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Lesalynn78NOnline
Woman. 47 years old. Zodiac sign: Capricorn.
Looking for: man. In age: 39-65
Hi! My name is Lesalynn78N. I am divorced other caucasian woman with kids from Monroe, North Carolina, United States. Now I'm looking for new relationships. I want to meet a man, love of my life.
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TanyaOnline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Aquarius.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
Updated on ***, to coincide with the changing of the seasons? ;-)I love, LOVE to dance - music moves me - body and soul - almost all types of music. I may be a mom to two young kids (3 and 6), but I would still love to go to a full-blown rave in the near future - :-) Along those lines, I love to work out - cardio, weightlifting, pilates, and yoga. I'm an all-around health-conscious person, diet included. I also enjoy gardening and decorating/interior design. The travel bug has taken hold of me as well; the more I travel, the more I want to! I'm up for trying almost anything new.I've learned the hard way to try my damnedest not to live my life for other people. That's not to say that I'm not eager to help loved ones and be there for them, especially when they need me, but I've spent too much of my life doing what I thought I was supposed to do/what I thought would make others happy, and I wound up being unhappy/unfulfilled, myself. That being said, one of my passions in life IS human connection -- always striving to never leave people worse than I found them. I wrote this awhile ago, and it still holds true for me: "I sincerely hope that the people whose paths have crossed mine in this life have been affected more positively than negatively by their interactions with me." I've learned to really try avoid judging others - you never know what you're going to do until in a given situation, yourself. I can be emotional at times, but that's because I'm a PASSIONATE person almost all the time; so there's plenty of good emotion to go with the other stuff. I, however, do not play games, and you can always count on me to say what's on my mind, even if it takes me a while to sort through my feelings.Because I work out and take care of myself, I find that I am attracted to men who do the same; I also *prefer* guys who are 6 feet or taller. It's not an absolute rule or anything, but, come on, I'm 5'10"! It honestly has very little to do with how attractive I find the guy and much more to do with how I feel when I'm with him; That may sound crazy, but it's me. Experience has taught me that if you're the kind of guy who doesn't do what he says he will, who doesn't follow through, we will most assuredly not last, no matter how great the connection. So if you're that guy who finds himself repeatedly apologizing for not doing this or that, find someone else and save us both the heartache up front. On the topic of "my type," meetville needs a middle-ground intent between "Want to date but nothing serious" and "I want a relationship"! Either way, I *could* find someone awesome, someone perfect, so I still put the full ME out there. I don't even begin to pretend to have life's plan for me figured out anymore! ;-)I'm an open book for the most part; it makes me who I am, and I find I enjoy this human experience much more that way, even if there's more vulnerability involved. I'm "living a life evolutionary."
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SadieOffline
Woman. 39 years old. Zodiac sign: Cancer.
Looking for: man. In age: 36-46
I love nature and beauty in any form - music, art, love, logic, and many, many others. I am happily busy with 4 kids, a great job, and many things I love to do. I like music, dancing, and talking to intelligent people. I tend to be a bit introverted and prefer quiet places over noisy ones. At the same time, I'm easy to get to know, very open and honest. I've been told I'm engaging and welcoming and have a great laugh.I've listed a lot of interests, some I have more knowledge and experience in than others. Astronomy, for example, I know very little about, but love to have someone share with me what they know. I have a great smile and give wonderful hugs. I am a bit geeky, notice I am a computer programmer by trade and it fits well. I am adventurous, I like to try new things and new places. I laugh when I'm nervous. I laugh when I'm happy. I laugh when I'm surprised and for all kinds of other reasons. In other words, I laugh a lot. But a rich laughter, not the high, giggly, annoying kind... Lol. I am intelligent and have a wide variety of interests.Spirituality and personal growth are an important part of my life. I'm very open-minded and like people of that mindset. Several people have asked me to define open-minded, so here's an explanation of what I mean. To me open-minded means I haven't already decided what I think about everything and I don't feel a need to cling to my opinions and defend them. I remain open to hearing new opinions, new information and allowing that to influence my thoughts on life or on a particular topic. I also think open-minded includes an acceptance that my way isn't the only way or necessarily the best way, a willingness to let myself and others be as they are. Of course I don't embody these values perfectly or all the time, but they are very important to me.Current goals - Being more present with my kids when they're with me, getting fit, spending more time with family, making new friends.Current books I'm reading - Daring Greatly by Brené Brown, Love Does by Bob GoffMy preferences in men - I tend to like intelligent, open-minded men. Age and race don't matter. I like men who are talkative and knowledgeable. I can be talkative sometimes, but not always, so I like a guy who can carry the conversation when I'm feeling quiet. I also love a guy who can stop talking and really appreciate something beautiful in nature. An open heart and someone who is honest with himself, as well as others is also appreciated. :-)THIS IS IMPORTANT - I'm looking for friendship. No pressure on things going anywhere, at any pace. Friends are good to have and I've been that fool who rushed in one time too many. Hopefully at some point one of my new friends will become something more, just not until after we know each other well. If you're okay with that and find my profile of interest, please say hello!