I want determination...make the extra effort...I'm afraid of alone. But I want my life to coincide with someone elses. I Will not be someone else's convenience. I'm not interested in "booty calls" either. Really I'm not a difficult person!!! lol I think it's best to be up front with what I like and don't like. Finding someone to "share" things with would be great... a give and take situation. I like playing pool; I may even be in town a bit more this summer, so I can do that maybe! Holy Cow??!!I don't really know, except not "normal"?? Maybe a day fishing, 4x4ing, a few beer and talking to get to know this person.If it was dinner that'd be ok. But weird for me haven't "dated" in years.I'm less formal. Don't get me wrong I am fully able to Girlify and act like a lady. I'm just more (maybe Too?) relaxed; or trying to be!I'm just as happy with a grease gun or wrench in my hand as a rose. ***update: still not traditional!! I work with men... I am NOT Girly... sorry. favorite song RIGHT NOW: march 26 rhiana " shut up and drive" sshhh but LOUD.

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