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Vivan, 53
United States, Alabama, Marion

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About Me

Ugh!! This is the worst part, but here goes! I am compassionate, witty, and passionate......I still believe that chivalry is NOT dead! I am a real "girly-girl", but also love my sneakers and comfy flannel PJ's! You can dress me up and take me out to the classiest places, but don't be surprised when you realize I love to joke around and be goofy and playful, too (NOT in the classy restaurant, of course!! ) I am divorced with an 8 year old son and value family highly.....I am blessed to still have my parents around. Since I do have a young child, I would expect and will appreciate anyone I meet to be understanding when it comes to the challenges single moms sometimes have when dating. I teach special education through private agencies and love what I do.......I pride myself on my ability to be sensitive and establish good relationships with the parents I work with who have special needs children. I love infants and the elderly....they're both so precious in their own ways!! Of course, communication and trust are important, but even at this age, I think chemistry is also a must! A relationship without appreciation and passion just doesn't feel right. I am a good listener, a loyal friend, and love to make people laugh! I have a quick wit and usually laugh when I'm nervous! Making people laugh has always served as my "safety valve" since I am actually quite shy. Truthfully, I am looking for a solid relationship, as well as a man of exceptional values who will nurture my son as well as our relationship. Sure....I love the beach, and dining out, and working out, as well as candlelight and a nice glass of wine! I feel the best when I dance, although I don't really dance anywhere other than my living room anymore!! I am a classically trained musician, (my bachelor degree is in music education) but absolutely love latin, R&B, soul, and classic disco. Not looking for 'games' or causal dating. Please.....have a good sense of humor, and don't be wrapped too tight!! Thanks for reading, and good luck in your own search :)Never say never!! Timing is everything!! Perhaps a coffee (or a Dunkin' frozen hot chocolate!!) or someplace where we both feel comfortable meeting for a drink.

PERSONAL INFORMATION

  • Looking for

    man

  • Relationship

    Divorced

  • Have kids

    No

  • Wants kids

    No

  • Ethnicity

    Caucasian

  • Faith

    Christian

  • Body type

    Average

  • Height

    5'8"

  • Eye color

    Brown

  • Smoke

    No

  • Drink

    Yes, socially

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  • Savannah from Marion | Woman | 51 years old | Aries
    Savannah

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    Woman. 51 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 48-58

    Hi, I'm here looking for " The One" that I can enjoy life with. Things I would enjoy doing with him would be going places and seeing new things, going camping and sleeping under the stars. Having picnics and going on long walks. I enjoy lots of things outdoors even yard work playing in the garden. Movies are nice or having dinner out but I realy enjoy cooking and a quite night at home. There are many things to enjoy in this life, but my first true love is my God and I will be seeking him diligently in everything I do, so if there is any thing else you want to know just ask. Play it by ear, something simple at first so we could talk and get to know each other and see if we click.

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  • Jaden from Marion | Woman | 52 years old | Aries
    Jaden

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    Woman. 52 years old. Zodiac sign: Aries.

    Looking for: man. In age: 49-59

    I love spending time with my family and friends. A lot of changes have taken place in the last two years, and it has made me realize that life is too short, and it means nothing if you have no one to spend it with. I will let you know up front about my situation at this time. My mother had a triple bypass, and they clipped a lung. She can not do a lot for herself, so I have put my life on hold and moved in to help take care of her. My father passed away in march, so she has no one but me. But I do not want to quit living and hope to find a someone to spend my life with. I am looking for a caring, understanding, and sincere man to spend the rest of my life with. Some one who will share the good times, and the bad times. Someone who will stand beside me as an equal, and doesn't mind if I am my own person. I am a very strong person, with my own thoughts, and have taken care of myself and my children on my own for a very long time. But, I have a lot of love to give and am just looking for the right person to share my life with. Well, hope your out there, and maybe we can find one another here. Coffee, Dinner, or perhaps just a walk around the park.

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  • Africa from Marion | Woman | 55 years old | Sagittarius
    Africa

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    Woman. 55 years old. Zodiac sign: Sagittarius.

    Looking for: man. In age: 52-62

    I am looking for someone to share my life with- a mature adult who does not play games, and who can share their life and heart with someone else. I am looking for a person who is not a user or abuser and someone who will share my interest in museums, travel, antiques, a love of life and people.- A first date could be anything interesting and fun- walking together, eating out, movies, travel to a small town to antique, looking at books, being together and spending quality time together. A first date could also be getting to know each other through dancing, music concerts, anything the city has to offer!!!

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