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Bennie, 34

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About Me

I am a social person who loves spending time with friends and family, being active and travelling. I have a great career that I sincerely enjoy, have found success in, but love life outside of work even more. I asked a guy friend how he'd describe me and he said smart, fun, thoughtful and sincere. Obviously he had no choice but to be complimentary since I put him on the spot, but I thought that someone you don't know's opinion might be slightly more meaningful than adjectives I'd use to describe myself ;)I don't spend time at bars, have few single friends and am busy with work and life, and although I haven't had success with online dating, I'm open and relaxed about the process. If you are a fun, healthy, active and intelligent person with a quick wit and honest personality, then I'd be interested in connecting.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Never married

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    Yes

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Other

  • Body type

    Slim

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Renea

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    I\'m a hopeless romantic looking for love. My hobbies are making jewelry, catching up on my TV, and shopping. I need someone very special to stay with me and love me (and my interests).

  • Mickie

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    Woman. 34 years old. Zodiac sign: Pisces.

    Looking for: man. In age: 31-41

    ***NOT LOOKING FOR INTIMATE ENCOUNTER, OR SKEEVY GOOFS PRETENDING THEY'RE SOMETHING THEY'RE NOT!!!!*****So, if you've made it to here, thanks! Wouldn't have thought you'd need a disclaimer on a profile, ....Well, I'd call myself a pretty down to earth type of person..generally pretty happy, and easy-going. I have a great job that I enjoy, an online business I work on the side, 2 amazing kids ages 13 and 11, own my own home (with a little help from the bank), and have 2 dogs and 3 cats.I'm very independent, and am looking to find the same in a partner. I would say, I do not ask any more than I'm willing to give. Open communication, (a key) and a willingness to build in life. As long as you're experiencing, you're learning, and growing.Best saying I've ever heard, "You can shrink your dreams to match your life, or you can grow your life to match your dreams". I plan on dreaming big, and working hard to get there :)All in all, I guess I would say I am quite happy with my life, career and family, and am looking for a compliment to that,....not a "completion", or worse, a complication. I believe relationships are built, and the most important ones in life are maintained because you really want to, and you work at it.If you are someone who is secure in themselves and their life, and looking for the same type of things as you've read here, feel free to send me a message. Please note, if you send a message without a photo, I likely won't reply. Shallow, self absorbed, whatever you want to call it, ...physical attraction does play a part. On the other end of the spectrum,...a message of "Hi" will likely turn out the same. I've found the standard for trolling messages by douchey guys looking for intimate encounters or one night stands tends to be short and impersonal, with no real effort made. If you can't be bothered to type a sentence in a greeting message, or read my whole profile, we wont get along.Best of luck on your fishing :) Something casual, to get to know the other person, maybe a drink, have a bit of conversation, and decide from there.

  • Reiko

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    Woman. 32 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.

    Looking for: man. In age: 29-39

    I have seen a lot of profiles on here that say it is hard to talk about one's self; and I totally agree. Things I know about myself is that I am a hard working person, with a high sense of responsibility. If I say I am going to do something I will do it I am protective of my friends and family, but also know when to let them fight their own battles. I don't like to be pressured and like most people (even those who do not admit it, I can get cranky too). I try my hardest in everything I do, even though there will be things I can not do. (example is anything arts and craft like). I want to try new things, expand my horizons even although sometimes I need a little encouragement; its hard to go from not doing something to trying something new. I am the type of girl who, the first time I seen the ocean I had to climb down a cliff side to touch it... I can be child like... take me to the zoo and watch my eyes light up. What I am looking for? Well someone who can make me laugh and accepts me for who I am. I don't like to be pressured and I will admit I can be pretty shy. I want someone who will just hug me when I have a rough day. Or on that cold day, surprise me with a ride home from work. Not asking for a mind reader or superman; just want a down to earth personI love animals, horror movies and having a good laugh. When it comes to music I listen to a mix of everything.I am not interested in a hook up, so please do not message me for that. As well as messaging me once or twice doesn't mean I am going to meet you for coffee. I want to get to know you a bit better before taking that step. I don't care for being pressured to meet up I haven't really been on any dates to base this off of. But I think I would love to do something different, Mini golf, go for a walk in the ravine, or perhaps explore the science center.

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