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Phebe, 52

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About Me

Hi! I am updating this for the last time I think. I guess I am not a "twinky" (you know the twenty somethings, or a skinny minny) so I don't attract people like I used to... your lose I guess! I am a kind, considerate person, who always tries to smile no matter what kind of day I have had. If I am destined to be alone, so be it! I am just disappointed in the quality of people out there who are only wanting to chat, play games, or lie, lie and lie some more! My profile might not "fit" into the "mold" of what men want, and that is fine! I would rather not be a cookie cutter fit like everyone else and not meet anyone, than be just like everyone! I am an original and proud to be one! This is my brief synopsis of myself, whether you like me or not: I have a quirky sense of humor and am an avid reader. Strangers tend to talk to me and tell me their troubles while standing in line or sitting on the bus, I missed my calling I think, lol! I am generally an even-tempered, kind person who has one or 2 pet peeves; which are that I detest liars and players. I would want to start out as FRIENDS and grow from there. I am really tired of people who only want to "chat" on-line. If we live in the same city, whatever happened to communicating in person? You know, meet for coffee or tea? I am tired of the games people play, I am too old for the "crap"! If I sound too blunt for you, then sorry, but this is me! I am honest and don't believe in playing games, lying ...... If I don't answer you, it is because I don't think we would make a good match, Sorry! OH.. I don't drive which seems to be a problem for some (due to vertigo) which just means I have a dizziness problem, not that I am a "dizzy dame"... I have been looking for a job for over a year now, please do not ask if I am looking for someone to support me, I AM NOT! Also, do not try to "help" to find me a job, or ask me what I am looking for. At this point, I am willing to fit the job and not the other way around! I am also only looking for a Part-Time job, not full-time due to the Vertigo issue. So.... please, don't try to help, I will find a job in my own time and in my own way. Thanks anyway as many of you are very condescending the way you ask and "try" to help! I am kind of tired of it! So please, just leave it be if you contact me. I will see how many of you actually read my profile in its' entirety, so if you do offer to help, don't be surprised if I tell you please refer to my profile! No, I am not being a "B", just being honest and forthright! One more thing, I can be somewhat shy until I am comfortable with someone even if I don't come across that way here. I just believe in saying what I think by being honest.Thank you and good luck in your search! Meet for coffee/tea.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Jewish

  • Body type

    Curvy

  • Height

    5'4"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Isis

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Please DO NOT message me if you are under 46 or over 54 years of age. I am looking for my soul mate, starting with strong friendship. I enjoy quiet nights alone, talking and playing board games, watching movies or tv shows but also enjoy parties, going to dinner, walks and bike rides. I Am adventurous and free spirited. No real hangups. Open minded and big hearted. I enjoy a wide array of music and arts, mostly dramatic arts and musical concerts.I love to read, write and socialize. Family is very important to me. A first date should be preceded and followed by strong communication. First meet could be coffee, where we can talk and get a better idea about each other.

  • Yuette

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    Woman. 53 years old. Zodiac sign: Gemini.

    Looking for: man. In age: 50-60

    Hi guysI hope all's well in your world today.I am looking for someone to date and see where it goes from there.It's hard to choose one of the statuses above because I think I'm in between.I want to date someone nice, trusting, funny, fun, goofy, and above all laid back and doesn't sweat the small stuff.If it leads to something more, I'm all for it. I've been on my own for a long time so I'm not looking to rush into anything serious off a first date. I have a somewhat stressful job so when I come home, I like to relax or do anything else other than talk about work; go for a walk, visit friends, whatever.If you're looking for someone to replace your wife, I'm not it.I am not a possessive, negative person and I would like that you aren't either. I don't need to call you every hour to see how you're doing or what you're up to. I would like to be with someone who allows me to be who I am and not trying to change me as I would not be doing that to you. At this age, I would think we'd be beyond that mentality of thinking.Oh yeah...and please walk upright. :)I am a wee bit sarcastic but not in a hurtful way. I love to laugh and make people laugh.I'm caring and down to earth and definitely not high maintenance. I am not afraid to get my hands dirty, (or my nails) lolI am independent but heck, if you feel like swinging a hammer or doing the dishes, I would be more than happy to step aside. LOLEnjoy your search gentlemen!!I hope everyone finds their partner in life. That is entirely up to when we meet and what we feel like doing.

  • Blossom

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Leo.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    Hey!Thanks for taking the time to read this! I will not write a life story..and will keep it short and simple.This is my proposal to anyone who wants to meet me: Nothing..but you. No expectations..just honesty from you cause that is me. Must have sense of humour! Bet I can make you laugh first...try to anyway. P.S. I am petite K 5'3" and ***inch...OK that quarter inch of height I am very proud of.I do like a man that is tall. Very much a joker, love to laugh but more important--make others laugh. I put others before myself...not judgemental. Have a big heart that give and receive. Just like you, looking for a person to be with to step into this next journey of our life. I am a nice, attractive, real, lovable, adorable, person...yes I am..truly.: ) We'll decide together! Most stupid question ever or what?

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