SIMILAR PEOPLE
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Payton
Online
Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.
Looking for: man. In age: 52-62
Okay. Just need to say that I'm looking for a man that is dealing in the reality of himself and what he wants for today. Not what he wishes he could have had back in the day. I'm me today, looking for a man my own age dealing with the reality of what our age brings us. The good, the bad and the happily forever. I’m not so sure that writing about one’s self and then looking through photos is the best way of finding the “one”, but I do find it to be a better level above the bar scene, so here I am! And the chance of finding the “one” online has the same chance as hitting the lottery, but still we play. If for nothing else, it keeps hope alive. And as my luck would go (never having hit the lottery), my soul mate is a wee bit challenged in his pursuit of finding me. If and when he finds me, of course, that womanly cynicism goes away. LolI’m not really as impatient as it sounds. I’ve been single for 8 years after a long marriage. I don’t need someone in my life just because I may be lonely, nor do I want someone who is willing to settle just for the relief of loneliness. I work hard & do well for myself, so I’m not attracted to men who flaunt their toys or money. The treasures I look for are in the heart of the man, not in his pockets. However, being old school, I’m also not inclined to be the bread winner either. That’s such a turn off for me. Being comfortable in a balanced relationship is foundational. ( That sounds so romantic, eh? Lol)I would describe myself as a very loyal, honest, attentive woman. I’m very out-going, friendly and funny as hell. I could never take myself too seriously. My alter-ego is a comedienne. I have never met a stranger even among the hard to tolerate crowd. Children, old people, service men and women and animals are my passions. I have a gentle, giving heart and always take supreme care of those I consider mine. When I love, it’s with my whole heart and soul. When it’s right, why hold back, eh? In other words, I’m not jaded. As for what I’m attracted to in a man, it’s a crap-shoot. Lol!! Looks are not as important to me as his heart and mind. If you’re prettier than me, go get a modeling job! If you flaunt your toys and money, go get a hoe. Its easy to spot the difference between pride of effort and flaunting. He’ll need to be a quick thinker on the funny side, but not goofy. He has a heart of compassion and lots of quick witted humor. Finding joy in the little things like doing dishes together, letting me help him in his hobbies or vice versa is always a plus. He’-minded to my opinions, no matter how off they may seem to be. There’s always a possibility of that, though rare. Lol! He can respect my pride as much as I respect his ego and has no control or anger management issues. I’m terrible at training people, so he will be what he is and that will work for me. I do have a quantity of enabling in me, but there IS a limit. FYI: I take it as an insult when the first attempt at communication is based on sex or sexual in nature. I see it as very selfish behavior. Please pass me by before you try. There is such a thing as a compliment void of sexual intent. I’m better than most at sexual innuendo, but if you’re not “him”, you‘re SOL. An intellectual conversation on any subject laced with graceful humor would be a good start. As you can see by my photos, I'm not into glamor photos. I take my photos at home. I'm not one to post a photo that isn't recent. I want you to see and like it as it is today, not 20 years ago. I am what I am, so it is what it is. My hair is actually very long, red and curly. It will fall on you like gentle silk, if you're the one. It's just me, today. Like it or leave it, please. If it's not attractive to you, move on.Just a warning: if you try dragging me to a white-tie affair, I may just disappear. Not crazy about the “dressing up to have people look and drool events”. lolPS. I'm a political conservative. If you're not a conservative, you may want to rethink contacting me. My soapbox is rather high. lol! But not to inject limitations, I have a sense of the absurd, and realize that my soulmate would just happen to be a liberal. lol!!!PSS.... You must believe in God, and have at least a desire to know Him better, because His Hand is firmly on me, for better or worse. I work long weekday hours with a long commute so weekends are best for me. Drinks and nibbles at an outdoor waterside bar is appealing to me for a first meet and greet. If you take me out for huevos rancheros for brunch, ( I like to sleep in on the weekends), you may just be the "one".
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Veda
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Libra.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
Hello! I hope you can help. Looking for a REAL MAN, (not into plastic people), prefer a guy with some meat on him (wanted to feel protected should the need arise, or there be dragons lingering in the forest :) I value honesty more than anything in a relationship, without that you have no relationship. For the right person you can be my KING and I'll be your QUEEN, and the rewards could be and shall be endless.My pictures are relatively new since ***I don't photo the best but for those who need to see...been told I look better in person)As my ad said I am a plus sized girl about 5 ft 4. If you aren't into FULL FIGURED WOMEN, PLEASE don't waste your time or mine, Also if you start asking me what turns me on, or how big my bust is or anything else of that nature, it is a immediate turn off and THE CONVERSATION IS OVER!At this point in my life I am not looking for any more inter-racial relationships. Have just come from one that lasted way too long and not sure I want to go that route again, so sorry if seems racial but its not its a personal decision at this time and place in my life.I enjoy making beaded jewelry, I also love to crochet and enjoy wine tasting along with being down by the water. I also enjoy quiet times with my man and then I also like to let my hair down and enjoy a good concert. I have varied tastes and interests and would like to explore more things in life. I also enjoy watching Football on Sundays, playing steel tip darts, sunrises and sunsets. I enjoy most types of music (can only take country for so long though). Have taken to the art of trying to swing at POOR DEFENSELESS GOLF BALLS as a form of stress reduction, I've already told the LPGA not to hold any spaces open for me at this time and that I would get back to them if and when I ever improve...lol. I AM open to try things that my Future KING enjoys also.One of my goals in life is to go on a cruise.If you think you are brave enough to fight for your Queen then lets see what happens. Maybe we can both win at this Chess game called Life/Love and the pursuit of eternal happiness. Am open to new ideas and places once I feel comfortable.
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Misty
Online
Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.
Looking for: man. In age: 49-59
I am a 52 year young widow who enjoys being outside when the weather permits. I enjoy spending as much time as possible with my grand children because you never know what life will bring you. I Like watching football, baseball and sometimes Nascar on tv. Right now I am enjoying the peace and quiet at my place. I do enjoy taking walks and fixing things. I enjoy camping,fishing,crabbing and I do work on my own car when I want.One thing I would love to do even though I haven't done it in a long time is go horseback riding. Would love to go dancing even though I haven't done that in a while. I am very interested in how the criminal system works and one day I hope to be able to work in this field. Just being new to the area I am still finding my way around. I am a single woman looking for and honest and caring man who one day sweep me off my feet. Must tell you that I have 5 tattoos and they all mean something to me. I don't like head games and I am not into one night stands, so if that is what you are looking for I am not the one. Yes I have a good and sometimes wierd sense of humor and I love to make people laugh. My favorite movie is An Officer and A Gentelman and I listen to all kinds of music but my favorite is country. Going out to a movie or coffee or maybe just a walk so we can get to know one another.