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Charleen, 52

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About Me

***Well, I have been on this dating site for about 2 years now. What I've learned is that every man on here describes himself as kind, funny, great kisser, romantic, respectful, easygoing, etc. I imagine the female postings are about the same. And I am sure each of these people truly feel this way about themselves. But what really matters is what we think of each other; how we interact. One persons' idea of romantic may not be anothers' perception.I just want to find one man who talks about the right topics, not too much and not too little. We both flirt but are still respectful. We both want the same kind of relationship and aren't afraid to work for it. We both have the same sense of humor and like to do some of the same things.So I could give you a whole bunch of adjectives to describe myself but none of them really matter. What matters is how we are together-that all important elusive chemistry. I encourage us to meet for a simple glass of iced tea. No financial investment required just a small investment of time. And here is my philosphy on the timing of "when" to meet. I have exchanged countless *** prolonged periods of time only to meet a man and be able to rule them out in 5 minutes or less. Because they don't look like their photo or the photo was misleading (waist up only shots, hats, etc). Or because they are not the kind, funny, romantic, gentlman they said they were. Or perhaps, they are kind and funny and romantic in thier own opinion but not in mine. But the real reason, is becasue we spend time, in between the ***, building up in our mind, the kind of person we are looking for and are dissapointed when the person is not all that. The internet is wonderful for making connections but not so good for getting to REALLY know someone. That ya still gotta do in person.So if you want a penpal for a lengthy period of time I am probably not your gal. I say, meet for a glass of iced tea (no big expense required) and just talk. Chemistry happens immediately or not at all. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Spiritual but not religious

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Hazel

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Cherilyn

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I'm an independant, uncomplicated, compassionate woman that is tired of dependant children disguised as men. I am not high maintenance. I'm not into head games, liars and thieves. I love great conversation, witty sense of humor and am pretty open about doing anything as long as it is not illegal or may harm me. Just recently moved so this town is new to me. I take pride in myself and am a great friend to have. Honesty is a trait that is very important to me and sometimes I'm honest to a fault. I love animals and have a little zoo at home. I love all kinds of music but am not particularly fond of Rap, Classical or Opera. I am a great cook and share meals with my friends as often as possible. I would like to meet someone who wants to have a companion to share life with. When I give my heart I give it fully. If your an overly jealous person please do not respond as that is one trait that I can't stand because if I'm with someone - I'm with someone. And like I said in the beginning I have no patience for liars and thieves - unfortunetly - been there, done that- don't care to do it again! My motto is "smile and the world smiles with you". I'd like to take inspiration from Yogi Bear and grab a picnic basket, add a bottle of wine and a sunset, great conversation and go from there.

  • Aubree

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Taurus.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love to garden. I have a 5 month old puppy. I am creative (scrapbooking, photos, decorating, re-purposing). I love animals, but I don't "obsess". They are a part of my life, but I don'I't center my life around them. I love nature: water, sunsets, beaches, parks, etc. I am a bit of a handy woman and would love to learn more. I'm not materialistic, but, yes, I want and need things. I hate shopping. Not fond of cooking. Love an intelligent conversation. Can do without sport talk and sport t.v. I love exploring new music I(not hip-hop/rap or country). I love to help others in need - be it the poor, the sick, animals, etc. I don't go looking for it, but if I see it I absolutely offer my help and follow through.I am a very "social" person and strike up a conversation very easily with people, but I would rather stick to a small circle of friends in the long run. My goals? I just want to adjust to life without my son (college) and start a new social life (after 17 years)! I don't want to go out every night to accomplish this. I want to wake up in the morning knowing there is someone in the same town looking forward to a hug, a laugh, and a great kiss!Upsdate: after just a few days on this website I have learned more of what i don't want: if you feel the need to post a picture of yourself w/o a shirt on - I don' need you, if you need to post pictures of your hot tub, your swimming pool and your entire house - don't need you, if you tuck your tee shirt in your pants - don't need you, if your heavy - don't need you, if you are into watching SPORTS - do not need you, if you message every single girl - don't need you, if you can't bother to "chat", "IM", etc., for awhile to get to know each other before going out on that "first date" - certainly don't need you - that's YOUR DESPERATION, not mine., if you claim you don't have a computer - that is completely suspicious to me and other women that you are hiding your search for woman from someone else, most everyone owns a computer. Hard to believe all these men on meetville don't have a computer!!! Don't lie about you having kids. We are not going to be put off. We'll be more put off when we find out LATER! If you want a one night stand: get a whore, go to a bar, or get an escort service. Some of us are serious! IF YOU DON'T HAVE PICTURES (and that is plural) Don't bother! Ha! Been a while! I would really like to have some sort of a picnic/sunset scenario. I have NEVER had that. Always wanted that. It just occurred to me. That's "IT".

  • Opal

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Scorpio.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    People come and go. You can trust some and not others. Or you can trust some for a while and then you can't trust them any more. But Music-it's my constant. Gets me through the good times and the bad. It's always my friend. And it can always improve my mood-or at least distract me from the bad.It would be nice to meet a guy like Music...-totally awesome!!) and Trapt. Like 'em LOUD and over and over again!!BIG PS: I'm an atheist with little tolerance for anything church, god, or spiritual. I'd so love to get back in shape. So it would be nice to date someone who could also be my own personal personal trainer. We can work out together and you can show off the results!! I'm super cute, friendly, and fun. I promise it would truly be your pleasure!!! Just a relaxed time getting to know each other-somewhere on the quiet side where we can talk. Or if you want-driving super fast on a winding back road somewhere listening to some good ol' rock'n'roll! Stop somewhere quiet and pretty with a big ol' moon and laugh til we're crying!

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