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Calantha, 31
United States, Arkansas, Crossett

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About Me

I’ve learned to be upfront about this: I like politics and lean to the left. If you are a member of the Tea Party, good luck in your dating search, but please move on. I’m fairly new to SLC. Still learning my way around. Who I am:Smart ass – Sometimes this gets me into trouble Funny – So I've been told. I think I’m just honestOptimist – I believe there is always a silver lining if you look hard enoughActive and social – But I also love to curl up on the couch and watch a movieFortunate – I have a job that I like. I have 2 great kids.Busy – I work full time. I am actively involved in my local Buddhist organization. I also volunteerEducated – I have my AS in Business administration and my BA in Professional WritingContradictory – I am a liberal who is also a navy veteran. I have a white collar job and also several tattoos. I am an introvert who also loves to go outWho you are:Intelligent – You don’t have to have a college degree. But you need to be able to keep up in an intellectual or philosophical conversationDriven – I don’t care what you do for a living as long as you have goals; personal and/or professional31ish to 37ish – I’m not a cradle robber and I don’t have daddy issuesTall(er than me) – I can’’m only 5’2” so this isn't usually a problemDone having kids – I have 2, and I can’t have more. If you have kids of your own, all the betterDrug Free – I don’t judge what my friends do. But I also know what I do and don’t want in my daily life and around my kidsNot LDS – I’m never going to change my religion for someone, so I don’t expect anyone else to change theirs for me. I drink coffee, and like to have a few drinks every now and then Anything else will largely depend on chemistry. If it’s there, it’s there. If it’s not, it can’t be forced. A first date should be to determine if there is chemistry or not. Lunch is good. It keeps expectations within reason. And if it is unbearably awkward, it's only lunch. Second dates should be longer. Once you know there's chemistry and you decide you want to get to know a person better.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Buddhist

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'2"

  • Eye color

    Blue

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

INTERESTS

Hip-Hop Drama Martial Arts Nascar Shooting Sports
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  • Petunia from Crossett | Woman | 35 years old | Virgo
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    Woman. 35 years old. Zodiac sign: Virgo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 32-42

    I am a very fun person to be around. I would like to meet a cute guy who can make me laugh. I also think that honesty is the key thing in a relationship. Once lies and cheating goes on, everything in a relationship falls apart. I am honest, caring, funny, have a sense of humor, and considerate of other people's feelings. I like to go out a lot and have fun sometimes but I don't like to party on a daily or even weekly basis. You only live once!I also like to stay at home sometimes and just cuddle up and relax. I also love going to the gym, going shopping, traveling, dancing, going to Yankees games once in a while, going to movies, dining out, and more!I would like to meet someone with a great personality and a sense of humor. I don't want to meet a guy who wants to play games with my feelings. I would like a guy who is honest and expresses their true feelings. I would like to meet someone who is fun to be with. I want someone who is going to treat me like a woman and not like just one of their guy friends. I would like to meet a guy who is honest, trustworthy, DOES NOT PLAY HEAD GAMES, DOES NOT LIE, DOES NOT CHEAT, fun to be with, funny, cute, caring, affectionate, considerate of my feelings, and much more. Am I asking for too much? lol...I am looking for a long-term relationship with the right person that will eventually lead to marriage. If you are into games, don't bother contacting me. A good idea for a first date is either to meet for drinks/coffee and/or dinner and just talk and get to know each other to see if there's a connection there....If the weather is warmer, it's nice to take a walk in a park or on the beach to just talk and get to know each other...going to a movie isn't a great first date idea because then you don't get to know each other....I also don't like a guy who's too aggressive on the first date...I like to not to rush into anything and I feel taking it one step at a time is better than rushing into something with someone you don't even know well.... However, I am looking for a long-term relationship so I don't want to take it too slow either....

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  • Bobbi from Crossett | Woman | 31 years old | Taurus
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    Woman. 31 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 28-38

    I'm a down-to-earth and well-rounded girl that's always up for anything! I love all types of sports and enjoy both playing and watching, especially football, basketball, and softball. I also love traveling, going to concerts and movies, exploring new towns and cities, cooking and baking, and just hanging out with family and friends.I make everyday worthwhile and am always up for a good time! Whether it's going out to a sporting event or concert, or just staying home and enjoying a movie, I live every day to it's fullest. I have that sense of what really is important in life and don't let the small stuff bother me. I dance 'til I fall and laugh 'til it hurts cause life is way too short not to! I think just a cup of coffee or drink is a good first date to see if we click. However, if that goes well, I think doing something active on the next date is a fun idea. Anything from miniature golf or bowling, to going to a museum or a stroll in the park. Sitting at a nice restaurant (the typical first date) can be fun, but I feel that getting out and actually doing something helps the conversation and is a lot more fun and memorable!

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  • Portia from Crossett | Woman | 33 years old | Scorpio
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    Woman. 33 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 30-40

    Im working hard and raising my kids the best i can.I would love to find a good man who i can start a relationship with.I love my job and most of the people i work with. I love football but never been to a game. I love the Lord . I'm looking for someone who takes care of their responsibilities and who loves kids. If you want a relationship with me you gotta be willing to put your all in it ! I want someone who doesn't lie and who is very faithful. I'm the kind of girl who would love the simple stuff like flowers sent to my job for no reason.

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